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My battle with my profile!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else have the same problem?

Because I like to play different ways when the mood takes me - I keep having to rewrite my profile n move pix n verifications in/out my private boxes!

Sometimes I feel like having vanilla sex n other times things considerably more 'kinky ' so I have to change swathes of my profile

I'm wondering if viewers read one version n that is not 'their' thing n then often never look again

What u think folks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would not normally return to a rejected profile, we wouldn't be expecting it to change much.

How about setting up two profiles, and hiding the one you are not currently in the mood for?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

think they probably do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just write 1 profile that touches on the different areas of your sexual self.

It is quite normal to express yourself differently at different times. You are not on your own in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sometimes see a profile where there are specific interests, eg. Dom bull stuff. We're not looking for that so we'd put a note on the profile so we both know. Some like above add something like, "can also be sub or play straight" etc but if the overriding part of their profile is into those specifics we'd avoid them even if the profile changes.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I change my profile....Like you I have the vanilla me and the kinky me.

My requirements and likes change according to what mood I am in and reflects my personal outlook at that time

There are enough people on here to suit my mood accordingly...

If someone has looked at my profile and rejected it but I really fancy the look of them I will email later...try again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also remember that whatever the content, your profile will never be attractive to everyone.

What attracts 1 person will put another off so best off just being yourself and mentioning the multitude of experiences you MAY be interested in.

Anyone with an ounce of coomon sense will understand that you might not be in that frame of mind at any given time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I update my profile from time to time, no so much with the pics , more with the text, usually to add to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm habitually lazy when it comes to my profile - it's been reworded once or twice - personally, I think if you get chatting and there's an attraction, you soon get to know what likes and dislikes the other party has, and what they are 'in the mood' for.

I hotlist people I like the look of, even if there are things in their profile I wouldn't necessarily do - as you just never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use kink sites to look for more kink orientated meets but don't hide the kink interest on our profile here. I used to do the same as a single guy too and it never knowingly caused me any problems.

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