FabSwingers.com forum: What is a subtle sign that someone is a good person

By *usman 199 OP Man
5 days ago

Stockport

Evening everyone

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By *urry BlokeMan
5 days ago

Stalybridge

How the view and interact with animals

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By *urry BlokeMan
5 days ago

Stalybridge

*they

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By *oxy-RedWoman
5 days ago

pink panther territory

"How the view and interact with animals"

You beat me to it

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 days ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Their username has the word glow it in. And up. And doll.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
5 days ago

Hull

When they reply to a message !!

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By *ampireLoveMan
5 days ago

Essex & Bristol

Hey laugh at your jokes even if they aren’t funny?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
5 days ago

Delightful Bliss

"How the view and interact with animals"

I Disagree. Some people treat animals wonderfully and then treat people horrifically

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By *ools and the brainCouple
5 days ago

couple, us we him her.

They have a halo

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By *anonfire96Man
5 days ago

Mansfield

Ooh tough one, people can come across as saints in public, and be monsters in private.

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By *innamon_flameWoman
5 days ago

london

They do good things when no one is looking and do not feel the need to tell others about it

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
5 days ago

Essex

If they treat everyone equally.

How they treat people who are rude to them.

And the biggest. What they’re like when they’re driving.

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By *an8iMan
5 days ago

Bilston

If they like dogs

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 days ago

Springfield

"They do good things when no one is looking and do not feel the need to tell others about it"

True but also the paradox! It's what people do when they're not seen that tells you so much, but if you don't see them...

What anyone does or says to an audience is much less reliable.

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 days ago

Springfield

"How the view and interact with animals

I Disagree. Some people treat animals wonderfully and then treat people horrifically

Yes I'm like that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
5 days ago

North West

"How the view and interact with animals"

There's a few famous examples of this not holding true.

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
5 days ago

Birmingham

Patience, care and kindness. They also take accountability instead of projecting.

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 days ago

Belfast

The clue is in the title.

Subtle good deeds and words are more telling than public proclamation.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
5 days ago

the moon

Their values … kindness … and thoughtfulness is a start ….

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 days ago

Springfield

Remembering people's names. I know not everyone has a great memory but it's interesting when someone forgets a name almost instantly.

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
5 days ago

M20

"They do good things when no one is looking and do not feel the need to tell others about it"

Very much this.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
5 days ago

North West

I'm not sure there are subtle signs. Some people I thought were good people for a long time, turned out to be less than good. People are complicated.

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By *ansoffateMan
5 days ago

Sagittarius A

"If they treat everyone equally.

How they treat people who are rude to them.

And the biggest. What they’re like when they’re driving. "

Interesting 99% of the time I am as placid as a lake whilst driving, but every know and then my eye starts twitching and the demons emerge. 😈

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
5 days ago

M20

"Hey laugh at your jokes even if they aren’t funny? "

Not sure about this. Sociopaths can be pleasers, to a point.

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By *eesside AnubisMan
5 days ago

North East

"They do good things when no one is looking and do not feel the need to tell others about it"

I agree with you.

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By *eachy00Woman
5 days ago

plymouth

"They do good things when no one is looking and do not feel the need to tell others about it

Very much this. "

Me. I like my secret games of light. Show love without a fuss

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By *ildatheart30Couple
5 days ago

Gorebridge

When they can self reflect and take responsibility

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
5 days ago

BRIDPORT

Their fridge is never empty of cheese, you know you’re onto a good’un.

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By *ymClassDropoutMan
5 days ago

Berkshire

Philanthropy

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By *ildatheart30Couple
5 days ago

Gorebridge

"Philanthropy"
I have to strongly disagree

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 days ago

Springfield

"Philanthropy I have to strongly disagree "

Jimmy Saville

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 days ago

Springfield

"Their fridge is never empty of cheese, you know you’re onto a good’un. "

If you can be anything, brie kind.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
5 days ago

Essex

"If they treat everyone equally.

How they treat people who are rude to them.

And the biggest. What they’re like when they’re driving.

Interesting 99% of the time I am as placid as a lake whilst driving, but every know and then my eye starts twitching and the demons emerge. 😈"

No-one is 100% good though. So it’s a good indicator (no pun intended).

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
5 days ago

Essex

"Their fridge is never empty of cheese, you know you’re onto a good’un.

If you can be anything, brie kind.

🤣

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
5 days ago

M20

"Philanthropy"

Nope. Look up communal narcissists.

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By *TRAY-CATMan
5 days ago

dundee

There is no subtle clue..

Everyone has good and bad in them ..we just hope the good overshadows the bad ....

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 days ago

Springfield

"There is no subtle clue..

Everyone has good and bad in them ..we just hope the good overshadows the bad .... "

I agree. Jung's shadow side lives in all of us.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
5 days ago

Castlebar

Someone who doesn't need to tell you how great they are. You can see it for yourself. Aren't we all looking for the good in people? Small actions will be obvious over time.

Not sure there is anything subtle in that.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
5 days ago

Durham

They show genuine concern for others’ feelings—like they can sense when someone needs a pick-me-up!

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 days ago

Reading

I like seeing how someone is with dogs and also how they speak to other random people that they aren’t trying to have sex with.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
5 days ago

BRIDPORT

"Their fridge is never empty of cheese, you know you’re onto a good’un.

If you can be anything, brie kind.

Very good Leo

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By *midnight-Woman
5 days ago

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"How the view and interact with animals"

Does that include or exclude eating animal's 🤔🤔🤔

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By *midnight-Woman
5 days ago

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"They do good things when no one is looking and do not feel the need to tell others about it"

This

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
5 days ago

Oldham

They are on their knees unzipping me.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
5 days ago

Wales

They care, genuinely care when you're down.

Reach out without being prompted to do so.

They spread good vibes

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By *eckard2019Man
5 days ago

North West Durham

They wave at you when you give way to them even though it's their right of way

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By *itygamesMan
5 days ago

if they cover there mouth when they cough or sneeze..

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By *iaisonseekerMan
5 days ago

Liverpool

They don't insist on telling you exactly what kind of person they are to prevent you from making up your own mind.

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By *ortney CocksWoman
5 days ago

They put the toilet seat down after themselves

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By *alcon2Man
5 days ago

North

If they're a connoisseur of jazz ..& read chomsky.

-That combo.

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 days ago

Springfield

"They put the toilet seat down after themselves "

Winner !

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By *uriousscouserWoman
4 days ago

Wirral

How they treat someone who can't do anything for them.

Not infallible I know; some of the biggest dickheads I've known have been absolutely charming to everyone on the surface.

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By *ustcallMan
4 days ago

Glasgow

Someone that will go out of their way to help you

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
4 days ago

Trowbridge

If they like horses, they’re probably noble and trustworthy—like a medieval knight but with better hygiene.

If they like dogs, they’re decent folks who know the value of loyalty (and probably have treats in their pockets).

If they like cats… well, they might be plotting world domination with their feline overlords, but at least they have good taste in evil masterminds!

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
4 days ago

Hastings

"Patience, care and kindness. They also take accountability instead of projecting."

I do like this use of projecting.

I hate people that blame others " if you had not been looking that would not have happened "

Yes very good!

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
4 days ago

Aberdeen

"They care, genuinely care when you're down.

Reach out without being prompted to do so.

They spread good vibes

Love this 🥰

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By *amie HantsWoman
4 days ago

Atlantis

They get a pudding when they don’t want one so you’re not eating jam roly poly by yourself. Special place in heaven for them

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
4 days ago

Cheshire

It has to a combination of a lot things. A good person may hold the door open and be very engaging in conversation but yet the intention is very different.

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By *a LunaWoman
4 days ago

South Wales

They stand still for too long and all the nearby wildlife (squirrels, birds, butterflies) use them as a standing post. Like in the films.

Spiders give them space because they respect how awesome that person is and they don’t want to ruin their day by scaring them.

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By *issmorganWoman
4 days ago

Calderdale innit

Morning. They don't tell everyone they're a good person

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