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"My best friend calls it her stable. I don't think I've ever used the word roster but the circle of people I'm intimate with are on the level of friendship so the word wouldn't really be accurate. " I like the term stable. Makes me think of wrestling. The Four Horsemen | |||
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"Interesting, sounds very healthy the way most of you have phrased it. In my experience, the girls I’ve been with haven’t been upfront with the men/ amount of men in their “stable”, which potentially is half the issue. I always assumed you girls secretly had “one” that was held higher than the rest emotionally if you get my drift? Also stable is a new term, I haven’t heard off that before. Wonder if “roster” is our zoomer and Gen Z generation term 🤣 " I have never actually discussed how many others there are as it's no-one else's business. | |||
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"Interesting, sounds very healthy the way most of you have phrased it. In my experience, the girls I’ve been with haven’t been upfront with the men/ amount of men in their “stable”, which potentially is half the issue. I always assumed you girls secretly had “one” that was held higher than the rest emotionally if you get my drift? Also stable is a new term, I haven’t heard off that before. Wonder if “roster” is our zoomer and Gen Z generation term 🤣 I have never actually discussed how many others there are as it's no-one else's business." Huh, interesting. Do you think any of those men would mind? Would they decide to stop seeing you or have a problem if they knew do you think? | |||
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"Interesting, sounds very healthy the way most of you have phrased it. In my experience, the girls I’ve been with haven’t been upfront with the men/ amount of men in their “stable”, which potentially is half the issue. I always assumed you girls secretly had “one” that was held higher than the rest emotionally if you get my drift? Also stable is a new term, I haven’t heard off that before. Wonder if “roster” is our zoomer and Gen Z generation term 🤣 I have never actually discussed how many others there are as it's no-one else's business. Huh, interesting. Do you think any of those men would mind? Would they decide to stop seeing you or have a problem if they knew do you think? " As long as they know about others I think that's enough. If they "minded or had a problem" then they aren't the types of guys I'd want to associate with so it wouldn't bother me if they decided not to see me anymore....plenty more fish in the sea as they say. | |||
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"I met a woman who said she would keep 'a pair and a spare'" Now THAT has a nice ring to it. I wonder if she was in a serious relationship with both, or kept everyone casual? I got a feeling it’s more HOW you go about it than anything else. The woman from my past would be after a monogamous relationship, but would always phrase it is having a “back up” option. Again I am not bashing this at all, more power to woman for everyone concerned, I’m jealous I can’t have a “roster” or “stable” myself 🤣 | |||
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"God this thread has made me feel really out of touch "Ahahahah, never too late to develop your “roster” 😉 | |||
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"I met a woman who said she would keep 'a pair and a spare' Now THAT has a nice ring to it. I wonder if she was in a serious relationship with both, or kept everyone casual? I got a feeling it’s more HOW you go about it than anything else. The woman from my past would be after a monogamous relationship, but would always phrase it is having a “back up” option. Again I am not bashing this at all, more power to woman for everyone concerned, I’m jealous I can’t have a “roster” or “stable” myself 🤣 " I prefer the "harem" term | |||
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"Not kink shaming but I thought it said girls with a rooster. 🐓"Or a cock-or-too | |||
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"Not kink shaming but I thought it said girls with a rooster. 🐓
Or a cock-or-too "Bravo 👏 👏 | |||
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"Not kink shaming but I thought it said girls with a rooster. 🐓
Or a cock-or-too
Bravo 👏 👏 "I second that, that was a zinger 🔥🔥 | |||
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"Seems like it’s more about people being open and honest with each other than the actual roster itself, no? Mrs TMN x" In an ideal world yes that would be great, I think I would’ve been saved from much heartache down the years if I was told straight up and put on the same page. Unfortunately not everyone is upfront with having a roster, that was my biggest issue any how. Not sure if many can relate on here as everyone is very liberal but many girls *ahem* woman I meet on other dating apps have rosters too but more often than not, keep it hidden. It’s one of the main reasons I prefer fab, everyone’s open 🤣 And yes, it’s happened multiple times dating with me personally unfortunately, hence my curiousity on how many girls keep a “stable” “roster” or whatever you call it aha x | |||
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"Seems like it’s more about people being open and honest with each other than the actual roster itself, no? Mrs TMN x In an ideal world yes that would be great, I think I would’ve been saved from much heartache down the years if I was told straight up and put on the same page. Unfortunately not everyone is upfront with having a roster, that was my biggest issue any how. Not sure if many can relate on here as everyone is very liberal but many girls *ahem* woman I meet on other dating apps have rosters too but more often than not, keep it hidden. It’s one of the main reasons I prefer fab, everyone’s open 🤣 And yes, it’s happened multiple times dating with me personally unfortunately, hence my curiousity on how many girls keep a “stable” “roster” or whatever you call it aha x" Please don't fall into the trap of believing everyone on fab are "open" there are some very sneaky fuckers on here | |||
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"Seems like it’s more about people being open and honest with each other than the actual roster itself, no? Mrs TMN x In an ideal world yes that would be great, I think I would’ve been saved from much heartache down the years if I was told straight up and put on the same page. Unfortunately not everyone is upfront with having a roster, that was my biggest issue any how. Not sure if many can relate on here as everyone is very liberal but many girls *ahem* woman I meet on other dating apps have rosters too but more often than not, keep it hidden. It’s one of the main reasons I prefer fab, everyone’s open 🤣 And yes, it’s happened multiple times dating with me personally unfortunately, hence my curiousity on how many girls keep a “stable” “roster” or whatever you call it aha x Please don't fall into the trap of believing everyone on fab are "open" there are some very sneaky fuckers on here " Oh for real?! I mean I know you get fakes and flakes, but didn’t think it was as bad a site as the rest lol 😂 | |||
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"Interesting, sounds very healthy the way most of you have phrased it. In my experience, the girls I’ve been with haven’t been upfront with the men/ amount of men in their “stable”, which potentially is half the issue. I always assumed you girls secretly had “one” that was held higher than the rest emotionally if you get my drift? Also stable is a new term, I haven’t heard off that before. Wonder if “roster” is our zoomer and Gen Z generation term 🤣 I have never actually discussed how many others there are as it's no-one else's business. Huh, interesting. Do you think any of those men would mind? Would they decide to stop seeing you or have a problem if they knew do you think? " I think if you met on here, I would imagine it is a given that either if not both of you are potentially fucking other people. If you are going to have hang ups about people's sexual history/future then this probably isn't the life for you. | |||
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"God this thread has made me feel really out of touch
Ahahahah, never too late to develop your “roster” 😉 "I really couldn't be bothered . | |||
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"Interesting, sounds very healthy the way most of you have phrased it. In my experience, the girls I’ve been with haven’t been upfront with the men/ amount of men in their “stable”, which potentially is half the issue. I always assumed you girls secretly had “one” that was held higher than the rest emotionally if you get my drift? Also stable is a new term, I haven’t heard off that before. Wonder if “roster” is our zoomer and Gen Z generation term 🤣 I have never actually discussed how many others there are as it's no-one else's business. Huh, interesting. Do you think any of those men would mind? Would they decide to stop seeing you or have a problem if they knew do you think? " If anyone we are involved with ask we'll tell them how many others their are. Hasn't happened yet but if they weren't comfortable with it and wanted to stop, no problem it is their choice. | |||
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"Not kink shaming but I thought it said girls with a rooster. 🐓"Ooh I have roosters | |||
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They became very dear friends. Loved them all the same but different if it makes sense.
But the frequency of the meets were subject to their marital constraints and duties … 😝😝😝 so it was never down to me which was a bit shit.
Now they’ve all sprogged up so no more roster… and I’ve lost interest really. If it weren’t for the entertainment/ludic value of Fab, especially now during my recovery, I would have deleted my account by now. | |||
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"How does anyone have time for any of this? " Because they want different sex. Different conversation. Different faces. And also people Aren’t always free when you are. A roster makes that more likely. Rosters don’t require much upkeep- it’s just casual sex. | |||
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"Why would it be any different than a male? " No different. Males have rosters as well. | |||
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"How does anyone have time for any of this? " I know! Sounds like too much hard work to me. | |||
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"I met a woman who said she would keep 'a pair and a spare' Now THAT has a nice ring to it. I wonder if she was in a serious relationship with both, or kept everyone casual? I got a feeling it’s more HOW you go about it than anything else. The woman from my past would be after a monogamous relationship, but would always phrase it is having a “back up” option. Again I am not bashing this at all, more power to woman for everyone concerned, I’m jealous I can’t have a “roster” or “stable” myself 🤣 " Do yiu not have a black book as it use to be called. | |||
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"Why would it be any different than a male? " I should have added “when single” haha | |||
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"How does anyone have time for any of this? Because they want different sex. Different conversation. Different faces. And also people Aren’t always free when you are. A roster makes that more likely. Rosters don’t require much upkeep- it’s just casual sex. " Ah right. Roster to me means a sort of scheduled time table so I thought it was a regular thing. I see that it means something quite different now. | |||
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"How does anyone have time for any of this? I know! Sounds like too much hard work to me. " It seems I might be misunderstanding what's involved. | |||
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"Seems like it’s more about people being open and honest with each other than the actual roster itself, no? Mrs TMN x In an ideal world yes that would be great, I think I would’ve been saved from much heartache down the years if I was told straight up and put on the same page. Unfortunately not everyone is upfront with having a roster, that was my biggest issue any how. Not sure if many can relate on here as everyone is very liberal but many girls *ahem* woman I meet on other dating apps have rosters too but more often than not, keep it hidden. It’s one of the main reasons I prefer fab, everyone’s open 🤣 And yes, it’s happened multiple times dating with me personally unfortunately, hence my curiousity on how many girls keep a “stable” “roster” or whatever you call it aha x" I just assume whoever I meet is also meeting other people whether it's for tinder dates or fab sex. I usually confirm that with dates from apps because I'm not monogamous and that needs to be clear to everyone up front. On fab I take it as a given unless they say otherwise. Non monogamy probably rules out 90% of the women I match with on apps. | |||
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"Its like revels in the end someone has to be the coffee" I like coffee revels it's the toffee ones I dislike | |||
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"Its like revels in the end someone has to be the coffee I like coffee revels it's the toffee ones I dislike " WHAT!!! | |||
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"How does anyone have time for any of this? Because they want different sex. Different conversation. Different faces. And also people Aren’t always free when you are. A roster makes that more likely. Rosters don’t require much upkeep- it’s just casual sex. Ah right. Roster to me means a sort of scheduled time table so I thought it was a regular thing. I see that it means something quite different now. " Just a match day squad  | |||
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"Its like revels in the end someone has to be the coffee I like coffee revels it's the toffee ones I dislike WHAT!!! "Yeah, sorry I know I'm on the outskirts of society | |||
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"How does anyone have time for any of this? Because they want different sex. Different conversation. Different faces. And also people Aren’t always free when you are. A roster makes that more likely. Rosters don’t require much upkeep- it’s just casual sex. Ah right. Roster to me means a sort of scheduled time table so I thought it was a regular thing. I see that it means something quite different now. Just a match day squad " | |||
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"My best friend calls it her stable. I don't think I've ever used the word roster but the circle of people I'm intimate with are on the level of friendship so the word wouldn't really be accurate. I like the term stable. Makes me think of wrestling. The Four Horsemen " Tbf, roster made me think of wrestling. The "smackdown" roster so to speak | |||
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"Its like revels in the end someone has to be the coffee I like coffee revels it's the toffee ones I dislike WHAT!!!
Yeah, sorry I know I'm on the outskirts of society " | |||
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"My best friend calls it her stable. I don't think I've ever used the word roster but the circle of people I'm intimate with are on the level of friendship so the word wouldn't really be accurate. I like the term stable. Makes me think of wrestling. The Four Horsemen Tbf, roster made me think of wrestling. The "smackdown" roster so to speak "Hitting it RAW | |||
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"My best friend calls it her stable. I don't think I've ever used the word roster but the circle of people I'm intimate with are on the level of friendship so the word wouldn't really be accurate. I like the term stable. Makes me think of wrestling. The Four Horsemen Tbf, roster made me think of wrestling. The "smackdown" roster so to speak "RKO, outta nowhere!!! | |||
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