FabSwingers.com forum: Nice guys

By *ames0007 OP Man
6 days ago

Manchester

Controversial .....but some ladies block far to easily for the genuine guys.....appreciate it's flooded with guys but come on !

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
6 days ago

the moon

They may have just found what they want 🤷‍♂️….

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
6 days ago

Maybe they don't want to mess genuine guys around so block them when they aren't interested. I wouldn't lose sleep over it

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By *naswingdressWoman
6 days ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nice guy - do you mean guys who are nice, or the patented internet Nice Guy? (A Nice Guy™ is someone who believes that he can exchange tokens of treating a woman as a person, pretending to care about her, etc, for credit towards sex, and gets upset - even angry or violent - when a woman does not participate in this barter).

What does genuine man mean?

Does it mean a person with a Y chromosome willing to engage in sex?

How does genuineness relate to what a woman wants?

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By *meliaeWoman
6 days ago

Chester

It’s just an easy way to end future time wasting if you’re not interested in someone. I have 5 messages from “just this minute” and hundreds more unread. I’m sure plenty of them are genuine guys, but if I’m not interested and they carry on messaging then it’s a waste of my time and of theirs. Blocking saves a headache for both parties.

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By *arley QuimWoman
6 days ago

Somewhere

If someone's pictures don't entice, their craic doesn't appear promising, or they live too far away. Then why not block?

It'd be ridiculous to carry on long winded conversations with folk you have zero interest in.

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By *naswingdressWoman
6 days ago

Manchester (she/her)

What are good and bad reasons to block, OP?

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By *eroLondonMan
6 days ago

Mayfair

The ladies on here aren't interested in "guys", for they resolutely seek gentlemen, lords, equerries, noblemen and paladins.

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By *naswingdressWoman
6 days ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The ladies on here aren't interested in "guys", for they resolutely seek gentlemen, lords, equerries, noblemen and paladins."

Speak for yourself

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By *eroLondonMan
6 days ago

Mayfair

"The ladies on here aren't interested in "guys", for they resolutely seek gentlemen, lords, equerries, noblemen and paladins.

Speak for yourself

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I said "ladies', not harlots. 🙂

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By *naswingdressWoman
6 days ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The ladies on here aren't interested in "guys", for they resolutely seek gentlemen, lords, equerries, noblemen and paladins.

Speak for yourself

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I said "ladies', not harlots. 🙂"

Fuck off

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
6 days ago

the moon

"The ladies on here aren't interested in "guys", for they resolutely seek gentlemen, lords, equerries, noblemen and paladins."

And 🍒💣’s

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 days ago

East Sussex

How do you know women are blocking genuine guys too easily?

I'm not saying you aren't genuine op but you can't know what 'women' are doing across the whole site.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 days ago

Mayfair

"How do you know women are blocking genuine guys too easily?

I'm not saying you aren't genuine op but you can't know what 'women' are doing across the whole site."

Women are omnipotent. They know everything, you saucy minx. 💌

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By *ucka39Man
6 days ago

Newcastle

I couldn't agree tbh op

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By *hil most chillMan
6 days ago

South East & Europe

Any guy who proclaims himself a "nice guy" is a bit of a red flag in general.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
6 days ago

The last house on the left…

"Controversial .....but some ladies block far to easily for the genuine guys.....appreciate it's flooded with guys but come on ! "

How are they supposed to know a bloke is “genuine” from just one message?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 days ago

Reading

"Nice guy - do you mean guys who are nice, or the patented internet Nice Guy? (A Nice Guy™ is someone who believes that he can exchange tokens of treating a woman as a person, pretending to care about her, etc, for credit towards sex, and gets upset - even angry or violent - when a woman does not participate in this barter).

What does genuine man mean?

Does it mean a person with a Y chromosome willing to engage in sex?

How does genuineness relate to what a woman wants?"

Great questions Swing.

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By *oughmanMan
6 days ago

Sunderland

Hey that's just their prerogative. They get to be picky and choose who fits what they want. No point in taking it personally. Ask yourself, if the role is reversed would you do the same?

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By *tsJustKateWoman
6 days ago

London

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
6 days ago

Ends

‘Nice guys’

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By *avexxMan
6 days ago

cheshire

im the last of the nice guys

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By *naswingdressWoman
6 days ago

Manchester (she/her)

"‘Nice guys’

Never changes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 days ago

East Sussex

"How do you know women are blocking genuine guys too easily?

I'm not saying you aren't genuine op but you can't know what 'women' are doing across the whole site.

Women are omnipotent. They know everything, you saucy minx. 💌"

This is true Nero!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
6 days ago

couple, us we him her.

I wouldn't class myself a a nice guy,but definitely not a "bad guy" either I'm a grumpy but honest chap who'll treat people with respect but definitely not a sycophant showering a woman with false praise to carry favour in hopes of a shag.

I'm a gentle sole with strong opinions.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
6 days ago

stanley

Nice guy is a subjective term. It will mean different things to different people . If someone says no or blocks, accept you’re not what they’re looking for and move on.

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By *ouple49Couple
6 days ago

Cheshire

"Controversial .....but some ladies block far to easily for the genuine guys.....appreciate it's flooded with guys but come on ! "

They block so they can sit back and enjoy the site, they then get the chance to look and choose for themselves. Having an inbox constantly bombaded with sometimes hundreds of messages is no fun and can’t be managed. New messages in part of an ongoing conversation are often lost amongst the desperate pleas and demands of the hoards who just don’t get how things work.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 days ago

East Sussex

"Controversial .....but some ladies block far to easily for the genuine guys.....appreciate it's flooded with guys but come on !

How much easier their life would be if they used mail filters. They wouldn't need to go to the trouble of blocking then

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By *ucka39Man
5 days ago

Newcastle

"Any guy who proclaims himself a "nice guy" is a bit of a red flag in general."

Really 😂 id prefer to be a nice guy and blow my own trumpet and let others know, rather than hide 😝

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