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The guy or girl in the bar...

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By *uff_Butler85 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Here and There...

You see that sexy individual in a pub or bar... Stood at the bar clearly alone...

Do you make a move or don't you? If you do? What's the move..

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By *uidedironwayMan
2 weeks ago

Cornwall

Make eye contact first stay where you are initially read the signals

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

little house on the praire

If I go to the bar I'd ask them if they wanted a drink

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By *obilebottomMan
2 weeks ago

All over

I don't approach, stay put, sipping on drink, occassional glance

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I leave them to their drink in peace.

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By *vaRose43Woman
2 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"You see that sexy individual in a pub or bar... Stood at the bar clearly alone...

Do you make a move or don't you? If you do? What's the move..

"

Good lord no

I’ll leave them to their drink in peace

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By *ynamicnatureMan
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

That very scenario played out for me last Halloween holidays whilst I was in Cyprus with my little boy.

A beautiful blonde lady sat a table by the bar, we glanced at each other a few times.

With my boy in one hand I walked straight up to her and introduced myself.

She turned bright red but reciprocated.

We flirted with each other for the rest of the holiday and we still see each other from time to time.😁

It just so happened that we only live an hour away from each other in UK.

I'm not shy at all in a situation like that, what's the worst that can happen?

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By *reetogoodhomeMan
2 weeks ago

Hereandthere

Approach the barman, just say to him that you got the next drink covered, IF she orders one, that way you won't be running the risk of being shot down in flames,if she has another drink it's open Season then to see if she has any interest in you & the drink situation will be a beautiful suprise for her.A shy ,quite guy in that type of situation has no chance but if he includes the barman in his plan of attack you never know he might just land .

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By *BWHunterMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool Street, London

I’d never approach then when I go home kick myself for not doing so.

I’ve got to be better this year. What’s the worst that can happen?

Love reading through these responses

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By *bitofaslutWoman
2 weeks ago

Cannock

Even if they're blatantly eyeing me up I'll assume there's someone behind me and ignore it.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'd just admire from a distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I'd order my drink, I always buy the bartender a drink so I'd just turn to the hottie next to me and offer them one. If the turn me down and I get the "I'm not interested" vibe then I'll take my drink and enjoy my evening. If they take me up on it or offer to buy me one then I'll go with the flow. I am a bit of a bar flirt.

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By *egasus NobMan
2 weeks ago

Wandsworth

Approach and just introduce yourself nothing complicated. What is your name, I am ....are here with someone - would you like to have a seat, etc.

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By *uff_Butler85 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Here and There...

So I actually did this in a pub on sat night..

Was busy and I was just having a game of pool with a couple of mates.. she was stood at the bar and looking at her phone.

I never do it but I went up and told her she looked gorgeous and asked if I could buy her a drink.

Her response... Surprised and a bit jittery she said she was waiting for her bf to turn up but she was flattered...

About an hour later she caught my eye when she was alone again and said she wish she had been with her mates that night and told me to send her a snap..

Still deciding what to do as she was lovely.

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