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"I'm sure many of us have seen those profiles and thought it. However, have you ever gone for it and realised they weren't too good to be true? Was it awesome or was it actually decidedly average? " Still remember a great looking couple who were miles away, they were new and miles away, much as I didn't mind travelling I thought tgtbt. They are still on here, meeting, looking as great as ever. Makes me smile if I see them posting a pic | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiasticly the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. " This is so true | |||
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"Everybody’s too good to be true, and at the same time nobody is. It’s more about our perceptions really, and our brains are fickle, awkward things at times." This is pretty much it.. we all have our own preferences and we like different things in people so a tgtbt for me may be thought average by others | |||
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"I'm sure many of us have seen those profiles and thought it. However, have you ever gone for it and realised they weren't too good to be true? Was it awesome or was it actually decidedly average? " Yes, I have a quite few times. Most of the time they turn out to be just normal average people and occasionally they are a real pain in the arse , a head fuck & have a trail of bad experiences because they are so used to people doing all the work in a relationship. | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiasticly the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. This is so true " I must be doing something wrong. In all my 17 years here I've not been asked for so much as a Mars bar, or bag of haribos, either when I've sent a message or received one. 🤔🤷♂️ | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiasticly the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. This is so true I must be doing something wrong. In all my 17 years here I've not been asked for so much as a Mars bar, or bag of haribos, either when I've sent a message or received one. 🤔🤷♂️" I’ve never been asked for money either, I’ve given people money when they needed but they didn’t ask. I sometimes get messages from really young hot women where they start talking about some nice trip or event, I know I just told them that sounds fucking boring jump on a train. I’m happy to do you. That soon ends the conversation before they got round to asking. | |||
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"I'm sure many of us have seen those profiles and thought it. However, have you ever gone for it and realised they weren't too good to be true? Was it awesome or was it actually decidedly average? " I often find the "Too good to be true" people often delete profiles or they aren't real to begin with. Or, of course.. they are here for some one handed action - finish the job, then mysteriously dissapear. It's frustratingly difficult to make connections as a result.. especially local ones :/ | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiasticly the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. " Nine years here and not a single request for cash or favours, never been stood up, never been catfished and never engaged with a fake profile. At this stage I'm making the assumption that anyone finding any of the above to be a regular occurrence has no-one to blame but themselves. | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiasticly the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. " When my filters are down I get a ridiculous amount of offers couched in terms too vague to report but the intention is clear. They just get deleted. | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiasticly the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. Nine years here and not a single request for cash or favours, never been stood up, never been catfished and never engaged with a fake profile. At this stage I'm making the assumption that anyone finding any of the above to be a regular occurrence has no-one to blame but themselves." I’ve always thought this to be honest. If people are gonna meet straight away or after a couple of messages then what do they expect really? Seems odd it happens to people time and time again and it’s never happened to me in all this time. | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiasticly the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. Nine years here and not a single request for cash or favours, never been stood up, never been catfished and never engaged with a fake profile. At this stage I'm making the assumption that anyone finding any of the above to be a regular occurrence has no-one to blame but themselves." Think that’s a bit harsh to be honest … even some of the longstanding people on here have had issues Well done you for managing to avoid the bad ‘uns but , maybe, don’t say that it’s everyone else’s fault if they do come across them | |||
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"I sometimes don't reply to winks/messages/ or requests to meet after a chat from people I find too attractive as I feel too intimidated/nervous and don't understand why they're into me 🫣 especially if it's an attractive woman, I think it must be a catfish 😂" YES! When they say I'm hot/whatever, I'm just waiting for the "SYKE!" 🫣🤣 | |||
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"I'm sure many of us have seen those profiles and thought it. However, have you ever gone for it and realised they weren't too good to be true? Was it awesome or was it actually decidedly average? " Only once for me. He actually exceeded expectations in every way 😈 | |||
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"If it seems to good to be true, it normally is (for guys anyway!). As someone else mentioned, a large majority of messages I get are asking for money unfortunately!" LOT of that going about, or off-links to other sites etc. I get a lot more response from other locations to be honest - I stay selective here but not out of choice. lol | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiasticly the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. Nine years here and not a single request for cash or favours, never been stood up, never been catfished and never engaged with a fake profile. At this stage I'm making the assumption that anyone finding any of the above to be a regular occurrence has no-one to blame but themselves. Think that’s a bit harsh to be honest … even some of the longstanding people on here have had issues Well done you for managing to avoid the bad ‘uns but , maybe, don’t say that it’s everyone else’s fault if they do come across them " It's not harsh at all. If you keep doing the same thing over and over and expect a different outcome it's time you looked at the common denominator which is yourself and then look at how you vet the people you chat with. Due diligence and common sense are great tools but only when you use them. The fact I haven't had a no show or talked to a fake profile has nothing to do with luck. | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiastically the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. " · I'm bemused at the type/grade of women you're engaging with if that's your experience. In all my years I've never personally encountered any dubious or nefarious women who are asking / demanding / suggesting anything of such sorts. | |||
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"I see thinly-disguised ‘paid professional’ ladies in my local feed, but not in my inbox. Not ever." · What about the voluptuously-disguised ones? Or the Rubenesque variety? | |||
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"What about the voluptuously-disguised ones? Or the Rubenesque variety? " I’m struggling to stretch the metaphor that far, Nero. | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiasticly the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. This is so true I must be doing something wrong. In all my 17 years here I've not been asked for so much as a Mars bar, or bag of haribos, either when I've sent a message or received one. 🤔🤷♂️" Ooohhh... I didn't realise I could ask for sweeties!! I wouldn't ask anyone for money though. I might have to actually pay people... 🤣 | |||
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"I sometimes don't reply to winks/messages/ or requests to meet after a chat from people I find too attractive as I feel too intimidated/nervous and don't understand why they're into me 🫣 especially if it's an attractive woman, I think it must be a catfish 😂" Absolutely this. I never understand what anyone would see in me. But, to each their own. If you find someone attractive, you find someone attractive. Some of the profiles I've seen on her I do think "well, they'd never want me!" But how do I know?! (Unless all their photos are with one particular type of person) | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiasticly the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. When my filters are down I get a ridiculous amount of offers couched in terms too vague to report but the intention is clear. They just get deleted." When I have the energy/ time, I bait them until they say something clear enough to be reported ![]() | |||
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"Maybe it’s the cynical/pessimist in me at my present state of mind but I have never, ever seen anyone on here I would classify as “too good to be true”…. " Not even me???? Pfffft ![]() | |||
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"Maybe it’s the cynical/pessimist in me at my present state of mind but I have never, ever seen anyone on here I would classify as “too good to be true”…. " This ![]() | |||
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"I'm a cynic but I find if a woman answers too enthusiasticly the next message will be one asking for cash. I have not been proved wrong yet. Nine years here and not a single request for cash or favours, never been stood up, never been catfished and never engaged with a fake profile. At this stage I'm making the assumption that anyone finding any of the above to be a regular occurrence has no-one to blame but themselves." You have the best single male profile we’ve seen on Fab, you can see what you get in tasteful well taken photos and a well worded bio gives a great insight into your personality and great veri’s. This is why you’ve not had the same experience as others on here. | |||
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"I'm sure many of us have seen those profiles and thought it. However, have you ever gone for it and realised they weren't too good to be true? Was it awesome or was it actually decidedly average? " I’ve seen quite a few profiles that I felt were amazing, wanted to meet me and I have. Often they’ve been great and wonderful people. There’s a basic confidence in approaching others that you might feel are too good to be true and rolling with the punches if they turn out not to be | |||
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"A couple messaged us and we couldn't understand why they did. We were quite suspicious at first as they were young, attractive and really engaging and chatty in their messages. We met up with them within the month and we all had such a wonderful evening with them. Good surprises can happen." You've met me and said that was unforgettable. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Someone I’d fancied for ages. Hot pictures. Lovely bloke. Then met him face to face. Even hotter. Even nicer. I didn’t know quite what to do 🤣🤣" Eeeeeeek moment | |||
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"Someone I’d fancied for ages. Hot pictures. Lovely bloke. Then met him face to face. Even hotter. Even nicer. I didn’t know quite what to do 🤣🤣 Eeeeeeek moment " I probably looked stupid or rude. Just stared for a minute. I’m such a dick 🙈 | |||
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"Someone I’d fancied for ages. Hot pictures. Lovely bloke. Then met him face to face. Even hotter. Even nicer. I didn’t know quite what to do 🤣🤣 Eeeeeeek moment I probably looked stupid or rude. Just stared for a minute. I’m such a dick 🙈" Was you drooling? ![]() | |||
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"Someone I’d fancied for ages. Hot pictures. Lovely bloke. Then met him face to face. Even hotter. Even nicer. I didn’t know quite what to do 🤣🤣" Happened to me. I went for staring. Maybe should have licked his face instead. Mrs TMN x | |||
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"Someone I’d fancied for ages. Hot pictures. Lovely bloke. Then met him face to face. Even hotter. Even nicer. I didn’t know quite what to do 🤣🤣 Eeeeeeek moment I probably looked stupid or rude. Just stared for a minute. I’m such a dick 🙈 Was you drooling? ![]() Not quite | |||
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"Someone I’d fancied for ages. Hot pictures. Lovely bloke. Then met him face to face. Even hotter. Even nicer. I didn’t know quite what to do 🤣🤣 Happened to me. I went for staring. Maybe should have licked his face instead. Mrs TMN x" Doesn’t help matters Trust me 🤣 | |||
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"Someone I’d fancied for ages. Hot pictures. Lovely bloke. Then met him face to face. Even hotter. Even nicer. I didn’t know quite what to do 🤣🤣 Happened to me. I went for staring. Maybe should have licked his face instead. Mrs TMN x Doesn’t help matters Trust me 🤣" It worked out ok ![]() | |||
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