FabSwingers.com forum: Shoes off or on?

By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

When you enter someone’s house

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By *urvyBunnyWoman
11 weeks ago

Suffolk

Off 😊

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By *arkbaneMan
11 weeks ago

East leeds

"When you enter someone’s house"

Shoes off

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By *lynJMan
11 weeks ago

Morden

Depends what the hosts expect

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I always take mine off even if they insist I always take them off in my own house so never would dare think I could enter anyone else’s wearing shoes

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By *ensuallover1000Man
11 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I always take them off; it’s simply good manners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

What if you’re host coming by to drop something off?

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By *enegadeMMan
11 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"When you enter someone’s house"

Off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

I try to always take mine off for the record.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Off. I have manners.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
11 weeks ago

Middle England

Off.

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By *ripfillMan
11 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Off … having spent time in Japan it becomes quite natural and it’s polite plus cleaner for their environment

( I hate wearing my classic doc martins though it’s a long lace up time !) off and on

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

"When you enter someone’s house"

I keep mine on, but they don't touch the floor

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By *ayronfeetMan
11 weeks ago

Cardiff

Always off .....

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By *egoMan
11 weeks ago

Preston

On unless told otherwise.

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By *bhs72Man
11 weeks ago

witham

Always off.

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By *ad NannaWoman
11 weeks ago

East London

No one is expected to take their shoes off when they enter my home.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

"No one is expected to take their shoes off when they enter my home."

Nor here, mainly cos of wooden floors and the fact my wheels traipse around and so removing shoes is largely ceremonial and pointless. Yes, we clean, sweep and vacuum the floor but you can't do clean wheelchairing. I've been tracking rock salt all over the place in recent weeks

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
11 weeks ago

Pontyclun

Off

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By *naswingdressWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

My house, on. Anyone else's, I'll ask

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By *oors1287Man
11 weeks ago

Shipley

I'd say it all depends on what's going to happen as soon as you walk through the door?? No point wasting time taking your shoes off if you don't need to 🤔

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
11 weeks ago

Hastings

If working I carry overshoes, if visiting it depends on the flooring, carpet it's off 100% unless it's realy not good carpet hard floor probably leave on.

So yes have been known to go in shoes on then take them off say at the bottom of the stairs.

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By *tanXXXMan
11 weeks ago

North east

Always off... manner's

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
11 weeks ago

Merseyside

Typically off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"My house, on. Anyone else's, I'll ask"

You wear shoes in your house??

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By *ora the explorerWoman
11 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I ask. I wouldn’t automatically take them off unless they were dirty.

I don’t have any carpet downstairs in my house so I’m not bothered unless they’re caked in mud.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
11 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I ask. I wouldn’t automatically take them off unless they were dirty.

I don’t have any carpet downstairs in my house so I’m not bothered unless they’re caked in mud. "

I dont allow shoes upstairs though.

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
11 weeks ago

N. Wales

I will ask. I don't want to be taking them off (unless I'm at home or feel at home), but I will if that's how they do them.

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By *allGuy1000Man
11 weeks ago

Reading

Shoes off in my house so I naturally remove mine when entering someone else’s home.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex

Off unless it's my dad's house where it's safer for all concerned to keep them on

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By *obilebottomMan
11 weeks ago

All over

Always ask as some people believe it or not can think it odd to take them off (true story)

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By *emorefridaCouple
11 weeks ago

La la land

Depends on the house. Non rural I'll pull them off. Rural you come in via the back door and they tend to stay on in kitchens. You don't use front doors, that's the posh entrance.

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By *mf123Man
11 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

On i may need a quick exit

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By *herrybakewellCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Off. Show respect.

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By *r TriomanMan
11 weeks ago

Somewhere Southwest

Off!

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By *ustcallMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

Off 100 %

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By *ighRes88Man
11 weeks ago

Warrington

Off

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By *imon_hydeMan
11 weeks ago

Stockport

Depends on what the house owner wants! Socks off before I enter anywhere more intimate though ')

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By *host63Man
11 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Off as a courtesy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Always ask as some people believe it or not can think it odd to take them off (true story) "

Yep my dad and an aunt of mine can't understand it at all.

Currently with a rogue drawing pin on the loose shoes are advised in my home

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By *obilebottomMan
11 weeks ago

All over

"Always ask as some people believe it or not can think it odd to take them off (true story)

Yep my dad and an aunt of mine can't understand it at all.

Currently with a rogue drawing pin on the loose shoes are advised in my home

Hahaha, yes very advisable. Have you had the tetanus jab in last 10 years?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Always ask as some people believe it or not can think it odd to take them off (true story)

Yep my dad and an aunt of mine can't understand it at all.

Currently with a rogue drawing pin on the loose shoes are advised in my home

Hahaha, yes very advisable. Have you had the tetanus jab in last 10 years?

Doubtful. I'm doomed 😳

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By *anelewis22kikMan
11 weeks ago

bristol

Always take them off unless in my work environment then I will use over shoes as got to keep steel toe caps on

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By *utterfly64Woman
11 weeks ago

Raynes Park

Generally off as I do in my house. If I know them well I take my slippers anyway!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
11 weeks ago

Holibobs

Off

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

Off

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Off.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

"On unless told otherwise. "

Wouldn't you ask? As a guest, it seems appropriate to request how you are preferred, in someone's home, rather than expecting them to have to issue instructions

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By *utterfly manMan
11 weeks ago

Ringwood Hampshire

Socks Of….Shoes Of

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
11 weeks ago

ashford

Keep them on! In my house! I don't live in a show home unlike my sister! Jeez I feel so uncomfortable there! X

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By *wolf91Man
11 weeks ago

Rowley

I'll always ask, different people have different thoughts on it... so I like to adapt to them x

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By *ib.Man
11 weeks ago

Hampshire

Off of course.

I'm not a fucking animal.

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By *erry bull1Man
11 weeks ago

doncaster

I always take mine off out of respect unless told to leave them on

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
11 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Always off. I'd never go into someone else's house with take them of at the door

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By *erkshireJJMan
11 weeks ago

Marlow

Off FFS!

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By *ansoffateMan
11 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Usually off but it depends what the host wants.

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