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By *ymClassDropout OP   Man
1 day ago

Berkshire

Threads akin to

‘What colour was the third car you ever owned?’

‘If the above poster was a type of cheese what kind would they be?’

Really ????? 😂

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By *oeBeansMan
1 day ago

Derby

No idea what you mean, OP

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By *urvyBunnyWoman
1 day ago

Suffolk

It's all a bit of fun 🤣

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By *enk15Man
1 day ago

Evesham


"‘What colour was the third car you ever owned?’

"

What was it though? I need to know.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
1 day ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"‘What colour was the third car you ever owned?’

What was it though? I need to know."

A nice, smooth Brie I think 👍🏻😜

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By *he Silver FuxMan
1 day ago

Uttoxeter


"Threads akin to

‘What colour was the third car you ever owned?’

‘If the above poster was a type of cheese what kind would they be?’

Really ????? 😂"

Tedious, Tenuous, Dull…

Shit posting for exposure

Sometimes I join in

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex

How about staring a non tedious thread or two then op?

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By *iz78Woman
1 day ago

wirral

Judging from your green arrow OP you seem to enjoy doing in on these types of threads

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By *ushym8Man
1 day ago

Bedfordshire

A nice strong cheddar 🧀

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS
1 day ago

The Lake District


"‘What colour was the third car you ever owned?’

Really ????? 😂"

Sunburst Red a Ford colour (on a Fiesta)

It really was

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 day ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nah this is normal

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
1 day ago

Ends

Let people have fun. Why is it that deep?

I simply ignore the many threads I don’t enjoy and comment on the many I do. Or start some.

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By *obilebottomMan
1 day ago

All over

Phew, glad none of mine were mentioned. I am sure they will be super tedious for some people but that's ok. Lotscof threads I find are not for me but probably of great interest to others. Now can you pkease all go to my dinner thread and tell me what you are having. Thank you so much

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
1 day ago

Markfield


"Threads akin to

‘What colour was the third car you ever owned?’

‘If the above poster was a type of cheese what kind would they be?’

Really ????? 😂"

Do you really mean tenuous?

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By *ruceyyMan
1 day ago

London

I'm sorry it's because I've been posting less, I'll rectify it when I can!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
1 day ago

BRIDPORT


"Let people have fun. Why is it that deep?

I simply ignore the many threads I don’t enjoy and comment on the many I do. Or start some. "

Start SOME…….😂😂😂😂

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By *rSircumsizedMan
1 day ago

Risca

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By *aigressMan
1 day ago

Cardiff

Everything is a mirror..

Some look for attention

Some find it

People react or don't

We all have opinions??

I think its better there is a forum than not.

I guess engage with what chimes...

Leave the rest to those that want to engage.

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By *oughmanMan
1 day ago

Sunderland

Just a bit of fun. I like because it makes me feel a little more comfortable being here.

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By *iker JackMan
1 day ago

Wolverhampton

If you don’t like them create your own or don’t partake

Everyone is a critic

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
1 day ago

The Continental

I eagerly await your new and original, earth shatteringly brilliant thread, whenever it arrives.

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By *an8iMan
1 day ago

Bilston

My third car was a k reg blue es cort awful car

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By *eoBloomsMan
1 day ago

Springfield

I like Tenuous D

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
1 day ago

A den in the Glen


"I like Tenuous D "

My third car was a gorgonzola and he ⬆️ is an XR3i

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By *end1Man
1 day ago

southend on sea

There's definitely a couple of attention seekers who put 4 or 5 posts up a day!

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By *rHotNottsMan
1 day ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"There's definitely a couple of attention seekers who put 4 or 5 posts up a day!"

He’s salty cheese and his third car was a baby shit Green punto

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
1 day ago

Essex

I think it was red…

And he’s marscapone with a hot honey drizzle

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By *asterfulsoulMan
1 day ago

Manchester

AI

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By *viatrixWoman
1 day ago

Redhill


"Threads akin to

‘What colour was the third car you ever owned?’

‘If the above poster was a type of cheese what kind would they be?’

Really ????? 😂"

I prefer to know more about people with tjreads where they say a bit about themsekves- yes, even if they identify as a Brie or a Manchego, than those “say you’re in” threads- now, those -are- tedious….

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 day ago

Leeds

They've been a bit meh for a while now...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

1 day ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's the lounge.

The joy of the lounge has always been it's randomness, quirkiness and the presence of threads that people start 'just because'.

If you want the smut chat, advice, help, club info, conspiracy theories, bikes or any other 'specialist subject' just head to the relevant forums.

Long live the Lounge and all who sail in her. 😁😁

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By *herrybakewellCouple
1 day ago

Staffordshire

I prefer those threads than all the ones we see of men worrying about the size of their dick.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
1 day ago

Durham

Compared to years ago, yes.

People used to speak their minds a lot more but everyone seems so much more reserved now..

It's a shame but it is what it is. I still enjoy reading them and seeing people's different characters and personalities and the variety of subjects.

Ruby

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By *exyScientistsCouple
24 hours ago

Castlebar

Yes I miss all those what's wrong with my profile/why won't anyone meet me/why all women are fake threads. Can't get enough of them...🙄

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By *eronikapaulCouple
24 hours ago

Reading

Xcellent thread this!

Mrs doesn't know because she is still on her second car ever. Would still be on the first except Mr wrote it off. Naughty Mr.

Mr is one of those cheeses that develops crunchy bits as it gets old.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
24 hours ago

couple, us we him her.


"Threads akin to

‘What colour was the third car you ever owned?’

‘If the above poster was a type of cheese what kind would they be?’

Really ????? 😂"

I try to start thread's that are thought provoking and engaging in actual conversation mostly,

I do also post trivial nonsense at times.

I find a lot of the thread's I start are answered but ignored by certain people which leads to less replies.

The forum as a whole is much harder to get people to engage in terms of meaningful threads.

What I mean 6/7 years ago the lounge moved so fast that thread's would fill up quickly with lot's of replies today a thread can stay close to the top of page one all day.

Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
24 hours ago

The Town by The Cross


"There's definitely a couple of attention seekers who put 4 or 5 posts up a day!"

This is the kind of behaviour that is ruining the world. People using a forum. Makes my blood boil.

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By *ellhungvweMan
24 hours ago

Cheltenham


"Threads akin to

‘What colour was the third car you ever owned?’

‘If the above poster was a type of cheese what kind would they be?’

Really ????? 😂

I try to start thread's that are thought provoking and engaging in actual conversation mostly,

I do also post trivial nonsense at times.

I find a lot of the thread's I start are answered but ignored by certain people which leads to less replies.

The forum as a whole is much harder to get people to engage in terms of meaningful threads.

What I mean 6/7 years ago the lounge moved so fast that thread's would fill up quickly with lot's of replies today a thread can stay close to the top of page one all day.

Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

"

I am with this.

When you have thread number 752 on the same subject you know something is wrong.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
24 hours ago

The Town by The Cross


"They've been a bit meh for a while now..."

Stop holding back. They've been a LOT meh for a while now

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By *HUSH-Man
24 hours ago

London

I haven’t owned a third car yet but I’d quite like to have a silver one. They depreciate in value less than other colours I’m told. I have absolutely no proof to back that up.

I’d be the classic Dairylea if I was a cheese. The triangle that is, not that shit that comes in a spreadable tub.

MB I had chicken sausages with bell peppers, onions, tomatoes and sweetcorn for dinner. I’d quite like another one of your cake threads with pictures again when you have the time. Let’s see if I can guess the flavours again 😊

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By *B69Woman
24 hours ago

Wiltshire

I think you need those kind of threads as they take no effort and it’s an easy start for newbies to get involved.

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By *illy IdolMan
24 hours ago

Midlands


"I haven’t owned a third car yet but I’d quite like to have a silver one. They depreciate in value less than other colours I’m told. I have absolutely no proof to back that up.

I’d be the classic Dairylea if I was a cheese. The triangle that is, not that shit that comes in a spreadable tub.

MB I had chicken sausages with bell peppers, onions, tomatoes and sweetcorn for dinner. I’d quite like another one of your cake threads with pictures again when you have the time. Let’s see if I can guess the flavours again 😊 "

What vacuum cleaner have you currently got?

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By *elly and daveCouple
24 hours ago

gateshead

Tenuous...that's an understatement

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By *oeBeansMan
24 hours ago

Derby


"I think you need those kind of threads as they take no effort and it’s an easy start for newbies to get involved."

That's what I think as well. Some inoffensive threads like what your favourite chocolate is much easier to get involved in and dip your toe in before going into the more heated debates like the best dunking biscuit or what you call a bread roll

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By *eavilMan
24 hours ago

Stalybridge

Banana

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By *ou only live onceMan
24 hours ago

London

I've not been on here as much lately, but they seem about as exciting as always.

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By *loomy GirlWoman
24 hours ago

leicester

I’ve not owned 3 cars. Still on my first. It’s silver 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *ou only live onceMan
24 hours ago

London

I've got some exciting news though!

The bag of jelly babies I'm currently working my way through had loads that don't have that slightly crispy shell. Must be a duff batch, but it's an eating revelation!

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By *iss.BellaWoman
24 hours ago

Chester


"Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

"

Agreed. I can't be bothered lately for this reason. It's not worth it 🤷‍♀️

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By *HUSH-Man
24 hours ago

London


"I haven’t owned a third car yet but I’d quite like to have a silver one. They depreciate in value less than other colours I’m told. I have absolutely no proof to back that up.

I’d be the classic Dairylea if I was a cheese. The triangle that is, not that shit that comes in a spreadable tub.

MB I had chicken sausages with bell peppers, onions, tomatoes and sweetcorn for dinner. I’d quite like another one of your cake threads with pictures again when you have the time. Let’s see if I can guess the flavours again 😊

What vacuum cleaner have you currently got?"

I have a Dyson. Had it for years and it’s still going strong 💪

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
24 hours ago

A den in the Glen


"Threads akin to

‘What colour was the third car you ever owned?’

‘If the above poster was a type of cheese what kind would they be?’

Really ????? 😂

I try to start thread's that are thought provoking and engaging in actual conversation mostly,

I do also post trivial nonsense at times.

I find a lot of the thread's I start are answered but ignored by certain people which leads to less replies.

The forum as a whole is much harder to get people to engage in terms of meaningful threads.

What I mean 6/7 years ago the lounge moved so fast that thread's would fill up quickly with lot's of replies today a thread can stay close to the top of page one all day.

Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

"

Haha. Yes, I have just come out of my latest ban and promise to behave for a few days at least.

But you're right. I just tend to leave the threads that are provocative now. Same people, same baiting, whether intentional or not.

Flip for them, they do not wish to engage with my maturity levels. Quid pro quo.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
24 hours ago

Durham


"Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

Agreed. I can't be bothered lately for this reason. It's not worth it 🤷‍♀️"

I totally agree with this too. People used to speak their minds a whole lot more but so many hold back, incl me. The amount of comments I type out, then delete, as it just isn't worth the backlash.

It's a real shame.

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By *eroLondonMan
24 hours ago

Mayfair

Tenuous???

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By *electableicecreamMan
24 hours ago

The West

I enjoy the nonsense and repetition interspersed with the occasional lynching.

Shit posting and ego stroking are important pillars of online life and if I didn't find it here I'd have to spend more time in the comments on Reddit and no one wants that. Please don't make me go back.

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By *rdenites2Couple
23 hours ago

Market Bosworth

Just boring nonsense as the site is gravitating towards

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
23 hours ago

Ends


"Let people have fun. Why is it that deep?

I simply ignore the many threads I don’t enjoy and comment on the many I do. Or start some.

Start SOME…….😂😂😂😂 "

This narrative needs to end! I don’t start that many threads!!

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By *HUSH-Man
23 hours ago

London

Here’s my serious 2 cents on the matter. I’m not directing this at you OP or anyone else in this thread for the record.

I hang out in the lounge because it’s often light hearted, a bit silly and FAB is something of an escape from reality for me.

I have in depth discussions among friends about politics, economics, philosophy, psychology, relationships, art, religion and other subjects. The problem with forums and social media in general is that they’re not the best platforms to have these nuanced discussions. Brexit lead me to having arguments and cost me friendships because I made the mistake of talking about it on Facebook when it should have been done in person. I bet others can relate to that too?

I’ve also read some seriously dumb things from people on here (one example was someone trying to argue that stereotyping wasn’t racist) I don’t respond to them because other than calling them a fucking moron (which would probably get me banned) you can’t fix that level of stupid. So what’s the point 🤷‍♂️ I also subscribe to the idea that you don’t argue with a stupid person. They’ll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

I for one quite like it the way it is in the lounge. It’s not always for me but I don’t think it needs to change 👍

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By *naswingdressWoman
23 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)

I find I'm much more able to speak my mind than say, pre pandemic.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
23 hours ago

Chester


"Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

Agreed. I can't be bothered lately for this reason. It's not worth it 🤷‍♀️

I totally agree with this too. People used to speak their minds a whole lot more but so many hold back, incl me. The amount of comments I type out, then delete, as it just isn't worth the backlash.

It's a real shame."

Definitely, I do the same, then log out for a few hours. The forum was once fun, but recently it's ridiculous. How dare anyone offer a different opinion or have joke around here.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
23 hours ago

Ends


"I find I'm much more able to speak my mind than say, pre pandemic."

#StayWoke

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By *naswingdressWoman
23 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I find I'm much more able to speak my mind than say, pre pandemic.

#StayWoke"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
22 hours ago

little house on the praire

I find the forums really dull I've had a break. I will be having another by the end of the week

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By *ildTimes.Man
22 hours ago

Colchester/London


"Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

Agreed. I can't be bothered lately for this reason. It's not worth it 🤷‍♀️

I totally agree with this too. People used to speak their minds a whole lot more but so many hold back, incl me. The amount of comments I type out, then delete, as it just isn't worth the backlash.

It's a real shame.

Definitely, I do the same, then log out for a few hours. The forum was once fun, but recently it's ridiculous. How dare anyone offer a different opinion or have joke around here. "

It's been dead for ages, most of the characters have left, It's full of boring self grandiose types branding anyone that disagrees with them 'far right". Probably due some more happy pills , might perk them up a bit hopefully

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By *eyond PurityCouple
22 hours ago

Lincolnshire

I avoid posts by certain people as I find they aren’t my cup of tea.

I tend to avoid posts by the forum favourites as it just becomes a circle jerk between the favourites.

But I only dip in and out so it doesn’t really bother me - tend to be more in Swingers chat than the Lounge as the posts are just the same now.

K

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By *iss.BellaWoman
22 hours ago

Chester


"Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

Agreed. I can't be bothered lately for this reason. It's not worth it 🤷‍♀️

I totally agree with this too. People used to speak their minds a whole lot more but so many hold back, incl me. The amount of comments I type out, then delete, as it just isn't worth the backlash.

It's a real shame.

Definitely, I do the same, then log out for a few hours. The forum was once fun, but recently it's ridiculous. How dare anyone offer a different opinion or have joke around here.

It's been dead for ages, most of the characters have left, It's full of boring self grandiose types branding anyone that disagrees with them 'far right". Probably due some more happy pills , might perk them up a bit hopefully "

Happy Pill, shag, sense of humour. Whichever works 🤷‍♀️

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
22 hours ago

Ends

The way that people look at the forums is interesting but also hilarious.

People (who don’t start threads) moan about lack of fun so other people try and start fun threads. Not good enough.

People complain that they are being gagged and can’t say their true feelings. But of course they can, they just have to follow the rules that they’ve never read.

People complain about cliques and faves (reality it’s just people that are friends and interact away from the forums) whilst having friends and favourites that they engage with.

Just use it for what you want. Post your own threads and you’ll find your people.

People complain so much about this place but they still post. Unfortunately, no, you can’t gatekeep this place. So sad you can’t stop people re you don’t like enjoying themselves or posting.

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By *ad NannaWoman
22 hours ago

East London

Do you mean tedious?

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By *ustAnotherMan
22 hours ago

Mids

I took think the forums are more and more tinnitus.

What?

Sorry?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
22 hours ago

Ends


"I avoid posts by certain people as I find they aren’t my cup of tea.

I tend to avoid posts by the forum favourites as it just becomes a circle jerk between the favourites.

But I only dip in and out so it doesn’t really bother me - tend to be more in Swingers chat than the Lounge as the posts are just the same now.

K"

What are forum favourites. I see this so often it makes no sense. Nobody is better than anyone in this place. Regular posters are all recognised. I recognise most names in here if they post on threads I read.

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)

😂😂😂😂

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By *agondaMan
22 hours ago

Witterings


"‘What colour was the third car you ever owned?’

What was it though? I need to know."

Can we please define ownership here? Do company cars count? Who remembers those lol

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
22 hours ago

Den of Iniquity


"Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

Agreed. I can't be bothered lately for this reason. It's not worth it 🤷‍♀️

I totally agree with this too. People used to speak their minds a whole lot more but so many hold back, incl me. The amount of comments I type out, then delete, as it just isn't worth the backlash.

It's a real shame.

Definitely, I do the same, then log out for a few hours. The forum was once fun, but recently it's ridiculous. How dare anyone offer a different opinion or have joke around here. "

Noooo you mustn't do that didn't you realise 😆

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By *ustAnotherMan
22 hours ago

Mids

Some of the forum posts are going to have tendonitis, posting with one hand all the time

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
22 hours ago

A den in the Glen

It's easy for me. There are 3 types of people on the forums.

Those that like to enjoy a lovely sandwich, a flask of tea, perhaps strawberries and cream, maybe even pushing the boat out and having a lovely G&T and enjoying a picnic and a good old gossip.

Also, there are those that would love to go over to this group, take a massive dump of gargantuan proportions on the picnic cloth and smear it in. Maybe even flicking a clegnut or two at these people.

Then there are those that watch from the sides in amazement at both the dumpee(s) and the folk trying to enjoy eating their food. These people are having their own thoughts as to WTAF they have just witnessed.

*Mods. I do not condone dropping off a chocolate log in public. These are merely my thoughts from someone, maybe at the sides.

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By *eoBloomsMan
22 hours ago

Springfield


"Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

Agreed. I can't be bothered lately for this reason. It's not worth it 🤷‍♀️

I totally agree with this too. People used to speak their minds a whole lot more but so many hold back, incl me. The amount of comments I type out, then delete, as it just isn't worth the backlash.

It's a real shame.

Definitely, I do the same, then log out for a few hours. The forum was once fun, but recently it's ridiculous. How dare anyone offer a different opinion or have joke around here.

Noooo you mustn't do that didn't you realise 😆"

Careful Grumps, the fun police won't like that !

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By *B69Woman
22 hours ago

Wiltshire


"It's easy for me. There are 3 types of people on the forums.

Those that like to enjoy a lovely sandwich, a flask of tea, perhaps strawberries and cream, maybe even pushing the boat out and having a lovely G&T and enjoying a picnic and a good old gossip.

Also, there are those that would love to go over to this group, take a massive dump of gargantuan proportions on the picnic cloth and smear it in. Maybe even flicking a clegnut or two at these people.

Then there are those that watch from the sides in amazement at both the dumpee(s) and the folk trying to enjoy eating their food. These people are having their own thoughts as to WTAF they have just witnessed.

*Mods. I do not condone dropping off a chocolate log in public. These are merely my thoughts from someone, maybe at the sides."

I prefer a fête champêtre they usually have toilets

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
22 hours ago

A den in the Glen


"It's easy for me. There are 3 types of people on the forums.

Those that like to enjoy a lovely sandwich, a flask of tea, perhaps strawberries and cream, maybe even pushing the boat out and having a lovely G&T and enjoying a picnic and a good old gossip.

Also, there are those that would love to go over to this group, take a massive dump of gargantuan proportions on the picnic cloth and smear it in. Maybe even flicking a clegnut or two at these people.

Then there are those that watch from the sides in amazement at both the dumpee(s) and the folk trying to enjoy eating their food. These people are having their own thoughts as to WTAF they have just witnessed.

*Mods. I do not condone dropping off a chocolate log in public. These are merely my thoughts from someone, maybe at the sides.

I prefer a fête champêtre they usually have toilets"

I never had you down as a 'surface-layer' to be honest WB!

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
22 hours ago

Ends


"It's easy for me. There are 3 types of people on the forums.

Those that like to enjoy a lovely sandwich, a flask of tea, perhaps strawberries and cream, maybe even pushing the boat out and having a lovely G&T and enjoying a picnic and a good old gossip.

Also, there are those that would love to go over to this group, take a massive dump of gargantuan proportions on the picnic cloth and smear it in. Maybe even flicking a clegnut or two at these people.

Then there are those that watch from the sides in amazement at both the dumpee(s) and the folk trying to enjoy eating their food. These people are having their own thoughts as to WTAF they have just witnessed.

*Mods. I do not condone dropping off a chocolate log in public. These are merely my thoughts from someone, maybe at the sides."

I would love it if that happened at one of my picnics. Would liven them up a bit.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
22 hours ago

Den of Iniquity


"Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

Agreed. I can't be bothered lately for this reason. It's not worth it 🤷‍♀️

I totally agree with this too. People used to speak their minds a whole lot more but so many hold back, incl me. The amount of comments I type out, then delete, as it just isn't worth the backlash.

It's a real shame.

Definitely, I do the same, then log out for a few hours. The forum was once fun, but recently it's ridiculous. How dare anyone offer a different opinion or have joke around here.

Noooo you mustn't do that didn't you realise 😆

Careful Grumps, the fun police won't like that ! "

Now Now Mr. Blooms

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By *ad NannaWoman
22 hours ago

East London


"It's easy for me. There are 3 types of people on the forums.

Those that like to enjoy a lovely sandwich, a flask of tea, perhaps strawberries and cream, maybe even pushing the boat out and having a lovely G&T and enjoying a picnic and a good old gossip.

Also, there are those that would love to go over to this group, take a massive dump of gargantuan proportions on the picnic cloth and smear it in. Maybe even flicking a clegnut or two at these people.

Then there are those that watch from the sides in amazement at both the dumpee(s) and the folk trying to enjoy eating their food. These people are having their own thoughts as to WTAF they have just witnessed.

*Mods. I do not condone dropping off a chocolate log in public. These are merely my thoughts from someone, maybe at the sides.

I would love it if that happened at one of my picnics. Would liven them up a bit. "

*blinks*

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
22 hours ago

Ends


"It's easy for me. There are 3 types of people on the forums.

Those that like to enjoy a lovely sandwich, a flask of tea, perhaps strawberries and cream, maybe even pushing the boat out and having a lovely G&T and enjoying a picnic and a good old gossip.

Also, there are those that would love to go over to this group, take a massive dump of gargantuan proportions on the picnic cloth and smear it in. Maybe even flicking a clegnut or two at these people.

Then there are those that watch from the sides in amazement at both the dumpee(s) and the folk trying to enjoy eating their food. These people are having their own thoughts as to WTAF they have just witnessed.

*Mods. I do not condone dropping off a chocolate log in public. These are merely my thoughts from someone, maybe at the sides.

I would love it if that happened at one of my picnics. Would liven them up a bit.

*blinks*"

You would love it too don’t try it

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
22 hours ago

North West


"It's easy for me. There are 3 types of people on the forums.

Those that like to enjoy a lovely sandwich, a flask of tea, perhaps strawberries and cream, maybe even pushing the boat out and having a lovely G&T and enjoying a picnic and a good old gossip.

Also, there are those that would love to go over to this group, take a massive dump of gargantuan proportions on the picnic cloth and smear it in. Maybe even flicking a clegnut or two at these people.

Then there are those that watch from the sides in amazement at both the dumpee(s) and the folk trying to enjoy eating their food. These people are having their own thoughts as to WTAF they have just witnessed.

*Mods. I do not condone dropping off a chocolate log in public. These are merely my thoughts from someone, maybe at the sides.

I would love it if that happened at one of my picnics. Would liven them up a bit. "

Taking notes here 📝

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By *ad NannaWoman
22 hours ago

East London


"It's easy for me. There are 3 types of people on the forums.

Those that like to enjoy a lovely sandwich, a flask of tea, perhaps strawberries and cream, maybe even pushing the boat out and having a lovely G&T and enjoying a picnic and a good old gossip.

Also, there are those that would love to go over to this group, take a massive dump of gargantuan proportions on the picnic cloth and smear it in. Maybe even flicking a clegnut or two at these people.

Then there are those that watch from the sides in amazement at both the dumpee(s) and the folk trying to enjoy eating their food. These people are having their own thoughts as to WTAF they have just witnessed.

*Mods. I do not condone dropping off a chocolate log in public. These are merely my thoughts from someone, maybe at the sides.

I would love it if that happened at one of my picnics. Would liven them up a bit.

*blinks*

You would love it too don’t try it "

Only if it's an actual chocolate log made from chocolate.

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's easy for me. There are 3 types of people on the forums.

Those that like to enjoy a lovely sandwich, a flask of tea, perhaps strawberries and cream, maybe even pushing the boat out and having a lovely G&T and enjoying a picnic and a good old gossip.

Also, there are those that would love to go over to this group, take a massive dump of gargantuan proportions on the picnic cloth and smear it in. Maybe even flicking a clegnut or two at these people.

Then there are those that watch from the sides in amazement at both the dumpee(s) and the folk trying to enjoy eating their food. These people are having their own thoughts as to WTAF they have just witnessed.

*Mods. I do not condone dropping off a chocolate log in public. These are merely my thoughts from someone, maybe at the sides.

I would love it if that happened at one of my picnics. Would liven them up a bit.

*blinks*

You would love it too don’t try it

Only if it's an actual chocolate log made from chocolate.

"

The chocolatiest chocolate in the world?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
22 hours ago

Ends

Guys stop replying to me please we’re not a clique

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
22 hours ago

North West


"Guys stop replying to me please we’re not a clique "

Okay 👌🏻

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
22 hours ago

Ends

Ffs no wonder everyone has me blocked

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By *iss.BellaWoman
22 hours ago

Chester


"Another thing people are way too quick to cry foul and be offended by the smallest thing resulting in a time out this I feel has led to people playing it safe and going for "safe" subject matters for fear of a ban or the wrath of the forum favs.

It has created a blander more repetitive forum.

Agreed. I can't be bothered lately for this reason. It's not worth it 🤷‍♀️

I totally agree with this too. People used to speak their minds a whole lot more but so many hold back, incl me. The amount of comments I type out, then delete, as it just isn't worth the backlash.

It's a real shame.

Definitely, I do the same, then log out for a few hours. The forum was once fun, but recently it's ridiculous. How dare anyone offer a different opinion or have joke around here.

Noooo you mustn't do that didn't you realise 😆"

I should've, but I'm soon learning

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Guys stop replying to me please we’re not a clique "

Are we really so concerned by appearances that we worry about who we talk to and what people will think about it?

Is it really necessary to cater to people's feelings when speaking to one another, other than just recognising they exist and give them the same basic dignity as anyone else?

Or are we worried about people disagreeing with us, because we don't have courage in our convictions?

Gosh. Sounds like some primary school snowflake shit.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
22 hours ago

Ends


"Guys stop replying to me please we’re not a clique

Are we really so concerned by appearances that we worry about who we talk to and what people will think about it?

Is it really necessary to cater to people's feelings when speaking to one another, other than just recognising they exist and give them the same basic dignity as anyone else?

Or are we worried about people disagreeing with us, because we don't have courage in our convictions?

Gosh. Sounds like some primary school snowflake shit. "

Hello!!

Freeze Peach!!?

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Guys stop replying to me please we’re not a clique

Are we really so concerned by appearances that we worry about who we talk to and what people will think about it?

Is it really necessary to cater to people's feelings when speaking to one another, other than just recognising they exist and give them the same basic dignity as anyone else?

Or are we worried about people disagreeing with us, because we don't have courage in our convictions?

Gosh. Sounds like some primary school snowflake shit.

Hello!!

Freeze Peach!!?"

Yes. Freeze peach means saying what I want and never hearing anything else. Exchange of ideas is tyranny

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By *eroLondonMan
22 hours ago

Mayfair


"Ffs no wonder everyone has me blocked "

·

Not me. I've haven't blocked you because I still wish to attend your picnics.

#I'mNotThatShallow. 🕳️

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
21 hours ago

North West


"Guys stop replying to me please we’re not a clique

Are we really so concerned by appearances that we worry about who we talk to and what people will think about it?

Is it really necessary to cater to people's feelings when speaking to one another, other than just recognising they exist and give them the same basic dignity as anyone else?

Or are we worried about people disagreeing with us, because we don't have courage in our convictions?

Gosh. Sounds like some primary school snowflake shit.

Hello!!

Freeze Peach!!?

Yes. Freeze peach means saying what I want and never hearing anything else. Exchange of ideas is tyranny "

My favourite dinosaurs are tyranny-sauruses 🦖

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By *eyond PurityCouple
21 hours ago

Lincolnshire


"I avoid posts by certain people as I find they aren’t my cup of tea.

I tend to avoid posts by the forum favourites as it just becomes a circle jerk between the favourites.

But I only dip in and out so it doesn’t really bother me - tend to be more in Swingers chat than the Lounge as the posts are just the same now.

K

What are forum favourites. I see this so often it makes no sense. Nobody is better than anyone in this place. Regular posters are all recognised. I recognise most names in here if they post on threads I read."

I didn’t say anyone is better than anyone but there’s clearly people who only reply to people they chat with (and/or if a woman is on the thread ).

Non regular posters don’t get much traction or attention. If a non regular poster makes a post then it dies fast so they probably don’t bother again.

I’m not having a go and know that’s the internet for you but it happens whether you don’t think it does or not

K

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By *naswingdressWoman
21 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Guys stop replying to me please we’re not a clique

Are we really so concerned by appearances that we worry about who we talk to and what people will think about it?

Is it really necessary to cater to people's feelings when speaking to one another, other than just recognising they exist and give them the same basic dignity as anyone else?

Or are we worried about people disagreeing with us, because we don't have courage in our convictions?

Gosh. Sounds like some primary school snowflake shit.

Hello!!

Freeze Peach!!?

Yes. Freeze peach means saying what I want and never hearing anything else. Exchange of ideas is tyranny

My favourite dinosaurs are tyranny-sauruses 🦖"

How dare you cancel my stegosaurus love

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
21 hours ago

Ends


"Guys stop replying to me please we’re not a clique

Are we really so concerned by appearances that we worry about who we talk to and what people will think about it?

Is it really necessary to cater to people's feelings when speaking to one another, other than just recognising they exist and give them the same basic dignity as anyone else?

Or are we worried about people disagreeing with us, because we don't have courage in our convictions?

Gosh. Sounds like some primary school snowflake shit.

Hello!!

Freeze Peach!!?

Yes. Freeze peach means saying what I want and never hearing anything else. Exchange of ideas is tyranny

My favourite dinosaurs are tyranny-sauruses 🦖"

Ok that was fucking funny.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
21 hours ago

North West


"Guys stop replying to me please we’re not a clique

Are we really so concerned by appearances that we worry about who we talk to and what people will think about it?

Is it really necessary to cater to people's feelings when speaking to one another, other than just recognising they exist and give them the same basic dignity as anyone else?

Or are we worried about people disagreeing with us, because we don't have courage in our convictions?

Gosh. Sounds like some primary school snowflake shit.

Hello!!

Freeze Peach!!?

Yes. Freeze peach means saying what I want and never hearing anything else. Exchange of ideas is tyranny

My favourite dinosaurs are tyranny-sauruses 🦖

Ok that was fucking funny. "

I'm here all week

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
21 hours ago

Ends


"Ffs no wonder everyone has me blocked

·

Not me. I've haven't blocked you because I still wish to attend your picnics.

#I'mNotThatShallow. 🕳️"

🥂

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
21 hours ago

Ends


"Guys stop replying to me please we’re not a clique

Are we really so concerned by appearances that we worry about who we talk to and what people will think about it?

Is it really necessary to cater to people's feelings when speaking to one another, other than just recognising they exist and give them the same basic dignity as anyone else?

Or are we worried about people disagreeing with us, because we don't have courage in our convictions?

Gosh. Sounds like some primary school snowflake shit.

Hello!!

Freeze Peach!!?

Yes. Freeze peach means saying what I want and never hearing anything else. Exchange of ideas is tyranny

My favourite dinosaurs are tyranny-sauruses 🦖

Ok that was fucking funny.

I'm here all week "

Rather you were here

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
21 hours ago

North West


"Guys stop replying to me please we’re not a clique

Are we really so concerned by appearances that we worry about who we talk to and what people will think about it?

Is it really necessary to cater to people's feelings when speaking to one another, other than just recognising they exist and give them the same basic dignity as anyone else?

Or are we worried about people disagreeing with us, because we don't have courage in our convictions?

Gosh. Sounds like some primary school snowflake shit.

Hello!!

Freeze Peach!!?

Yes. Freeze peach means saying what I want and never hearing anything else. Exchange of ideas is tyranny

My favourite dinosaurs are tyranny-sauruses 🦖

Ok that was fucking funny.

I'm here all week

Rather you were here "

Me soon come. Or cum.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
21 hours ago

Ends


"I avoid posts by certain people as I find they aren’t my cup of tea.

I tend to avoid posts by the forum favourites as it just becomes a circle jerk between the favourites.

But I only dip in and out so it doesn’t really bother me - tend to be more in Swingers chat than the Lounge as the posts are just the same now.

K

What are forum favourites. I see this so often it makes no sense. Nobody is better than anyone in this place. Regular posters are all recognised. I recognise most names in here if they post on threads I read.

I didn’t say anyone is better than anyone but there’s clearly people who only reply to people they chat with (and/or if a woman is on the thread ).

Non regular posters don’t get much traction or attention. If a non regular poster makes a post then it dies fast so they probably don’t bother again.

I’m not having a go and know that’s the internet for you but it happens whether you don’t think it does or not

K"

I think more people should just go ahead and post. I remember years ago when I started using the forums just posting threads. Some people engaged with some they didn’t.

I think people just care too much about getting laid in the forums.

I didn’t think you’re having a go btw. But I am genuinely curious because like who are the faves? It just feels like it’s ‘the people I don’t like’ coded

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
21 hours ago

The Town by The Cross


"I took think the forums are more and more tinnitus.

What?

Sorry?

"

I'm proper laughing........... eh ?

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By *ustAnotherMan
21 hours ago

Mids


"I took think the forums are more and more tinnitus.

What?

Sorry?

I'm proper laughing........... eh ?"

You're proper fapping? Eh? Well, what you do is up to you

What?

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By *ad NannaWoman
20 hours ago

East London


"Ffs no wonder everyone has me blocked

·

Not me. I've haven't blocked you because I still wish to attend your picnics.

#I'mNotThatShallow. 🕳️"

Bring a posh chocolate log please 😊

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By *eroLondonMan
20 hours ago

Mayfair


"Ffs no wonder everyone has me blocked

·

Not me. I've haven't blocked you because I still wish to attend your picnics.

#I'mNotThatShallow. 🕳️

·

Bring a posh chocolate log please 😊"

I'll have to go via Charbonnel et Walker™, but it's do'able.

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By *aigressMan
19 hours ago

Cardiff


"I avoid posts by certain people as I find they aren’t my cup of tea.

I tend to avoid posts by the forum favourites as it just becomes a circle jerk between the favourites.

But I only dip in and out so it doesn’t really bother me - tend to be more in Swingers chat than the Lounge as the posts are just the same now.

K

What are forum favourites. I see this so often it makes no sense. Nobody is better than anyone in this place. Regular posters are all recognised. I recognise most names in here if they post on threads I read.

I didn’t say anyone is better than anyone but there’s clearly people who only reply to people they chat with (and/or if a woman is on the thread ).

Non regular posters don’t get much traction or attention. If a non regular poster makes a post then it dies fast so they probably don’t bother again.

I’m not having a go and know that’s the internet for you but it happens whether you don’t think it does or not

K

I think more people should just go ahead and post. I remember years ago when I started using the forums just posting threads. Some people engaged with some they didn’t.

I think people just care too much about getting laid in the forums.

I didn’t think you’re having a go btw. But I am genuinely curious because like who are the faves? It just feels like it’s ‘the people I don’t like’ coded"

Hang on... you can get laid in the forums??

That's just about worth disclosing "my favourite toothpaste brand"

Or

Telling you my current car is "biege"

Just

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By *ongandharderMan
19 hours ago

Rotherham

Some people are lonely and the socials do them good no need to take them too seriously

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By *ags73Man
19 hours ago

glasgow-ish

Tedious?

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By *andadbodMan
15 hours ago

Liverpool

People have run out of ideas this is true, but remember there’s always new people joining the forums so they will be seeing these threads for the first time.

Yes it probably will give a kinda look and wonder what they hell they’ve walked in to, but if you’re more of the creative kind then do feel free to start a thread on something that’s not been discussed yet?👍🏻

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By *vaRose43Woman
14 hours ago

Forest of Dean

I’d really like to know what sort of cheese I am 🧀

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By *ife NinjaMan
14 hours ago

Dunfermline


"I’d really like to know what sort of cheese I am 🧀 "

Cheddar. Mature and very tasty. Leaves a satisfying aftertaste in the mouth

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
14 hours ago

Ends


"I’d really like to know what sort of cheese I am 🧀

Cheddar. Mature and very tasty. Leaves a satisfying aftertaste in the mouth "

Mature! She’s very mature! 👵🏻

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By *ife NinjaMan
14 hours ago

Dunfermline


"I’d really like to know what sort of cheese I am 🧀

Cheddar. Mature and very tasty. Leaves a satisfying aftertaste in the mouth

Mature! She’s very mature! 👵🏻"

Body of an angel

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By *aigressMan
9 hours ago

Cardiff


"I’d really like to know what sort of cheese I am 🧀 "

Be careful... you might not like the answer.

Imagine being a "cheese string"

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By *vaRose43Woman
8 hours ago

Forest of Dean


"I’d really like to know what sort of cheese I am 🧀

Be careful... you might not like the answer.

Imagine being a "cheese string""

Could be worse

Could be a can of spray cheese

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