FabSwingers.com forum: Popular

By *one_maverick OP Man
1 week ago

Leeds/Bradford

What makes a guy popular on here? I see guys with loads of verifications and then see a lot with none or hardly any (like myself).

Is it a colour thing? I do see a lot asking for BBC.

Size?

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
1 week ago

London

"What makes a guy popular on here? I see guys with loads of verifications and then see a lot with none or hardly any (like myself).

Is it a colour thing? I do see a lot asking for BBC.

Size? "

That's a good question - I have no idea! Think some people are know from the scene though - go to clubs / events.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
1 week ago

Brum - ish

Social and conversational skills. Effort. Good profile. Respect. Ability to focus on social not just sex. Getting to events. Maintaining own standards, boundaries and self respect. Making the most of their attributes.

A mix of the above, and probably other factors I’ve forgotten, in my experience.

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By *one_maverick OP Man
1 week ago

Leeds/Bradford

I am quite bad with texting and figuring out what to say in messages. I'm a lot better in person for sure. But obviously there has to be some texting when you're on a site like this

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By *rdere OpusCouple
1 week ago

Brum - ish

"I am quite bad with texting and figuring out what to say in messages. I'm a lot better in person for sure. But obviously there has to be some texting when you're on a site like this "

Maybe socials and club nights are the way forward for you?

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By *one_maverick OP Man
1 week ago

Leeds/Bradford

"I am quite bad with texting and figuring out what to say in messages. I'm a lot better in person for sure. But obviously there has to be some texting when you're on a site like this

Maybe socials and club nights are the way forward for you? "

I am going to the Leeds social on the 1st and I am looking to start going to clubs. Just gotta find the time for clubs

Would he great if I could message a lot better though

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By *iker JackMan
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

My question is why do you want to be popular.

Popular does not mean anything. A lot of veris are from club meets or socials.

I have never wanted to be popular. I want to be me and if that’s not good enough then so be it

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By *rdere OpusCouple
1 week ago

Brum - ish

"I am quite bad with texting and figuring out what to say in messages. I'm a lot better in person for sure. But obviously there has to be some texting when you're on a site like this

Maybe socials and club nights are the way forward for you?

I am going to the Leeds social on the 1st and I am looking to start going to clubs. Just gotta find the time for clubs

Would he great if I could message a lot better though "

You don’t need to be Hemingway. A half decent first message explains why you’re interested in that profile, why you think you’d be compatible, what you have in common and what you offer/are looking for.

The rest should be a two way conversation.

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By *rHotNottsMan
1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"My question is why do you want to be popular.

Popular does not mean anything. A lot of veris are from club meets or socials.

I have never wanted to be popular. I want to be me and if that’s not good enough then so be it "

I think it’s obvious though why some people want to be, it might be misguided but most people prefer to be liked than disliked by others. What’s important to me is who I want to be liked by

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By *ndy8440Man
1 week ago

jarrow

6 weeks on here and I’m still trying to work that out.

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By *illy IdolMan
1 week ago

Midlands

Humour is often a winner 🏆

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Popularity seems to be at the expense of always giving others what they want, regardless if you get what you need.

I’d rather be of value to a few than a bargain for the many.

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By *oeBeansMan
1 week ago

Derby

"Humour is often a winner 🏆 "

And a massive cock

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By *ony MannMan
1 week ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

I put half of my meets to clubs and half to chatting on here, why I get meets no idea at all

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By *illy IdolMan
1 week ago

Midlands

"Humour is often a winner 🏆

And a massive cock"

1 out 2 isn't bad

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By *oeBeansMan
1 week ago

Derby

"Humour is often a winner 🏆

And a massive cock

1 out 2 isn't bad"

True, I've always wanted to be more funny

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By *illy IdolMan
1 week ago

Midlands

"Humour is often a winner 🏆

And a massive cock

1 out 2 isn't bad

True, I've always wanted to be more funny

give yourself more credit

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By *andering_welshman2025Man
1 week ago

Kirkby

I don’t think there’s ever a way to understand the cryptic way of getting your opening message noticed….sometimes it a case of pot luck in my opinion.

I have a rather engaging profile and show my face, read a profile and make attempts to include something from there in a message….but with the fact I’m 1 of 1000’s of men on here….i can get lost in amongst the traffic….and im probably not what the person is looking for…..its respected and accepted.

Just be yourself and do your thing….youll get noticed OP….and until you do….hold your head high and say “it’s their loss”

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By *each needs some creamWoman
1 week ago

Ilfracombe

"I put half of my meets to clubs and half to chatting on here, why I get meets no idea at all"

You be careful about people you meet at clubs you never know what might happen when they sit down next to you. Lol

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