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"Narcissistic??" Is that what you’d say it is? | |||
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"Narcissistic?? Is that what you’d say it is? " It's a possibility yes NPD ? | |||
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"Narcissistic?? Is that what you’d say it is? It's a possibility yes NPD ? " Nice. That’s an interesting perspective.  | |||
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"No. Feeling good about yourself is good for the mental health! " Honestly good mental health is the shit. | |||
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"Narcissistic?? Is that what you’d say it is? It's a possibility yes NPD ? Nice. That’s an interesting perspective. "Don't rule out the less understood  | |||
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"I thought you didn't cast a reflection in a mirror pickle?😛😛😛"  this isn’t about me
But you’re right I don’t. I’m not even a real person let alone an attractive one. | |||
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"I thought you didn't cast a reflection in a mirror pickle?😛😛😛 this isn’t about me
But you’re right I don’t. I’m not even a real person let alone an attractive one. "You're just an AI algorithm aren't you  | |||
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"I'd say it's perfectly normal when you look this good " if only I believed you | |||
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"Is it arrogant to look in the mirror and feel that you’re attractive? " More of a shock, personally " Is loving yourself arrogant? " I feel like these are two separate questions. You can love yourself and not feel attractive. For me, at least, living myself is about self acceptance and finally being happy in my skin. We should all strive to love ourselves a little bit. Bit deep for a Tuesday morning. | |||
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"Narcissistic?? Is that what you’d say it is? It's a possibility yes NPD ? " I’m really not sure about this. Narcs are built on insecurity that they are hiding. Usually from events between 5-7 years old. They need others to believe the facade. That’s why they control narratives. Loving yourself can be an act of gratitude or self respect. Accepting our flaws and learning to love ourselves as a whole is growth. | |||
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"No I class it as self love not narcissism." I think self love is something we should all have. I am working to get some 💪🏾 | |||
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"I thought you didn't cast a reflection in a mirror pickle?😛😛😛 this isn’t about me
But you’re right I don’t. I’m not even a real person let alone an attractive one.
You're just an AI algorithm aren't you "I am Allen Iverson regen yes | |||
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"This is why we have so many mental health issues, people putting others down and making them feel insecure about themselves. Look in the mirror and celebrate who you are , you are an amazing one of a kind individual, you can be certain there is only you who is like you. " This | |||
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"No. I love the days where I can look at myself and think 'god, you're looking good today' they don't happen often." They should. It’s good to feel that. | |||
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"No because if you don't love yourself then how do you except others to love you?" #Deep. | |||
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"Is it arrogant to look in the mirror and feel that you’re attractive? More of a shock, personally Is loving yourself arrogant? I feel like these are two separate questions. You can love yourself and not feel attractive. For me, at least, living myself is about self acceptance and finally being happy in my skin. We should all strive to love ourselves a little bit. Bit deep for a Tuesday morning." Not too deep. I think it’s real and I enjoyed reading your thoughts. | |||
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"This is why we have so many mental health issues, people putting others down and making them feel insecure about themselves. Look in the mirror and celebrate who you are , you are an amazing one of a kind individual, you can be certain there is only you who is like you. " That’s real  | |||
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"Necessary for me to.. if I don’t say it who will " I hope others would say it to you too. But it’s important to agree and actually believe it too. | |||
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"It’s a scale - having self confidence and being happy with what you seen the mirror is a good thing. Taken too far (in either direction: positively or negatively) is bad. That leads to excessive doubt or infatuation, both of which will cause you issues." Of course | |||
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"I honestly don't like what I see in a mirror so all I can say is that it's probably not. Liking yourself and how you look can lead to a better life and acceptance. However it can be taken too far into loving yourself and narcissism." It’s a journey. I hope you get there x | |||
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"Not at all- it is healthy! ❤️ " 😍😍 | |||
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"No because if you don't love yourself then how do you except others to love you? #Deep. " So very true though And I don't mean that I think I'm attractive,i just accept who I am | |||
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"No because if you don't love yourself then how do you except others to love you? #Deep. So very true though And I don't mean that I think I'm attractive,i just accept who I am " But you are defo attractive foxy … | |||
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"No because if you don't love yourself then how do you except others to love you? #Deep. So very true though And I don't mean that I think I'm attractive,i just accept who I am But you are defo attractive foxy … " Thank you  | |||
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"No because if you don't love yourself then how do you except others to love you? #Deep. So very true though And I don't mean that I think I'm attractive,i just accept who I am But you are defo attractive foxy … Thank you "You are welcome foxy … | |||
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"Is it arrogant to look in the mirror and feel that you’re attractive? Is loving yourself arrogant? " No! Definitely not x | |||
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"Is it arrogant to look in the mirror and feel that you’re attractive? Is loving yourself arrogant? " Nope it’s positive affirmation | |||
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"There was a whole thread the other day about people looking at themselves in a mirror whilst wanking, if that's not vanity I don't know what is?" Meats been attributed by psychologists as more akin to real life porn that men like seeing cumshots in porn and seeing Reflection in mirror of own cock spunking is more disembodied viewing of that aspect | |||
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"There was a whole thread the other day about people looking at themselves in a mirror whilst wanking, if that's not vanity I don't know what is?" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | |||
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"There was a whole thread the other day about people looking at themselves in a mirror whilst wanking, if that's not vanity I don't know what is? Meats been attributed by psychologists as more akin to real life porn that men like seeing cumshots in porn and seeing Reflection in mirror of own cock spunking is more disembodied viewing of that aspect " Wow that's heavy  | |||
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"No. Feeling good about yourself is good for the mental health! " All of this and more... As RuPaul said," if you can't love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love anybody else" ❤️ | |||
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"Feeling good about yourself is important for your own mental health. You don't have to be a trump esq narcissist. You can be confident in your own skin, without having to put others down. So pickle in answer no, it's important to think of yourself as at least reasonably attractive. It gives you a base to work from." I think I’m attractive. And I thank God every day that I feel that way. 🫶🏾 | |||
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"Feeling good about yourself is important for your own mental health. You don't have to be a trump esq narcissist. You can be confident in your own skin, without having to put others down. So pickle in answer no, it's important to think of yourself as at least reasonably attractive. It gives you a base to work from. I think I’m attractive. And I thank God every day that I feel that way. 🫶🏾" I haven’t always. That’s why I’m grateful for the feeling. | |||
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"Nope but you may have crossed a line if you drill a hole in it to fuck yourself. Seriously tho, we never question the days when we view ourself as looking like crap, why not celebrate the moments when we feel like fit fit fitties. " Oooooo……an idea forms I’m my tiny warped mind……. | |||
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"Nope but you may have crossed a line if you drill a hole in it to fuck yourself. Seriously tho, we never question the days when we view ourself as looking like crap, why not celebrate the moments when we feel like fit fit fitties. Oooooo……an idea forms I’m my tiny warped mind……." Flesh light glued to the otherside | |||
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"Feeling good about yourself is important for your own mental health. You don't have to be a trump esq narcissist. You can be confident in your own skin, without having to put others down. So pickle in answer no, it's important to think of yourself as at least reasonably attractive. It gives you a base to work from. I think I’m attractive. And I thank God every day that I feel that way. 🫶🏾 I haven’t always. That’s why I’m grateful for the feeling. " Yes I had that impression of you tbh, I was also not very confident in my youth too. It changed with experience and knowledge. The important thing is that you can learn to become confident, it's not something people are born with. We can all learn to believe in ourselves. | |||
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"Nope but you may have crossed a line if you drill a hole in it to fuck yourself. Seriously tho, we never question the days when we view ourself as looking like crap, why not celebrate the moments when we feel like fit fit fitties. Oooooo……an idea forms I’m my tiny warped mind……. Flesh light glued to the otherside" I’m not that flush for cash. It’ll have to be a tin of Spam with the hole bored into it. | |||
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"Is it arrogant to look in the mirror and feel that you’re attractive? Is loving yourself arrogant? " I don’t think it’s arrogant no, it’s Possibly a sign of very low self-esteem or a little bit narcissistic maybe to be so focused on yourself | |||
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"No. Feeling good about yourself is good for the mental health! " Most definitely, this ⬆️ I always feel better if I look good 😍 | |||
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"I honestly don't like what I see in a mirror so all I can say is that it's probably not. Liking yourself and how you look can lead to a better life and acceptance. However it can be taken too far into loving yourself and narcissism. It’s a journey. I hope you get there x" Thanks man, appreciate it. I'm trying, I really am. | |||
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"No, I'd say arrogance is where you expect people to treat you differently because of your self perceived attractiveness and you become entitled. Thinking you look good and feeling good about yourself isn't arrogant. " I'd agree with that. Andrew Tate is arrogant. Donald Trump is too. | |||
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"Is it arrogant to look in the mirror and feel that you’re attractive? Is loving yourself arrogant? " No. | |||
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"The myth of Narcissus is literally someone who fell in love with themselves." There's a difference between having some self worth and self confidence in your appearance, vs being so self absorbed to be narcissistic. | |||
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