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By *rHotNotts OP Man
9 hours ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Displays summaries of your Internet activity showing everyone as you walk around in the street, work at home the kind of things you do online including posts like this. Explicit images or blurred, but it’s clear to viewers what it is. an AI engine analyses all your activity and display snippet that it thinks best represent the kind of person you are so you will see the kind of messages you sent to strangers on here for example.

Would you dare wear it?

If you did, do you think your online activity would change at all and would make you a better person or a worse person?

Why do we value privacy (beyond security)?

Do you like to keep secrets ?

Are you ashamed ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
8 hours ago

The Town by The Cross

I would not wear it but not for the reasons you state.

Privacy is important to me because information is ammunition to detractors and fraudsters and humiliators.

Imagine a world where you purchases are listed for all to see , even medicines for treatments you'd rather others not know about , sexual or otherwise.

It's not so much about feeling ashamed as having the common sense to keep your private business private and not willingly make yourself a target for judgement, ridicule or exploitation.

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By *eoBloomsMan
8 hours ago

Springfield

Privacy, secrecy and shame are completely different concepts.

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By *ealitybitesMan
8 hours ago

Belfast

My internet activity mostly revolves around here and scrolling through but never posting on FB but no I wouldn't wear it.

I'm not ashamed but I live in a country where until 2 generations ago it was difficult to distinguish between church and state and there are many people who have never moved on from that.

I also live in a country where due to having a smaller population, to say that everyone knows each other isn't as mad as it may seem.

I have met neighbours, work colleagues and family members all over the country even in remote places.

My generation were always reluctant to openly discuss any beliefs because it put a target on their back from the "other side".

I value my privacy because unfortunately others don't and that applies very much on fab but also irl.

I've never once had a conversation about sex with someone I'm not having sex with and I've never discussed a friend or colleagues sex life or their intimate health details and they have never asked about mine.

Some people like to advertise what they had for breakfast and can't fart without making a public announcement on social media but that is completely alien to me.

I respect other people's private life and I fully expect them to respect mine.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
8 hours ago

Glasgow / London

It’s an interesting question. Essentially, what if your private thoughts were not private at all?

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By *zeroMan
8 hours ago

Glasgow

I'd probably just wear a hoodie or a jacket over it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 hours ago

Carlisle usually

"No thanks" in large letters for the message history and a selection of shoes and weird dildos for the graphic?

Doesn't sound like my kind of aesthetic 💜

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
8 hours ago

Glasgow / London

"It’s an interesting question. Essentially, what if your private thoughts were not private at all?"

Like most things, there’s two sides to this.

1. Would you be judged?

2. Would your lack of privacy be exploited?

The answer to both is yes, of course.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
8 hours ago

Wirral

Certainly not; there's no way I could explain some of my Google searches.

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
8 hours ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I would not wear it but not for the reasons you state.

Privacy is important to me because information is ammunition to detractors and fraudsters and humiliators.

Imagine a world where you purchases are listed for all to see , even medicines for treatments you'd rather others not know about , sexual or otherwise.

It's not so much about feeling ashamed as having the common sense to keep your private business private and not willingly make yourself a target for judgement, ridicule or exploitation."

So your privacy is 1/ for your personal security, but 2/ because you don’t like being judged or ridiculed by other people for the things that you enjoy doing looking at?

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
8 hours ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Certainly not; there's no way I could explain some of my Google searches."

Really?

I had no problem explaining pregnant Arab lady trapped in a washing machine porn

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
8 hours ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"It’s an interesting question. Essentially, what if your private thoughts were not private at all?"

Well that’s very interesting isn’t it? I guess our secret online activities, or rather those that we do in private in someway do represent our thoughts?

Currently, I don’t believe there are any thought crimes in any country, but the idea behind Thor crime in looks like 1984 is that if you don’t think it you won’t do it, and European freedom of information concepts are based around the ideology that if information is truly free then people behave better, e.g zero crime, corruption. Of course they only extend it to certain types of organisations currently but the ideology applies to individuals just the same.

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
8 hours ago

Dubai & Nottingham

""No thanks" in large letters for the message history and a selection of shoes and weird dildos for the graphic?

Doesn't sound like my kind of aesthetic 💜"

Ahhhh Clever answer, what if it was on overhead screens as you walked by then it doesn’t need to fit with your aesthetic

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
8 hours ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"My internet activity mostly revolves around here and scrolling through but never posting on FB but no I wouldn't wear it.

I'm not ashamed but I live in a country where until 2 generations ago it was difficult to distinguish between church and state and there are many people who have never moved on from that.

I also live in a country where due to having a smaller population, to say that everyone knows each other isn't as mad as it may seem.

I have met neighbours, work colleagues and family members all over the country even in remote places.

My generation were always reluctant to openly discuss any beliefs because it put a target on their back from the "other side".

I value my privacy because unfortunately others don't and that applies very much on fab but also irl.

Some people like to advertise what they had for breakfast and can't fart without making a public announcement on social media but that is completely alien to me.

I respect other people's private life and I fully expect them to respect mine."

I understand the historical context. I worked when I was younger on Castle Court before it was blown up., and when we took a break for lunch, people would come round selling small magazines and we just had to buy them. You weren’t not allowed to wash your thoughts about the matter. I’ve also lived in countries where you would never talk about politics or the weather, because both never change, but you would openly talk about religions, any religions , unless you didn’t have one, that was pretty dangerous. So I totally get out the environment can make you want to be a private person.

But beyond the environment you live in and I’ve been conditioned by ? When we say the word private life what we are really saying is that we like to have secrets and do and say and look at things that we are uncomfortable for others to know?

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By *bitofaslutTV/TS
7 hours ago

Cannock

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By *bitofaslutTV/TS
7 hours ago

Cannock

Personally there's nothing I'd be ashamed of it want to hide. I can see why most people would want to though.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
7 hours ago

Carlisle usually

""No thanks" in large letters for the message history and a selection of shoes and weird dildos for the graphic?

Doesn't sound like my kind of aesthetic 💜

Ahhhh Clever answer, what if it was on overhead screens as you walked by then it doesn’t need to fit with your aesthetic"

Then I simply don't think it's fair to expose the eyes of children and those who simply don't want to see it to the kind of content I look at without clear consent and direct engagement.

I'm not ashamed of what I do. I'll happily word vomit at anyone who treats me like a human rather than a fetish dispenser and asks.

I'm also not ashamed of my cunt, but showing it to small children or random people who don't want to see it on the street wouldn't be appropriate either 💜

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
7 hours ago

It would throw upy shower thoughts and brain farts;

"Can dog biscuits be eaten by humans? If not, why not?"

"If elephants have such long pregnancy periods, how often do they menstrate?"

"Did sailors realy mistake 7ft whale docks for sea monsters?"

"What's the limit of what I can Google before the police turn up?"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 hours ago

East Sussex

No I wouldn't because it's nobody else's damn business

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