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By *rigger 56 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Ringwood

To find true love and happiness with a partner or the swinging lifestyle. Can only choose one.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

I've never experienced true love with anyone apart from my child as with other "adults" I don't think it exists...so swinging for me please

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By *ora the explorerWoman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *ora the explorerWoman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Oh blimey. Neither of those thanks!

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By *usty kayCouple
2 weeks ago

Burnham

I already have both so why would I choose?

That being said, he already knows I would choose him over swinging every time. I'm just lucky I don't have to

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Stockport

Can I go on the slide or the roundabout instead?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children "

I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen

If I met the right person I'd give up swinging, however, I don't think they'll ever be a right person so I'll go with swinging

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

South Wales

I’d happily knock Fab on the head if I was loved up and getting a good shagging on the regular.

Win/win

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By *orkshire UnicornWoman
2 weeks ago

Yorkshire

I’ve always said if I was to meet someone, I would want to find them in this community so the fun could continue together, so I’ll take swinging ☺️

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By *ee642024Woman
2 weeks ago

Crook


"I've never experienced true love with anyone apart from my child as with other "adults" I don't think it exists...so swinging for me please"
totally agree.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children

I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....

"

I did my best. That's all I can control.

As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled.

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

In act a rebellion, I choose both.

Try and stop me, if you can.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
2 weeks ago

Swansea

I already have both.

Mrs

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children

I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....

I did my best. That's all I can control.

As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled."

I do feel the womanchild variable is problematic. Perhaps it's less probable than manchild. I'm afraid I do not have the dataset to draw a conclusion. I also have no motivation to carry out the necessary research, so I will defer to your judgment on said matter.

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By *andPextraCouple
2 weeks ago

North West


"I already have both.

Mrs"

Ditto. Best of both worlds here

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children

I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....

I did my best. That's all I can control.

As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled.

I do feel the womanchild variable is problematic. Perhaps it's less probable than manchild. I'm afraid I do not have the dataset to draw a conclusion. I also have no motivation to carry out the necessary research, so I will defer to your judgment on said matter."

I've got no data on womanchild. My serious relationships with women have been non-residential. I'm sure they exist, but I'm only commenting on my own experience.

I don't ever want to face that level of burnout ever again, so... True love cancelled. (If I found myself in a situation where it might happen, I'd block on all channels and do whatever it takes to nuke the relationship from orbit)

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children

I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....

I did my best. That's all I can control.

As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled.

I do feel the womanchild variable is problematic. Perhaps it's less probable than manchild. I'm afraid I do not have the dataset to draw a conclusion. I also have no motivation to carry out the necessary research, so I will defer to your judgment on said matter.

I've got no data on womanchild. My serious relationships with women have been non-residential. I'm sure they exist, but I'm only commenting on my own experience.

I don't ever want to face that level of burnout ever again, so... True love cancelled. (If I found myself in a situation where it might happen, I'd block on all channels and do whatever it takes to nuke the relationship from orbit)"

I can definitely relate to the burnout experience. I've had some wonderful experiences too though, living with women.

It could be that I'm just not as smart as you are, when it comes to protecting myself.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children

I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....

I did my best. That's all I can control.

As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled.

I do feel the womanchild variable is problematic. Perhaps it's less probable than manchild. I'm afraid I do not have the dataset to draw a conclusion. I also have no motivation to carry out the necessary research, so I will defer to your judgment on said matter.

I've got no data on womanchild. My serious relationships with women have been non-residential. I'm sure they exist, but I'm only commenting on my own experience.

I don't ever want to face that level of burnout ever again, so... True love cancelled. (If I found myself in a situation where it might happen, I'd block on all channels and do whatever it takes to nuke the relationship from orbit)

I can definitely relate to the burnout experience. I've had some wonderful experiences too though, living with women.

It could be that I'm just not as smart as you are, when it comes to protecting myself."

Don't worry, I'm only speaking for myself. You do what's right for you. (And as usual #notallmen)

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By *he beard and the bumCouple
2 weeks ago

Lancashire


"I already have both.

Mrs"

Us too! X

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

pink panther territory

True love x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
2 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Swinging. I am polyamorous

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Redhill

I thought no sex was a dealbreaker for me.

However, this past two months Ixhave been shown the purest, most genuine and truest love. Having been cared for 24/7 unconditionally, and my only worry is to get better, wow, that makes anything else seem small.

So it will definitely be true love for me. I am very fortunate. ❤️

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By *aybeLadyWoman
2 weeks ago

West Dublin

True love or something close to it. Never been in love, despite being married.

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children

I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....

I did my best. That's all I can control.

As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled.

I do feel the womanchild variable is problematic. Perhaps it's less probable than manchild. I'm afraid I do not have the dataset to draw a conclusion. I also have no motivation to carry out the necessary research, so I will defer to your judgment on said matter.

I've got no data on womanchild. My serious relationships with women have been non-residential. I'm sure they exist, but I'm only commenting on my own experience.

I don't ever want to face that level of burnout ever again, so... True love cancelled. (If I found myself in a situation where it might happen, I'd block on all channels and do whatever it takes to nuke the relationship from orbit)

I can definitely relate to the burnout experience. I've had some wonderful experiences too though, living with women.

It could be that I'm just not as smart as you are, when it comes to protecting myself.

Don't worry, I'm only speaking for myself. You do what's right for you. (And as usual #notallmen)"

🤣 Thank you, I didn't think you were. I can assure no offence was taken on behalf of myself or my gender by your comments, also no animals were harmed right? Just checking.

I was genuinely contemplating whether I need to add a pinch of your salt to my life. I have been there with burnout more than once. Kids is one thing, they're kids, I chose to have them.

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By *bitofaslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Cannock

Swinging. Done the love thing, now I need a slut phase.

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By *edSirenWoman
2 weeks ago

Leighton Buzzard

Why do you only count happiness with one person? Are you saying in you chose swinging it would be miserable?

I can happily be in both monogamous or open/poly relationships. Depends on the person.

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By *bitofaslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Cannock


"Why do you only count happiness with one person? Are you saying in you chose swinging it would be miserable?

I can happily be in both monogamous or open/poly relationships. Depends on the person."

I read it as "partnership and monogamy fur the foreseeable" Vs open/swinging/single unicorn kind of arrangement.

Like, I was in a monogamous partnership for 27 years. I might be open to another one in the future but for now, I'm over it.

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By *utterfly64Woman
2 weeks ago

Raynes Park

Finding real true love and watching him with someone else. I’m not sure. But very happy with my swinging partner as I know he is not mine!

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