FabSwingers.com forum: Favourite way to completely relax?

By *ergus1622 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

I struggle to completely relax so what's your favourite way todo it?

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

Just sit on the sofa and watch TV.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
2 weeks ago

Merseyside

Snuggled up with hubby and dog

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
2 weeks ago

Durham

I build things on Minecraft. It's one of very few things where I can just completely unplug my brain, and zone out from everything else.

Nothing bothers me when I'm designing/building things, my phone doesn't get looked at and I''m just in a proper little hyper-focus. Although you can usually tell what sort of mood I was in beforehand from what I end up building

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Have a nap

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By *rtyIanMan
2 weeks ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Meditation

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

Lately meditation. A nice relaxing voice.

Or better still being stroked really lightly makes me relax straight away

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

Massage.

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By *meliaeWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

Gardening (the pg kind), reading or knitting something simple. I love jazz music when I’m trying to relax too.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
2 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Hot bubble bath with a cuppa and my sodoku book

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By *urves and HeelsWoman
2 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Hot bath……glass of wine….freshly made bed

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By *luebell888Woman
2 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Swim naked.

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By *hortyscotWoman
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Yes, I know it's weird but I listen to true crime podcasts.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 weeks ago

North West

In an ideal world, out on horseback on a sunny day for a plod/mooch. Not so straightforward anymore though

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By *ell GwynnWoman
2 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Meditation. Although occasionally it feels boring rather than relaxing.

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By *ergus1622 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

They all sound good! It's something I've struggled with but will find my thing eventually.

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By *ympho6969Woman
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Climb in a bath with a good book

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By *ympho6969Woman
2 weeks ago

glasgow

"Gardening (the pg kind), reading or knitting something simple. I love jazz music when I’m trying to relax too."

There's a non-PG kind of gardening?

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By *rtyIanMan
2 weeks ago

Gateway to the Beacons

"Gardening (the pg kind), reading or knitting something simple. I love jazz music when I’m trying to relax too.

There's a non-PG kind of gardening?"
I wondered the same

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By *ionycusMan
2 weeks ago

Babylon

Whiskey and cigars

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By *ergus1622 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

"Gardening (the pg kind), reading or knitting something simple. I love jazz music when I’m trying to relax too.

There's a non-PG kind of gardening?I wondered the same "

Well I do need to break out the chainsaw soon . Does that count (for trees not bush lol)

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By *orthern StarsCouple
2 weeks ago

Durham

Being out in the fresh air, sometimes even if I'm working.

A beach walk is one of my favorite ways but don't get the chance that often.

Music also works well too.

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS
2 weeks ago

The Lake District

hot bubble bath with lights off

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By *an2man2021Man
2 weeks ago

Stourbridge

"Climb in a bath with a good book"

Doesn't it get soggy ....

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By *eve500Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Meditation...everyone should meditate, but not many think it's for them...usually the ones who need it most. Yoga Nidra guided meditation is a good place to start...

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Go to the gym,walk the dog then get back and listen to Phil Collins.

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By *atte Lover 82Man
2 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

Hot bath, music and a cuppa

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

"Yes, I know it's weird but I listen to true crime podcasts. "

Me too

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
2 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"Just sit on the sofa and watch TV."

This

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By *ensual DesiresMan
2 weeks ago

North East

Supernatural on tv and either play xbox or build lego sets while watching supernatural

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

Headphones on listen to calm, or bi-neural beats.

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By *aughty50sCouple
2 weeks ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

Read a book whilst listening to classical music, cup of tea on hand. Bliss...

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By *aybeLadyWoman
2 weeks ago

West Dublin

Sound bath session.

I struggle to switch off 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
2 weeks ago

Hatfield

Defo movie and cuppa

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By *othicslaveCouple
2 weeks ago

Norfolk

Sitting next to a fishing lake in the summer as the sun goes down with all you can hear is the wild life

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By *uchessdoeWoman
2 weeks ago

Northampton

A facial (the other kind)

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
2 weeks ago

Hastings

"They all sound good! It's something I've struggled with but will find my thing eventually.

Have you tried playing games on you phone, but make sure it's with the blue light thing off.

Meditation is better, but when I can't get work out my head at night a game is my go to find a boring repetitive one.

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By *ojangles69Woman
2 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

"Swim naked."

Yep whist the sunshine shines on down !! Blissful!! Then do a life float listening to the sounds of everything!! Roll onto summer!! A wee bit too cold for that now!!

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By *ojangles69Woman
2 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

"Gardening (the pg kind), reading or knitting something simple. I love jazz music when I’m trying to relax too.

There's a non-PG kind of gardening?I wondered the same

Well I do need to break out the chainsaw soon . Does that count (for trees not bush lol)"

Just remind me need to sharper my chains before I can tackle thoso logs that have been sat in a pile for too long!!

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By *rdenites2Couple
2 weeks ago

Market Bosworth

Like Mickey Flanagan does.

Just lie on the sofa, stare at the ceiling and do fuck all for a few hours.

Old school chilling.

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Redhill

Having had severe PTSD after my accident, I listen to hypn0therapy/meditation and they really help me relax.

In more mundane times, curling up with a lovely linden tea and a good ol’ scroll… 📱

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By *ripfillMan
2 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Being massaged … into an altered state of consciousness

I love fly fishing, and very personal meditation.

We don’t relax enough to re create and re power the mind and senses ,

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By *B69Woman
2 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Having a massage and sunbathing

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By *andadbodMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

walk outdoors, sits and just watch the world go by.

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By *aughty driverMan
2 weeks ago

Romford

A simple head massage really does the trick. Or just a good cup of tea tbh

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
2 weeks ago

Loughborough

Go outdoors and switch off from social media/news and any negativity in the world!

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By *ergus1622 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

"A facial (the other kind)

Shame, you could be relaxed so often on here then

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By *ayTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

A round of golf...on my own

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By *929Man
2 weeks ago

bedlington

Get horizontal on the cooch, gold radio channel on the telly and just lie there and eventually drift off for a bit

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
2 weeks ago

Next Door

Being by the coast at anytime of the year

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
2 weeks ago

Hatfield

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
2 weeks ago

Hatfield

"A facial (the other kind)

What’s the other kind ? Only thought there was one facial

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By *uchessdoeWoman
2 weeks ago

Northampton

Shame, you could be relaxed so often on here then "

Whilst I love the other kind, I don't find it as relaxing. Better for the skin though

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By *he Lollipop ManMan
2 weeks ago

Truro

"I struggle to completely relax so what's your favourite way todo it? "

I thought this was a joke for a second.

WANKING, obvs!!

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
2 weeks ago

Hatfield

Shame, you could be relaxed so often on here then

Whilst I love the other kind, I don't find it as relaxing. Better for the skin though

Good answer lol

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By *enk15Man
2 weeks ago

Evesham

Gaming on my sofa.

But the house chores need to be done though, if they aren't done I can't shake the guilt of relaxing when i could be being productive.

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By *sWyldWoman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

A nice hot bath. Lock the door and shut the world out.

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Redhill

Right now- sipping my coffee and watching 80s hits in the Latin American/Spanish speaking world.

I am so old 😂😂😂 👵🏻👵🏻👵🏻👵🏻

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
2 weeks ago

Hatfield

"A nice hot bath. Lock the door and shut the world out. "

Two in a bath can be just as relaxing … !

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By *each BenMan
2 weeks ago

swansea

A nice long slow sensual naked full body massage, have it regularly, bliss

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By *ano53Man
2 weeks ago

Wicklow

"Swim naked."
I do find that relaxing and invigorating in equal measures.

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By *urreyphotographerMan
2 weeks ago

kt16

I sit in my ice bath, meditate and listen to the birds, robins are the most vocal.

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By *moothdickMan
2 weeks ago

stoke

Go and sit in a pub

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By *illy IdolMan
2 weeks ago

Midlands

I get bored relaxing doing nothing. So maybe a walk where I can switch off.

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By *ergus1622 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

"I get bored relaxing doing nothing. So maybe a walk where I can switch off."

I am like that too and keeping fit but either out on my bike or run I keep pushing myself so not relaxing lol

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Massages and blow jobs , not necessarily at the same time. When the cock sucking is good, I can just lay there and enjoy all night long. I don’t need to come & how long has she enjoying herself as well. It’s just bliss

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By *agusMan
2 weeks ago

Near by

Sauna or Massage

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By *amie HantsWoman
2 weeks ago

Atlantis

Massage, swim, get my hair done. Any of those is bliss

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By *regnantPlayMan
2 weeks ago

Basildon

"I struggle to completely relax so what's your favourite way todo it? "

Six guitars, plus I've a gaming rig I've built myself.

Working from home most days so lunchtimes are far from boring.

Bit of isolation as a result makes me want to make a few more social connections, mind.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

hexham

"I struggle to completely relax so what's your favourite way todo it? "

Go to sleep! That works pretty well for me… anything up to 9 or 10 hours of it!

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
2 weeks ago

Ipswich

Few drinks with friends non alcoholic or meal coffees walking doggie on beach cooking helps me relax as well

Done a Masala tonight with naan bread and onion bargis

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By *oubleSwingCouple
2 weeks ago

N. Wales

Sit on my bed, legs up, tv remote, Youtube. I'll watch or listen to whatever I fancy at the time

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By *2000ManMan
2 weeks ago

Worthing

Summer - Sit outside with a book.

Winter - Watch a film

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By *ergus1622 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

Thanks for the ideas , hopefully find something todo the trick soon.

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By *teadymotionMan
2 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Cup of tea, switch off the phone.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

A bath

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By *aughty50sCouple
2 weeks ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

"Cup of tea, switch off the phone. "

Yes that second bit is the magic ingredient!

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By *alm_one4Man
2 weeks ago

RM16

Afternoon nap

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By *oodmessMan
2 weeks ago

yumsville

Used to be be to take my dog for a walk but that's not an option now

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By *artfordBlokeMan
2 weeks ago

Dartford

A good book, a good record, slumped on the sofa, bliss

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By *wingingphil69Man
2 weeks ago

castleford

Go away in my Motorhome in the warmer weather naturist campsite

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By *ergus1622 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

"Go away in my Motorhome in the warmer weather naturist campsite "

That's on the todo list

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