FabSwingers.com forum: What is your strategy?

By *BWHunter OP Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool Street, London

What do you do on Fab to find what you are looking for?

For example, I sometimes do a name search with the hope they’ve included my type in their name or do a forum search

What about you?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I don’t have a strategy. Perhaps I need one.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I set up a profile many, many moons ago.

That worked out fine. 😁

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By *andadbodMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

My strategy is not to message anyone first, and that’s working out pretty well so far 👍🏻😃

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Ask for what you want and every so often you might just get it.

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By *viatrixWoman
3 weeks ago

Redhill

When I get a message that is worth replying for I scan the profile.

Photos ✅

Height ✅

Compatibility as to what we’re looking for ✅

Literacy (I know, I am one of those anal people who mind spelling and grammar- sue me) ✅

If the boxes are ticked, I reply.

It is very, very rare I actually message people first. But if I do, I never expect a reply.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

I have a profile that I'm delighted with. That's my strategy (if I have to have a 'strategy').

It works perfectly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

We don't have one but top marks to you op for being proactive as single men are so frequently advised to.

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By *he MinionMan
3 weeks ago

Dont be a dick and dont lie about it. Will be refreshing for some and despicable to others

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Hope that as if by magic, people will appear in my inbox.

I'm not sure it's the best strategy if I'm honest.

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By *electableicecreamMan
3 weeks ago

The West

When I joined fab my strategy was to read as much on the forums as I could and then set my profile accordingly while keeping in mind the kind of people I wanted to attract.

Then I got really involved in the forum and chatted in as many threads as took my interest while flirting outrageously with those I was interested in.

That got me my first five coffee meets, an invite to a private chat group and a social event.

I had five verifications in the first six weeks.

The rest is history.

The

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By *oopy FroodMan
3 weeks ago

Orbiting Planet Rupert

To be as unattractive as possible

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By *bitofaslutWoman
3 weeks ago

Cannock

Haven't really bothered with the search because I only really made my account for VIP lists.

I tried the other day and messaged someone who totally blanked me, message unread presumably deleted. I know it's just one but there's almost nobody with the filters I set up.

- looking for TS

- 50 mile range

- looking in my age range

Nothing outrageous.

I'll stick to meeting at clubs, tweaking my profile and uploading my club outfits and see if anyone messages me first.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

No strategies here add i don't hunt. But good for you for focusing on what you want.

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By *oodmessMan
3 weeks ago

yumsville

I'm so far from fit I can't remember messaging anyone with an interest.. I suppose having half decent pics and interests that weren't cams, cyber or role play. On the whole, if their profile was half decent they probably got messaged.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

I post threads on things I’m interested in and message people that are my type of people.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

In all seriousness, since my self esteem has improved recently I am less interested in finding people on fab. If it happens it happens but I am here for socials and clubs.

That’s MY experience.

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
3 weeks ago

Londontown

Every full moon I dance around naked in the meadows hoping to get sprinkled by some pixie dust by the fabfairies!!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

[adds bottle of Sex Panther to online shopping]

Strategy. 🤞👍

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

We are meant to have strategies?

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By *rdere OpusCouple
3 weeks ago

Brum - ish

If it can be called a strategy, ours is to signup to events, create meets and use our status to try to connect with others attending in advance.

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By *2000ManMan
3 weeks ago

Worthing

Join in with forum/cam room chat.

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