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"This morning has not been a good morning. You know?" I know 🫂 | |||
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"Better morning than most today. Routine down to the second, and worked. Result. " 🙌 Woo! Today was ok. Our 4yo was late by a few minutes, which means going through school reception. No meltdown, SCORE! The reason he's ever late, is his refusal to get ready and/or leave the house, or he's busy collecting treasure along the way  | |||
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"Bricking it for tomorrow. Total change in routine, it’s PE day but at a sport centre. No going to school for it. " Did they not do a social story to prepare for it?  | |||
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"Just had some amazing news today, my son has been given a place at his preferred SEN senior school from September! Absolutely buzzing "That's brilliant news! | |||
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"Just had some amazing news today, my son has been given a place at his preferred SEN senior school from September! Absolutely buzzing "That's fantastic news, congrats. It makes life so much easier when you know that they will be happy and looked after when in school | |||
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"Rough few days here but still end up smiling at the end of everyday excited for her to wake up tomorrow and see what it brings. " Pickle  | |||
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"Rough few days here but still end up smiling at the end of everyday excited for her to wake up tomorrow and see what it brings. Pickle "My mini me is just like me | |||
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"Rough few days here but still end up smiling at the end of everyday excited for her to wake up tomorrow and see what it brings. Pickle
My mini me is just like me "Now THAT sounds cute af 😍 | |||
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"Rough few days here but still end up smiling at the end of everyday excited for her to wake up tomorrow and see what it brings. Pickle
My mini me is just like me
Now THAT sounds cute af 😍"It’s chaos. | |||
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"Rough few days here but still end up smiling at the end of everyday excited for her to wake up tomorrow and see what it brings. Pickle
My mini me is just like me
Now THAT sounds cute af 😍
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"Any advice for children of (undiagnosed) ND parents?" My advice would be to chase CHAMS, school and GP to support there assessments being speeded up. Talk to your senco at school as they can make adjustments without a diagnosis. Then read, read and read some more, every child is very different then if you have a bright child they can change daily. My biggest bit of advice has to be, ND is not an excuse for bad behaviour, children with ND are still children and will test the waters all the time to see what they can get away with. The hardest struggle will be understanding what is due to there ND and what part is just a naughty child trying to get there own way. Xxx | |||
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"Any advice for children of (undiagnosed) ND parents? My advice would be to chase CHAMS, school and GP to support there assessments being speeded up. Talk to your senco at school as they can make adjustments without a diagnosis. Then read, read and read some more, every child is very different then if you have a bright child they can change daily. My biggest bit of advice has to be, ND is not an excuse for bad behaviour, children with ND are still children and will test the waters all the time to see what they can get away with. The hardest struggle will be understanding what is due to there ND and what part is just a naughty child trying to get there own way. Xxx" Thank you but I was asking if anyone had advice for the children of ND parents  | |||
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"Any advice for children of (undiagnosed) ND parents?" My daughter is undiagnosed. She’s going through diagnosis at the moment we’ve had assessments etc. I think it’s still been useful to connect with parents of diagnosed children. They’re so supportive and validating. Actually it is a friend with a ND child that has given me so much advice and support | |||
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"Any advice for children of (undiagnosed) ND parents? My daughter is undiagnosed. She’s going through diagnosis at the moment we’ve had assessments etc. I think it’s still been useful to connect with parents of diagnosed children. They’re so supportive and validating. Actually it is a friend with a ND child that has given me so much advice and support" But any kids with ND parents? | |||
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"Are you talking about yourself in the role of child or parent? Mrs TMN x" Whoops, reply and quote, that was for Mrs NC x | |||
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"Are you talking about yourself in the role of child or parent? Mrs TMN x" Child. Maybe I should start my own thread. As you were everyone | |||
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"Are you talking about yourself in the role of child or parent? Mrs TMN x Child. Maybe I should start my own thread. As you were everyone "Ah that’s a whole other conversation I feel x | |||
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"Are you talking about yourself in the role of child or parent? Mrs TMN x Child. Maybe I should start my own thread. As you were everyone
Ah that’s a whole other conversation I feel x"Yes I think you're right. I'll bow out gracefully. Edited for typos | |||
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"Any advice for children of (undiagnosed) ND parents? My advice would be to chase CHAMS, school and GP to support there assessments being speeded up. Talk to your senco at school as they can make adjustments without a diagnosis. Then read, read and read some more, every child is very different then if you have a bright child they can change daily. My biggest bit of advice has to be, ND is not an excuse for bad behaviour, children with ND are still children and will test the waters all the time to see what they can get away with. The hardest struggle will be understanding what is due to there ND and what part is just a naughty child trying to get there own way. Xxx Thank you but I was asking if anyone had advice for the children of ND parents "You would need to ask my children, they would be able to advice you on there coping mechanisms with me | |||
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"I definitely wouldn’t bother with CHAMS unless it’s radically changed and resembles some kind of actual service these days.. A lot of kids have problems growing up a whole range of mental things, being different , exaggerated emotions & responses to the kinds of things other kids just deal with. Unless they have severe forms of autism and really need specialist help, I think as a parent you just have to learn them, they are unique for sure. I don’t think there’s much anyone could’ve told me that would’ve helped that much. I think if I could tell my younger self and advice it would be relax, calm down this is normal kidsare complex, don’t expect them to understand and respond in the way you do, develop the person skills and emotional intelligence and it will be fine " My experience of CHAMS was the same. They were not at all helpful when my kids were referred. If you can get extra time, where the kids go to a kind of play group type of place once or twice a week. That always seemed more beneficial to imo. As they get older, a PA could take them out for maybe two afternoons per week. | |||
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"Does anyone else's channel their anxiety into over the top happiness? I've never experienced this before but we had a dental appointment on Monday for an extraction and his behaviour was the polar opposite of what I had expected to the point of being ridiculously happy. Obviously I'm not complaining and am so proud of how he handled it but I'm wondering if this is normal for ND children and I can expect it from time to time? " From my experience every day is different, the best thing to do is take note on the things you did and put in place and simply try to repeat the experience, and don’t get down if the results are negative, simply tweak the process and try again. It’s a lottery in our house, but I know my positive patients has the biggest impact xxx | |||
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