FabSwingers.com forum: when you dont get a reply from a message on here what do you usually do

By *rrrMannnn122 OP Man
1 week ago

Walsall

do you try again? leave it?

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By *herrybakewellCouple
1 week ago

Staffordshire

Block them and move on. Nobody likes a pest.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
1 week ago

The Continental

Send another 50

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By *exxyyDy11Man
1 week ago

North West

I just move on with my day. No big deal.

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By *he beard and the bumCouple
1 week ago

Lancashire

Move on.

Mrs B x

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By *oodo222Man
1 week ago

WIGAN

As above.

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By *he ShivsCouple
1 week ago

Fife

Go UNLOS from the shame.

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By *atte Lover 82Man
1 week ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

I would just leave it. Sometimes I just delete my sent messages (not that I send many) and if I get a reply at some point it's a nice suprise. If not we'll no reply is a reply.

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By *lowercandyWoman
1 week ago

Lancashire

"do you try again? leave it?"

Leave it

There's different reasons why you may not get one

But ultimately it's not in your control

Focus on something else

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By *exxyyDy11Man
1 week ago

North West

"Go UNLOS from the shame. "

Look sorry, right. I did send you a 50 minute voice note.

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By *upersonic SamMan
1 week ago

wigan

Message her husband to complain

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By *ire_thornMan
1 week ago

no comment

Leave it alone..

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 week ago

Reading

Sob uncontrollably

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By *an8iMan
1 week ago

Bilston

I take it as a polite no.

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By *he ShivsCouple
1 week ago

Fife

"Go UNLOS from the shame.

Look sorry, right. I did send you a 50 minute voice note. "

Unacceptable!

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

Send the following messages quicker than the recipient can look at them

- ooh, you shy love?

- coward

- bet you can't handle me

- everyone should know you're a scaredy cat

- bet you're not really a woman anyway

- prude

- filthy slut

- (insert insults, death threats, and other toys out of pram here)

And then I don't block them, because I'm still hoping they'll change their mind

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 week ago

Leeds

I've usually forgot I've sent it

I always check a profile before sending so it would tell me if I've already messaged them so wouldn't bother again......then onto the next

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 week ago

Leeds

"I would just leave it. Sometimes I just delete my sent messages (not that I send many) and if I get a reply at some point it's a nice suprise. If not we'll no reply is a reply."

Wow....think you're the 1st guy I've seen on here that understands the whole 'no reply is a reply" thing

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By *obbo2022Man
1 week ago

little town near bishop

Move on its really that simple.

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By *atte Lover 82Man
1 week ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

"I would just leave it. Sometimes I just delete my sent messages (not that I send many) and if I get a reply at some point it's a nice suprise. If not we'll no reply is a reply.

Wow....think you're the 1st guy I've seen on here that understands the whole 'no reply is a reply" thing

Thank you. I read the forums a lot. Haha

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By *eggy8574Man
1 week ago

WANTAGE

Hang on, does this mean some people actually get replies to their messages? 🤔🤔

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By *omadicVykingMan
1 week ago

dartmoor

Leave it and move on

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By *ansoffateMan
1 week ago

Sagittarius A

I cry and then flagellate to purge myself of weakness.

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By *rSircumsizedMan
1 week ago

Newport

Smash my house up in a fit of rage, then nip to the shitter for a quick wank.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
1 week ago

little house on the praire

wouldn't give it a second thought

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By *WANDTGCouple
1 week ago

Borough of Greenwich

Delete sent message and block

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By *ellhungvweMan
1 week ago

Cheltenham

What’s an unreplied message?

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By *anonfire96Man
1 week ago

Mansfield

Just move on. I've put in my bio if you read and don't reply or just delete my message I will block and move on so as not to bother you again.

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By *entleman JayMan
1 week ago

Wakefield

After pressing send I don’t give it another thought. Always a lovely surprise when I get a reply.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
1 week ago

The Continental

Take to the forums to complain about it.

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By *octor WhenMan
1 week ago

GLASGOW

Just delete sent message and move on.

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By *ustAnotherMan
1 week ago

Mids

Delete it when I hit send and forget I sent it

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By *nkymikeyMan
1 week ago

Andover

Block and move on

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By *r Mojo RisinMan
1 week ago

Aberdeen

Cry 😁

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By *lueDressWoman
1 week ago

Bath

Block and forget

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By *ortyairCouple
1 week ago

Wallasey

Move on, its no big deal, Mrs x

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
1 week ago

Reading

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
1 week ago

Reading

"do you try again? leave it?"

I follow up the eleven previous threads I've started talking about exactly the same suject, with thread number 12.

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By *ife NinjaMan
1 week ago

Dunfermline

Leave it. They're not interested

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
1 week ago

The last house on the left…

Block

Add private note

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
1 week ago

Loughborough

Delete the sent message, no point thinking about it and people can easily read and unread the message.

If you're not worthy a response, they probably aren't right for you and move on

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By *rown_Bread78Man
1 week ago

Leeds

Move on

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By *oughmanMan
1 week ago

Sunderland

Move on. Most of mine probably remain unread. Don't know of course, I delete them after a week.

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By *ussex21Man
1 week ago

Crowborough

Leave it and move on.

If you're message wasn't read don't take it personally as many women's profiles get flooded with messages on here.

If it was deleted just move on as they aren't interested.

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By *elix SightedMan
1 week ago

Cloud 8

Knock on the door and ask for the nail clippings back. They’ll do for someone else.

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By *ushrangerMan
1 week ago

Basingstoke

I delete my sent message after a few days if I don't get a response. Sometimes block unless I like their content

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By *tevenTellyCouple
1 week ago

Newmarket

Simply move on.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
1 week ago

Next Door

Send 3 copy and paste messages.

Maybe some tits.

🤷‍♀️😂

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By *ony MannMan
1 week ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

Move on, if they block you block them back

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
1 week ago

BRIDPORT

Forget it and move on, I mean, not that it’s ever happened to me, just speaking hypothetically

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 week ago

Central

I generally don't think about it as I move on.

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By *exySiren01Woman
1 week ago

RCT

I usually don't think about the message after I've sent it, I either get a reply or I don't that's the way the cookie crumbles

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
1 week ago

A den in the Glen

Try to ascertain their home address and send a turd in a cigar box.

Not your own one incase you can trace it through DNA or some sort of faecal database. Maybe some dog toffee instead?

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By *acLe0dMan
1 week ago

Preston

I don't really think about it. I took a shot and crashed and burned. So I'll look for someone else who piques my interest and try them instead.

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By *Silver-Man
1 week ago

Mold

I put on sad music and eat ice cream

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By *elcome68Man
1 week ago

manchester

Take it on the chin. Or just respect they don't want to reply to ur msg for wotever reason m8

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By *end1Man
7 days ago

southend on sea

Wait what if I actually got a reply back I would burst into a panic and call my mum for help😂😂😂

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By *eyond PurityCouple
7 days ago

Lincolnshire

Don’t ever look at sent messages - nothing good comes of it.

There’s no point dwelling - face forward and don’t look back…

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 days ago

little house on the praire

Going vy this thread it se3ms guts are learning

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By *allWithTatsMan
7 days ago

Hyrule

Barely send messages anyway, and when I do it’s never about meeting or any other intentions, usually from the back of a forum post like AMA or something 😂

But it is what it is, I delete plenty of messages from guys as I have no interest, imagine it’s no different than a woman ignoring my message so I wouldn’t be butt hurt about it at all.

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By *andanbakermanMan
7 days ago

epsom

Im haunted with mystery !

I've sent some really random messages with my bad spelling and miss typing, I like trying to read them back some times haha

wonder why, was I abit full on, was I too boring, did they get the joke, are they real, is it my pictures I get well excited when I get nice little rejection letter. World of possibilities.

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By *penmindedmascMan
7 days ago

Wickford

"Im haunted with mystery !

I've sent some really random messages with my bad spelling and miss typing, I like trying to read them back some times haha

wonder why, was I abit full on, was I too boring, did they get the joke, are they real, is it my pictures I get well excited when I get nice little rejection letter. World of possibilities. "

Nothing to do but move on lol

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By *orseyMan
7 days ago

Stoke

Cry

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
7 days ago

Manchester(ish).

Have a massive tantrum, tell everyone to fuck off, and go have a beer.

Isn't that the proportionate response to most modern adversity?

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By *orseyMan
7 days ago

Stoke

"Have a massive tantrum, tell everyone to fuck off, and go have a beer.

Isn't that the proportionate response to most modern adversity?

I’d say at least 3 beers of at least 5%

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
7 days ago

Birmingham

Send a few ????? just incase.

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By *obilebottomMan
7 days ago

All over

I just cry and cry till there are no mire tears to shed, then compose myself a little, have a bit of cake and send another and the whole process starts again. Isn't it what everyone one does?

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By *issmeltingpotWoman
7 days ago

Darlington

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By *ritishguyMan
7 days ago

chatburn

If they don’t reply leave them to it

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By *rT25Man
7 days ago

South Yorkshire

Leave it at that. Unless it's a certain individual who gets a load of messages each day and I'll message again at some point and chat some more. Then the cycle will repeat itself.

This person did say to keep messaging though 🤣

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By *arboyMan
7 days ago

Raunds

"Send a few ????? just incase."

Can wait for the next few then x

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By *empest2KMan
7 days ago

Derby

Depending on how I'm feeling, I sometimes block them so I don't message them again by accident, and therefore waste my valuable time and energy. And then I move on.

For a bit of footballification, it's like being a football manager — you take a string of losses (non-replies/deleted messages) but hope that your form (and luck) will improve enough whereby you'll get a win or two before you get sacked (quit Fab) 🤣

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By *rookedsmileMan
7 days ago

Derbyshire

Drown my sorrows with a cup of bovril.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
7 days ago

Aberdeen

Move on, respect that I'm not for them...

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By *r TriomanMan
7 days ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I delete the messages that I send; my memory is terrible so I usually forget that I've sent them, which means I'm never waiting for a reply - Fire and Forget! It's always a surprise when I get a reply.

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By *allipygousMan
7 days ago

Leicester

"do you try again? leave it?"

I'd set up the emptiest of empty profiles and ask the good folk of the forums for their sage advice and smile to myself as the pearls of wisdom come flooding in.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
7 days ago

Herts

"do you try again? leave it?"

Put a hex on them and take them off my Christmas card list

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