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"I think you should both stop playing games with each other's heart & mind and talk about whether you want to save your marriage, and how you can both do it. Clearly you have trust issues from your OP. Reach out to your wife rather than us. Best wishes Mrs" This 👍 | |||
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"Fair but I do like the arrangement she proposed. I don't really want her on her tbh" When did your wife cheat?? | |||
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"Fairly recently " But you've been on here over a year.....Guess you cheated 1st! | |||
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"Loool nah we've had a few arrangements trust me " The reply and quote button helps to know who you are replying too. | |||
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"Loool nah we've had a few arrangements trust me The reply and quote button helps to know who you are replying too." I see i see .... | |||
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"On here before I had a wife ...just wanted advice but no worries" What advice were you looking for as you didn't mention it in you OP? | |||
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"On here before I had a wife ...just wanted advice but no worries What advice were you looking for as you didn't mention it in you OP?" Just about this situation | |||
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there" Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about | |||
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about " Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns. | |||
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"Well the wife cheated, she then said I'm allowed to do thing for a while and that she'd stop however i think she's still on here when I'm at work ?????" So you’ve cheated and she’s cheated… now she says it’s ok for you to carry on and she’ll stop? You think she’s cheating on that? As the others say have a chat, or get an uber! | |||
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"Well the wife cheated, she then said I'm allowed to do thing for a while and that she'd stop however i think she's still on here when I'm at work ????? So you’ve cheated and she’s cheated… now she says it’s ok for you to carry on and she’ll stop? You think she’s cheating on that? As the others say have a chat, or get an uber!" Read agian my friend i never cheated | |||
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns." 100% | |||
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns." Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles | |||
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"But you're still on here too..." Please re read | |||
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"Well the wife cheated, she then said I'm allowed to do thing for a while and that she'd stop however i think she's still on here when I'm at work ????? So you’ve cheated and she’s cheated… now she says it’s ok for you to carry on and she’ll stop? You think she’s cheating on that? As the others say have a chat, or get a Uber Read agian my friend i never cheated " Frankly I think we’re all trying to help and you’re just ignoring the advice. Good luck | |||
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns. Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles " What's the issue though....she has an account and so do you | |||
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"Well the wife cheated, she then said I'm allowed to do thing for a while and that she'd stop however i think she's still on here when I'm at work ????? So you’ve cheated and she’s cheated… now she says it’s ok for you to carry on and she’ll stop? You think she’s cheating on that? As the others say have a chat, or get a Uber Read agian my friend i never cheated Frankly I think we’re all trying to help and you’re just ignoring the advice. Good luck" You read it wrong...any advice is more than welcome | |||
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns. Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles What's the issue though....she has an account and so do you" But she using hers its active at times when I'm at work...which is strange if she's said she'd stop as she cheated | |||
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns. Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles " You're at a bit of a stalemate then. The trust is broken because of cheating, ye need to work on that. Permission to have sex with other people as a score evener isn't the one either. | |||
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns. Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles You're at a bit of a stalemate then. The trust is broken because of cheating, ye need to work on that. Permission to have sex with other people as a score evener isn't the one either." I agree and I did say that at the time but tbh I just don't know what to do about this and when she suggested this I just thought kool let's try it | |||
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"I'm lost. Has she cheated by seeing someone not on fab ? Because you're both on fab, with each others knowledge. Also sometimes if you don't log out, it shows that you're active on here but you aren't actually on the site in person. " She did the deed off FAB | |||
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"I thought that might be the case hence your free pass. But I'm not sure that will help your situation. Tit for tat never really works. Maybe suggest to her that you both stick to the fab play dates. " I know it's all silly just don't want her on here as I clearly can trust her..escape seems to be the only way but I guess I'm just fighting it | |||
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"I thought that might be the case hence your free pass. But I'm not sure that will help your situation. Tit for tat never really works. Maybe suggest to her that you both stick to the fab play dates. I know it's all silly just don't want her on here as I clearly can trust her..escape seems to be the only way but I guess I'm just fighting it" CANT* | |||
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns. Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles You're at a bit of a stalemate then. The trust is broken because of cheating, ye need to work on that. Permission to have sex with other people as a score evener isn't the one either. I agree and I did say that at the time but tbh I just don't know what to do about this and when she suggested this I just thought kool let's try it" Why not try a couples profile and delete the single ones. Everyone knows what's happening then as both can access everything | |||
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns. Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles You're at a bit of a stalemate then. The trust is broken because of cheating, ye need to work on that. Permission to have sex with other people as a score evener isn't the one either. I agree and I did say that at the time but tbh I just don't know what to do about this and when she suggested this I just thought kool let's try it Why not try a couples profile and delete the single ones. Everyone knows what's happening then as both can access everything " I like that but she'd have to admit to her new single account and delete it | |||
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