FabSwingers.com forum: Attraction

By *arren and Alicia OP Couple
26 weeks ago

Glasgow

what attracts you to a person?

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By *oubleswing2019Man
26 weeks ago

Colchester

We're all different and some are attracted by visual appearance, others by clothing, some by voice, some by demeanour, some by smell, some are led by desire, some by reciprocity, and then there are pheromones, and..well you get the idea.

For myself however, and I have thought long and hard about this over the years.

Mine is Will. Everything else is irrelevant to me and does not attract me.

The best analogy I can give is imagine a room full of people. Different shapes, sizes, genders, clothes, looks, personas, the works. Every possible combination.

None will interest me. Because the part of my psyche that should imprint "Hunter" in my nature doesn't exist. I don't know why, and I know others have it, but I just don't. I do not have that instinct. It is alien to me.

But if a person approached me, I would assess their intentions, and if I will it, engage accordingly.

It's how me and Mrs DS met many decades ago. She "hunted" me and I willed it, because I wished to do so.

Does it imply a "Prey" mentality ? I have no idea. I am not naturally submissive or dominant. I do adopt a dominant persona when it's been requested of me, but otherwise I'm in "neutral gear". Unless I will it.

Complex answer I know, but it just shows how complex we creatures are !

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By *iddlesticksMan
26 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

It’s all in the eyes and the smile and then the style.

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By *arkbigcock300Man
26 weeks ago

LONDONDERRY

personally

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Voice

Can either attract me or put me off.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
26 weeks ago

Holibobs

His face

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By *ongAndThick123Man
26 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Physique

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
26 weeks ago

Brum

Cute/ Handsome faces mainly but it’s more than that. Some people just have a way about them that fits with ours. It’s warm, friendly and very laidback.

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By *iddlesticksMan
26 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Cute/ Handsome faces mainly but it’s more than that. Some people just have a way about them that fits with ours. It’s warm, friendly and very laidback."

I so wanted to post something particularly heartfelt and caring but I’m so easy going it’s difficult to find the words.

Hello you very attractive pair.

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
26 weeks ago

Falkirk

Personally, I don't think it's always the same thing. Sometimes it can be as shallow as someone's striking looks, then others it could be a smile or an infectious personality, their style. I think it can vary.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
26 weeks ago

Brum

"Cute/ Handsome faces mainly but it’s more than that. Some people just have a way about them that fits with ours. It’s warm, friendly and very laidback.

I so wanted to post something particularly heartfelt and caring but I’m so easy going it’s difficult to find the words.

Hello you very attractive pair.

Spooky… we just posted hello on your own thread.

Nice to read you again

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By *iddlesticksMan
26 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Cute/ Handsome faces mainly but it’s more than that. Some people just have a way about them that fits with ours. It’s warm, friendly and very laidback.

I so wanted to post something particularly heartfelt and caring but I’m so easy going it’s difficult to find the words.

Hello you very attractive pair.

Spooky… we just posted hello on your own thread.

Nice to read you again

That must mean something. Although I think it’s probably coincidence

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By *etwife8230Couple
26 weeks ago

Newport

Has to be funny for me , if you can make me belly laugh that's a whole other story

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

The whole of the above at different times and situations

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By *asha86Couple
26 weeks ago

walsall

Being able to hold a conversation and chat with abit of banter back and forth.... oh and boobs has to be boobs

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading

I'm a sucker for charm. I have been laughed into bed a couple of times too.

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By *asha86Couple
26 weeks ago

walsall

"I'm a sucker for charm. I have been laughed into bed a couple of times too."

That's never a bad thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Can be intelligence. An interesting brain can make me fall for someone.

Can just be a lovely face with gorgeous full lips.

Can just be a kind face and warm personality.

And occasionally it’s just a thicc woman that makes me weak.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Eyes & a lovely smile with kissable lips does it for me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
26 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Couldn’t pin point it to be honest. I’m attracted to someone or I’m not

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
26 weeks ago

Hatfield

A nice pair of boobs starts the attraction.. personality completes it

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By *iddlesticksMan
26 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Couldn’t pin point it to be honest. I’m attracted to someone or I’m not "

I am to you.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
26 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Couldn’t pin point it to be honest. I’m attracted to someone or I’m not

I am to you.

Aw fiddles ❤️❤️. Adore you

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By *a LunaWoman
26 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Their vibe, usually.

I either like them or I don’t.

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By *parkle1974Woman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

A range of things from their manner/personality to how they come across x

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By *eoBloomsMan
26 weeks ago

Springfield

Low morals.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Their face

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading

Attraction is fascinating to me. I find humour and intelligence to be incredibly sexy but I think my top attraction is usually a kindness or warmth about them.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
26 weeks ago

Castlebar

Definitely having a laugh, sharing a sense of humour is the start and then something happens. Can't explain it 😊

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By *midnight-Woman
26 weeks ago

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Intelligence, confidence and eyes

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By *mf123Man
26 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

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By *mf123Man
26 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Is she fun to speak to or be around

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Face

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