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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.

I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?

Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth?

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

pink panther territory

What an awful message to receive

I like the lived in look myself no botox etc

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

That's so rude. Some women!!

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

thats why i dont send messages at my age

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Wow. Nice. I can't believe people actually write shit like that.

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield

Plenty of racists on here OP.

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By *oodo222Man
2 weeks ago

WIGAN


"That's so rude. Some women!!"

Being in the minority sadly enables some women to be like this

But they are the minority of the minority

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By *IXEN200Woman
2 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

That's a cruel thing to say. It should be all about the person not the age, shallow people that's all I can say

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By *ustcallMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

When someone responds like that, you know beauty is only skin deep

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By *WANDTGCouple
2 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

If they were a similar age I wonder what they were then ?

Not nice, but we also find some younger get stroppy in their response. Especially if we've said no.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Plenty of racists on here OP. "

And ageist, racist, misandrists.

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By *jj2012Man
2 weeks ago

Barry


"Plenty of racists on here OP.

And ageist, racist, misandrists."
if you have confidence it over shadows appreance

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Plenty of racists on here OP.

And ageist, racist, misandrists. if you have confidence it over shadows appreance "

It's still no excuse.

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield


"Plenty of racists on here OP.

And ageist, racist, misandrists."

I am an old white cunt to be fair but you're not wrong.

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

i would be taken back with a message like that OP some really sad people about,,, chin up my friend

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By *rincipessaWoman
2 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

wow! that is bad. I guess not everyone operate the same way though.

Some people feel old, others look old and the exact opposite. Age doesn't enter into that. Its about the individual person and attractiveness comes in many ways

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
2 weeks ago

M20

They wouldn’t need to be rude if they set their age limit properly and had said that they weren’t interested in white men on their profile.

Come to think of it they might have saved you some time if they’d mentioned on their profile that they’re an asshole.

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By *ot so needyMan
2 weeks ago

Galway

"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'."

Sorry to hear that OP.

But I don't know you and was wondering was it an accurate description or completely uncalled for?

Because people have called me similar things at times and I have to agree with them at times🤔

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By *innamon_flameWoman
2 weeks ago

london

Well that person was just plain rude. I'm a woman of a certain age that is about as far away from the "ideal beauty standard" as you can get. I use this site to look for younger, very lean and pretty lads. The kind I went for when is was in my 20s as I never really left my 20s. I just got fatter, saggier and hornier. When I was younger I dated guys much older than me as well as my age. Sadly a lot of men on here know that they probably won't get any meets and just message women random gross stuff. Even on the forums there are those that know you'd never meet them and are purposely rude on threads and comments. Having said that there are lots of true gents on here and the club scene that prove that many a fine tune can be played on an old fiddle.

Sometimes I get lucky and find a few amazing people to grow older in the most disgraceful ways 😜

Don't let the fuckers grind you down x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'd say sexual attractiveness wanes but beauty never does.

I never understood the term 'faded beauty' applied to a person.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair


""I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'."

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Sorry to hear that OP.

But I don't know you and was wondering was it an accurate description or completely uncalled for?"

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I don't know the OP either but I would afford him the benefit of the doubt and opine that it was uncalled for.

I'm really sorry to hear that OP. ☮️

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

I prefer older people who care for their body.

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

South Wales

Well they sound like a right charmer! Better off not meeting the likes of that!!

Sadly I look my age. I have grey hair, wrinkles. I like a lived in look to my men, gives a bit of character, but I’m very aware that on the whole men are attracted to youthful looks. I’m not getting work done or any little procedures to make myself more appealing though. That’s not for me.

But age/aging is used as a weapon to beat you with by many.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

pink panther territory


""I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'."

Sorry to hear that OP.

But I don't know you and was wondering was it an accurate description or completely uncalled for?

Because people have called me similar things at times and I have to agree with them at times🤔"

I very much doubt that it was an accurate description

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Well they sound like a right charmer! Better off not meeting the likes of that!!

Sadly I look my age. I have grey hair, wrinkles. I like a lived in look to my men, gives a bit of character, but I’m very aware that on the whole men are attracted to youthful looks. I’m not getting work done or any little procedures to make myself more appealing though. That’s not for me.

But age/aging is used as a weapon to beat you with by many.

"

Yes that's very true.

A cold caller once told me that I probably had been involved in an accident that wasn't my fault but because I'm so old I couldn't remember it. He got really annoyed when I laughed out loud

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline


""I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'."

Sorry to hear that OP.

But I don't know you and was wondering was it an accurate description or completely uncalled for?

Because people have called me similar things at times and I have to agree with them at times🤔"

As I don't know them, other than a short read of their profile, with a simple complimentary message and photo, I'm not sure they could make a fulsome decision

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

That's so rude,i don't get why anyone had to send that sort of reply

They could use age filters to stop mail if they wanted to.

I don't mind the lived in look, as long as I find them attractive it wouldn't matter.

I'm nothing special myself.

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By *arry monk40Man
2 weeks ago

Telford

I found when I hit 60 I was cancelled all my work dried up and on here I'm filtered out on age 90%

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

pink panther territory

We should all embrace our age,some people don't get to grow old/older

I look in the mirror and still see my 20 year old self,then I look again and see the grey hair,wrinkles and just think it could be worse

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"We should all embrace our age,some people don't get to grow old/older

I look in the mirror and still see my 20 year old self,then I look again and see the grey hair,wrinkles and just think it could be worse "

We can still out dance the young uns . Pop some Baby D on the stereo

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"We should all embrace our age,some people don't get to grow old/older

I look in the mirror and still see my 20 year old self,then I look again and see the grey hair,wrinkles and just think it could be worse

We can still out dance the young uns . Pop some Baby D on the stereo "

We certainly can

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By *oughmanMan
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

How horrible some people can be.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central

Some people make themselves unattractive, by being so disrespectful. It's fine to have life experience guiding your choices but that's on each of us, we don't need to be abusive to those we're not interested in.

Certainly, I'd be reporting them.

I sometimes find people outside of my regular preferences to be very attractive. Likewise, people who match some of mine to not appeal.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading


"Well they sound like a right charmer! Better off not meeting the likes of that!!

Sadly I look my age. I have grey hair, wrinkles. I like a lived in look to my men, gives a bit of character, but I’m very aware that on the whole men are attracted to youthful looks. I’m not getting work done or any little procedures to make myself more appealing though. That’s not for me.

But age/aging is used as a weapon to beat you with by many.

Yes that's very true.

A cold caller once told me that I probably had been involved in an accident that wasn't my fault but because I'm so old I couldn't remember it. He got really annoyed when I laughed out loud "

Oh that's just 😂

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
2 weeks ago

Mid Glamorgan


"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.

I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?

Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth? "
that’s not nice but to answer your question I do like the naturally aged look there’s just something sexy about it

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield


"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.

I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?

Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth? that’s not nice but to answer your question I do like the naturally aged look there’s just something sexy about it "

I'm not so much naturally aged as well pickled, will that do ?

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By *ustamanMan
2 weeks ago

weymouth

Somewhere between 55 and 65 looking at the age preferences

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.

I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?

Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth? that’s not nice but to answer your question I do like the naturally aged look there’s just something sexy about it "

I have taken on a bit of an Inspector morse look.....with glasses 🤓

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
2 weeks ago

Mid Glamorgan


"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.

I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?

Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth? that’s not nice but to answer your question I do like the naturally aged look there’s just something sexy about it

I have taken on a bit of an Inspector morse look.....with glasses 🤓"
I like that look

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Fife

It's not a number for me it's their overall appearance to their body..oldest I'm with us over 60 but looks younger stamina is younger. There's some 49 who look 70!!

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
2 weeks ago

Ends

Fife, you’re objectively attractive for any age. I don’t think I’ve seen you but I can just tell.

Sorry that you received such a grim message. Hope you reported ❤️

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By *otsossieMan
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

OP there’s no need for that from anybody. Blockem

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

Hey welcome to the world of the oldies. Get some awful replies. If any at all. That being said I have also had some amazing meets, especially with younger women. Hope for us pensioners yet.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West

Just ignore the twats.

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By *olinOfBathMan
2 weeks ago

Corsham

At my regular club last year, I noticed an unfamiliar girl of about 21, probably a newcomer.

"Good evening," I said, "Is this your first time here?"

Her response was fairly straightforward: "I don't fuck granddads."

As far as I know, I don't even have any children...

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"At my regular club last year, I noticed an unfamiliar girl of about 21, probably a newcomer.

"Good evening," I said, "Is this your first time here?"

Her response was fairly straightforward: "I don't fuck granddads."

As far as I know, I don't even have any children..."

Charming

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

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By *ee642024Woman
2 weeks ago

Crook

I too have been on the receiving end of not nice messages before. Usually name calling me because i enjoy sex with men.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"I too have been on the receiving end of not nice messages before. Usually name calling me because i enjoy sex with men."

Oh the whole women can't have multiple partners thing. It's just pathetic. Enjoy it while you can

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By *ee642024Woman
2 weeks ago

Crook


"I too have been on the receiving end of not nice messages before. Usually name calling me because i enjoy sex with men.

Oh the whole women can't have multiple partners thing. It's just pathetic. Enjoy it while you can "
thanks i will.i block those who get nasty.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar


"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.

I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?

Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth? "

How someone looks doesn't bother me. I've met guys in their 50s that look 45 and vice versa. And as long as they are vaguely honest on their profile that wouldn't affect whether I met them and it doesn'tmake a difference to how attracted i am to them. How old I look definitely varies by the day too. After a night with very little sleep I think I'd qualify for an OAP bus pass 👵

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.

I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?

Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth?

How someone looks doesn't bother me. I've met guys in their 50s that look 45 and vice versa. And as long as they are vaguely honest on their profile that wouldn't affect whether I met them and it doesn'tmake a difference to how attracted i am to them. How old I look definitely varies by the day too. After a night with very little sleep I think I'd qualify for an OAP bus pass 👵"

I'd like to think the lack of sleep was because you were out dancing

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By *alldarkandharmlessMan
2 weeks ago

Ross on Wye

Anyone that sends someone a message like that should be banned from site.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar


"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.

I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?

Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth?

How someone looks doesn't bother me. I've met guys in their 50s that look 45 and vice versa. And as long as they are vaguely honest on their profile that wouldn't affect whether I met them and it doesn'tmake a difference to how attracted i am to them. How old I look definitely varies by the day too. After a night with very little sleep I think I'd qualify for an OAP bus pass 👵

I'd like to think the lack of sleep was because you were out dancing "

Dancing...yeah that's it 😇🤣

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.

I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?

Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth?

How someone looks doesn't bother me. I've met guys in their 50s that look 45 and vice versa. And as long as they are vaguely honest on their profile that wouldn't affect whether I met them and it doesn'tmake a difference to how attracted i am to them. How old I look definitely varies by the day too. After a night with very little sleep I think I'd qualify for an OAP bus pass 👵

I'd like to think the lack of sleep was because you were out dancing

Dancing...yeah that's it 😇🤣"

Or any other ahem.....exercise

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By *allipygousMan
2 weeks ago

Leicester


"Well they sound like a right charmer! Better off not meeting the likes of that!!

Sadly I look my age. I have grey hair, wrinkles. I like a lived in look to my men, gives a bit of character, but I’m very aware that on the whole men are attracted to youthful looks. I’m not getting work done or any little procedures to make myself more appealing though. That’s not for me.

But age/aging is used as a weapon to beat you with by many.

Yes that's very true.

A cold caller once told me that I probably had been involved in an accident that wasn't my fault but because I'm so old I couldn't remember it. He got really annoyed when I laughed out loud "

And you've just made me laugh out loud in public 😂

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By *oveandfastWoman
2 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

It always depends, like with any “preference”, there’s flex for someone you feel a connection with. Past partners have never looked like what I thought my “type” was and none of them look remotely similar 😂

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By *arkus1812Man
2 weeks ago

Finedon ,

I wonder what the people who insulted the OP would make of my situation, after all I am only 85

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By *ou only live onceMan
2 weeks ago

London

That's unkind and unnecessary - you're definitely not a cunt, OP!

😉

But your last question is a bit binary - there are plenty of people in-between those two extremes!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
2 weeks ago

London


"Plenty of racists on here OP.

And ageist, racist, misandrists.

I am an old white cunt to be fair but you're not wrong."

I'm an old,fat, bald, white cunt. I've got it all.

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By *innamon_flameWoman
2 weeks ago

london


"Plenty of racists on here OP.

And ageist, racist, misandrists.

I am an old white cunt to be fair but you're not wrong.

I'm an old,fat, bald, white cunt. I've got it all.

"

Hardly a cunt, more of a slowly matured drop of scotch x

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield


"Plenty of racists on here OP.

And ageist, racist, misandrists.

I am an old white cunt to be fair but you're not wrong.

I'm an old,fat, bald, white cunt. I've got it all.

"

We're living the life !

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
1 week ago

Chichester

You woukd all love to see my inbox over the years of messages. I screenshotted thousands as one day I will do a satirical memoir on my Twitter account about them

I just have a very low bar expectation of most people these days

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
1 week ago

Dunfermline


"You woukd all love to see my inbox over the years of messages. I screenshotted thousands as one day I will do a satirical memoir on my Twitter account about them

I just have a very low bar expectation of most people these days "

I do feel that discourse has got somewhat personal and lacking in quality these days

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By *cottish guy 555Man
1 week ago

London


"Plenty of racists on here OP.

And ageist, racist, misandrists.

I am an old white cunt to be fair but you're not wrong.

I'm an old,fat, bald, white cunt. I've got it all.

Hardly a cunt, more of a slowly matured drop of scotch x "

How terribly kind of you.

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