Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
 | Back to forum list |
| Back to The Lounge |
| Jump to newest |  |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is this a serious question?" • My Fab enquiries are always in earnest. 💌 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It depends on what kind of birth experience you have? I've had 3, all very different. 2nd one was very "natural", at home, no drugs or interventions. It's weird because, at the risk of sounding clichéd, it hurts but the pain is constructive and in waves, so not constant. And then the endorphins and all that kick in after delivery. Perfectly designed to make you forget about the pain and the high, just wow! Better than any drug or sexual experience I've ever had!!" • Thank you for this lovely response. 🩶 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is this a serious question?" I'm that case yes it hurts,I have 3 children all different labours but my 2nd child i was in labour for 36 hours and couldn't contract enough, my daughter was stuck her. Whilst her heart rate was going down mine was going up which ended in an emergency c-section. The recovery of a c-section is painful. Everyone's experiences are different but I didn't find any of my labours a breeze | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it strange how other women experience childbirth..." · Hence why I asked. Different people, different experiences, different ways to mitigate that pain, different outcomes, different stories and anecdotes...but ALL very interesting. 🌼🌼 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Dear ladies of the Fab Forå, my question is... ...did it hurt? 🩶" Not for me, c - section and fortunately I was up and walking the next day. Not all women have this experience. Women go through a lot to bring a life into this world. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it strange how other women experience childbirth. There wasn’t that ‘holding my baby made me forget the pain’ for me. It took awhile for me to connect to my child and before I did so, yes, I was very aware of how I felt like my body had been ripped open. The first purposefully cut to retrieve him quicker and the second being ripped open from not being properly dilated. It hurt a great deal. " You're not alone, there are many women who have this experience and can tend to feel guilty. I really hope that this isn't you. The journey is hard as it without that type of self judgement. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Four natural labours and enjoyed every one even though the third nearly killed me " You're amazing!!! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it strange how other women experience childbirth... · Hence why I asked. Different people, different experiences, different ways to mitigate that pain, different outcomes, different stories and anecdotes...but ALL very interesting. 🌼🌼" They really are...it's part of my bread and butter and you would be surprised at how different the stories can be! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes, Nero. I’m pretty sure I felt my soul ascending from my body at one point. " · Effy, did you experience this with your fifth child? 🚼🚼🚼🚼🚼 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is this a serious question? I'm that case yes it hurts,I have 3 children all different labours but my 2nd child i was in labour for 36 hours and couldn't contract enough, my daughter was stuck her. Whilst her heart rate was going down mine was going up which ended in an emergency c-section. The recovery of a c-section is painful. Everyone's experiences are different but I didn't find any of my labours a breeze" You're amazing and sharing an honest account is so important, it helps those who expect this Disney type moment which isn't very realistic. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes, it does hurt. I gave birth to 2 babies without any sort of pain relief. With one my blood pressure was too low and the other one there was not time, she was born within 5 minutes of me arriving to hospital! But having my dislocated, fractured ankle reset in A&E hurt a thousand times more. Never felt pain like it. Makes my heart beat faster and sweat a bit when I think about it… 😰" Wow!!! No pain relief!! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is this a serious question? I'm that case yes it hurts,I have 3 children all different labours but my 2nd child i was in labour for 36 hours and couldn't contract enough, my daughter was stuck her. Whilst her heart rate was going down mine was going up which ended in an emergency c-section. The recovery of a c-section is painful. Everyone's experiences are different but I didn't find any of my labours a breeze" · 🦋 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Four natural labours and enjoyed every one even though the third nearly killed me You're amazing!!! " All women are amazing, growing a child and giving birth is a miracle in itself  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Four natural labours and enjoyed every one even though the third nearly killed me You're amazing!!! All women are amazing, growing a child and giving birth is a miracle in itself "❤️ | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it strange how other women experience childbirth. There wasn’t that ‘holding my baby made me forget the pain’ for me. It took awhile for me to connect to my child and before I did so, yes, I was very aware of how I felt like my body had been ripped open. The first purposefully cut to retrieve him quicker and the second being ripped open from not being properly dilated. It hurt a great deal. You're not alone, there are many women who have this experience and can tend to feel guilty. I really hope that this isn't you. The journey is hard as it without that type of self judgement. " I probably did feel guilty at first, not helped by some family judgement. But I did connect with them both and don’t think harshly of myself that it wasn’t instant. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Four natural labours and enjoyed every one even though the third nearly killed me You're amazing!!! All women are amazing, growing a child and giving birth is a miracle in itself "I absolutely agree with this!! I could literally talk about this all day! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes, Nero. I’m pretty sure I felt my soul ascending from my body at one point. · Effy, did you experience this with your fifth child? 🚼🚼🚼🚼🚼" You’re the worst | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ve been privileged to be at the births of both of my grandsons, both born prematurely, my first grandson being a micro preemie Although very scary it’s the most amazing thing I’ve witnessed " I was privileged to be at my daughter side when three of my Grandchildren where born,so very emotional, she had to have an emergency section for her twins and had her partner with her ,I was also there when my daughter in law had my Grandchildren she just breezed through child birth | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It can’t hurt that much, or they wouldn’t keep getting pregnant. " Let's put it this way, if men had to give birth the world would become extinct very quickly  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It can’t hurt that much, or they wouldn’t keep getting pregnant. Let's put it this way, if men had to give birth the world would become extinct very quickly "If men could get pregnant, we’d figure a way of how to do it in half the time. 9 mths seems a little excessive to have time off work.  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It can’t hurt that much, or they wouldn’t keep getting pregnant. Let's put it this way, if men had to give birth the world would become extinct very quickly
If men could get pregnant, we’d figure a way of how to do it in half the time. 9 mths seems a little excessive to have time off work. "Haha 😄 men can't cope with man flu let alone pregnancy and giving birth! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"How many women have said, 'I want another baby'? How many guys have said, 'kick me in the ballocks again' Nuff said 😁" That's only because men are big babies when it comes to pain, and women are built to combat pain. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It can’t hurt that much, or they wouldn’t keep getting pregnant. Let's put it this way, if men had to give birth the world would become extinct very quickly
If men could get pregnant, we’d figure a way of how to do it in half the time. 9 mths seems a little excessive to have time off work.
Haha 😄 men can't cope with man flu let alone pregnancy and giving birth!"· | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It can’t hurt that much, or they wouldn’t keep getting pregnant. " Is this a joke? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It can’t hurt that much, or they wouldn’t keep getting pregnant. Let's put it this way, if men had to give birth the world would become extinct very quickly
If men could get pregnant, we’d figure a way of how to do it in half the time. 9 mths seems a little excessive to have time off work.
Haha 😄 men can't cope with man flu let alone pregnancy and giving birth!"Sure we could. We’d just have a Lemsip for that too. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It's just about the most dangerous thing that a woman can do. And if it wasn't for the NHS model of treating you without needing to see a credit card first, a huge number of folk every day would face the very stark choice between life threatening complications during a birth with no medical backup, or literally going bankrupt with the costs if anything went wrong during the birth." · The poignancy on this isn't lost on me, Polly. 😘 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Recovery was/is the hardest, obviously. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It depends on what kind of birth experience you have? I've had 3, all very different. 2nd one was very "natural", at home, no drugs or interventions. It's weird because, at the risk of sounding clichéd, it hurts but the pain is constructive and in waves, so not constant. And then the endorphins and all that kick in after delivery. Perfectly designed to make you forget about the pain and the high, just wow! Better than any drug or sexual experience I've ever had!!" I've also had 3. All ridiculously fast. First in hospital where the diamorphine hit after I'd given birth. Two at home and with no pain relief at all. Yes it hurt but in each case I was surprised after the delivery as I thought I was just getting started. I can't agree that any were better than sex and dr*gs, but it's amazing how quickly you forget the pain and are more than happy to go through it again! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Nearly lost my 1st 6 wks early, 2nd I went into labour but didn't progress, I lost part of my bladder due to scarring in that one, 3rd was a straight forward c section, 4th was fairly straight forward and was sterilised and was home within 2 days as my pain management was good app
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Couple of months ago when I was going to get the anesthesia for one of my 2 ankle surgeries with heavy use of X-rays, anesthetists realised I had no negativr pregnancy test. Angst went on despite me assuring them I was NOT pregnant and willing to sign anything…
One of the doctors looked at my notes and said “aw, come on, she is 51!” And despite all my fear and crying etc I just went “OI!!!!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
No respect to the elderly 🤣🤣🤣🤣 👵🏻 👵🏻
But yeah, nothing would make me go through pregnancy/birth ever again | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It's just about the most dangerous thing that a woman can do. And if it wasn't for the NHS model of treating you without needing to see a credit card first, a huge number of folk every day would face the very stark choice between life threatening complications during a birth with no medical backup, or literally going bankrupt with the costs if anything went wrong during the birth." I agree with every word. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It's just about the most dangerous thing that a woman can do. And if it wasn't for the NHS model of treating you without needing to see a credit card first, a huge number of folk every day would face the very stark choice between life threatening complications during a birth with no medical backup, or literally going bankrupt with the costs if anything went wrong during the birth." 
The only other thing I'll add is about how women's pain is systemically undermined, around childbirth and everything else.
I don't have children, but over a decade ago I should have died because a doctor decided I was overreacting  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It burned. IYKYK." • I still don't know what "IYKYK" is. 🥲 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Dear ladies of the Fab Forå, my question is... ...did it hurt? 🩶" OP, if you put your cock in wrong it hurts, fuck yeah it hurts. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It burned. IYKYK. • I still don't know what "IYKYK" is. 🥲" Weren’t they a 90ms boy band? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Dear ladies of the Fab Forå, my question is... ...did it hurt? 🩶" The bit where I couldn't walk afterwards hurt more. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I had my first child at a young age. I signed something when I got in the hospital. No idea what I'd agreed to. Had so much pethidine I was out of it and too tired to push. Can't remember the pain, just loads of people I'd apparently agreed could come and watch. Second child I had a little pethidine and the pain was quite bad, but I'm a brave girl and took it like a boss. I had one suck on the gas and air and decided against it. Third child I stayed at home for as long as possible and breathed through the burning pain. Got to the hospital too late for pain relief, but didn't want it anyway as it makes me tired. One hour and a torn perineum later I had a 9lb 4oz baby with a big head force it's way out of me. Short answer:- yes, it fucking hurts monumentally bad, but, us women are strong and suffer the pain for the joy of growing a human being that our partners have helped to conceive. The more pain you're in and the closer together the contractions are the nearer you are to having your baby in your arms. I welcomed the pain." • Thank you for sharing your experiences, BN. 💐 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it strange how other women experience childbirth. There wasn’t that ‘holding my baby made me forget the pain’ for me. It took awhile for me to connect to my child and before I did so, yes, I was very aware of how I felt like my body had been ripped open. The first purposefully cut to retrieve him quicker and the second being ripped open from not being properly dilated. It hurt a great deal. You're not alone, there are many women who have this experience and can tend to feel guilty. I really hope that this isn't you. The journey is hard as it without that type of self judgement. " I had a similar experience with my first, and it was an agonisingly lonely place to be. It was a 72 hour traumatic labour, which probably explains how I felt, and I didn't tell anyone that I didn't feel that maternal bond as I was so ashamed and felt like a total freak. He was about 8 weeks old when I first felt that overwhelming flood of love and joy. My relief was immense. With my second the love was instant. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"My endometriosis is worse and that's every month for a few days "My sister who has a pretty high pain threshold had ended up in A and e because the pain was unbearable so I'm sorry! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"My second labour was fine. My first was hellish, my childs shoulder's got stuck so it was a full on emergency as they had to rip him out of me before he suffocated. He didn't breathe initially and I think that overrode any pain I felt at that moment in time. I've had other things happen that physically probably hurt as much but nothing will ever beat that sobering fear. " Your heart must have been in your mouth until you heard the screams. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Dear ladies of the Fab Forå, my question is... ...did it hurt? 🩶" Fuck off. Of course it fucking hurt. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Dear ladies of the Fab Forå, my question is... ...did it hurt? 🩶 Fuck off. Of course it fucking hurt. " · I'm sure it was equally as painful as your vituperative response. 🩶 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Post new Message to Thread |
| back to top |  |
