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By *iker Jack OP   Man
6 days ago

Wolverhampton

Ruling out that swinging is for couples only and that if you’re not a couple you can’t swing do you think that there is a misunderstanding of this site?

That people see it more of an instashag whereas swinging is more or as equally about building up a rapport and connection for something that is normally more than a one off?

What is your honest opinion and what experience of this site and what do you use it for?

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By *naswingdressWoman
6 days ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think we put ourselves into broader categories to get what we want sometimes.

Am I a swinger? I don't know. But Fab "ethical non monogamy without romantic feelings with a possibility of group sex" probably isn't a viable business model.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 days ago

Reading

And for some reason Fab attracts people with higher iqs in my experience.

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By *arley QuimWoman
6 days ago

Somewhere

I consider it for myself as making friendships, and nice connections along the way, with some shagging thrown in.

I'm not on a dating site as I'm not looking to specifically date. I'm not on Tinder because I'm not looking specifically for just a shag.

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By *rHotNottsMan
6 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t know, I don’t think about it ! I just use the site inna way that works for me.

But you are wrong about swinging being building rapport for things that are normally more than a one off. That’s just how you see things, if others don’t it doesn’t mean they are misunderstanding. Lots of swinging is just one-off wife swapping

Swinging , traditionally was just else swapping for fun.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 days ago

Mayfair

I'm not a swinger. I would be tarred as vanilla compared to most folks on here.

I use this site for romanticised socials, dating and casual courtships...and it serves me very well.

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By *ellinever70Woman
6 days ago

Ayrshire

I mostly view it as a casual sex site.

The mechanics of how that happens is up to those participating

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By *ora the explorerWoman
6 days ago

Paradise, Herts

I use it for meeting non - swingers 🤣

Works though

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By *a LunaWoman
6 days ago

South Wales


"I mostly view it as a casual sex site.

The mechanics of how that happens is up to those participating "

This. I’ve been on other casual sex sites and Fab is just the same as those, except “Swingers” is in the title.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
6 days ago

Chichester


"I mostly view it as a casual sex site.

The mechanics of how that happens is up to those participating "

This

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 days ago

Belfast

I've always used it to meet people for sex but not in an instashag way.

I've had sex with less than 10 percent of those I've met across 4 different profiles and 9 years and that has been by choice.

I've never claimed to be a swinger as I'm not here as a lifestyle choice. It has only ever been a hobby.

In saying that, my closest friends are people I've met through fab.

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By *urry BlokeMan
6 days ago

Stalybridge

I think there's room for both.

I can't be arsed with building relationships or chasing people over protracted periods.

I don't want it. It doesn't appeal to me.

The thought of chatting / flirting with someone for months on end, I find tiresome before it even starts

I know I'll bore of it before it has legs

That said, I've always done OK on here - I guess that could be down to being willing to meet blokes on their own

If I wanted to meet women exclusively, I think Fab would be well behind me now

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
6 days ago

1127 walnut avenue

I use it for meeting other blokes that dress up in women's clothes... and it does the job..well most of the time..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
6 days ago

little house on the praire

This site is used for all types of scenarios. It has definetly changed since I joined.

People can look for whatever they like. Doesn't always mean their going to find it

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