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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Ends

How do you know if they’re just not that into you?

Wrong answers welcome

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By *obilebottomMan
2 weeks ago

All over

They say they are on diet and refuse my cake

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
2 weeks ago

Next Door

They didn't want my long legs wrapped around them

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By *scapenwMan
2 weeks ago

North Wales Coast

They send nudes, but not of themselves

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

When the chat is all flirty to start with and then the messages become a bit more short and to the point.

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By *he ShivsCouple
2 weeks ago

Fife

Doesn’t want to be seen in public with you.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
2 weeks ago

The Continental

They call you by another name

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By *reative-mindMan
2 weeks ago

Exeter

They moan someone else name during sex even after you have corrected them

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By *he ShivsCouple
2 weeks ago

Fife

Won’t ignore the red flags.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"Won’t ignore the red flags. "

Especially the ones you’re deliberately trying to send them

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You leave their messages unread for a month and don’t reply, they don’t care, they probably don’t even notice. But as soon as you reply, they reply back quickly with something like ‘haha that’s funny’ shifting it back to you again to do all the work…..

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"You leave their messages unread for a month and don’t reply, they don’t care, they probably don’t even notice. But as soon as you reply, they reply back quickly with something like ‘haha that’s funny’ shifting it back to you again to do all the work….."

Conversation where they leave all the leg work to you 🥱🥱🥱

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By *elly and daveCouple
2 weeks ago

gateshead

They refuse to sleep in the wet patch on the bed,so you have too.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

If they're not ringing me 5 times a night do they even care? (I never answer, but it's the thought that counts)

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

They have to be reminded to check their messages

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"They have to be reminded to check their messages "

He’s into you

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
2 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

They say you can meet their new pet turtle, but offer to bring it to your house (bringing all the kit with them) rather than letting you go and see the baby turtle in his aquarium

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"They have to be reminded to check their messages

He’s into you "

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"They say you can meet their new pet turtle, but offer to bring it to your house (bringing all the kit with them) rather than letting you go and see the baby turtle in his aquarium "

Yes. That’s a sign

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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They don’t want to touch you after sex

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Ends

They laugh when you trip over

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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They don’t offer to split it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"They don’t offer to split it. "

That sounds painful

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"They don’t offer to split it.

That sounds painful "

To not even offer- they don’t want to see you ever again

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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You’re not saved in their phone with any emojis

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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You’re saved in their phone by your full government name.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 weeks ago

North West


"They laugh when you trip over"

They laugh when you fall out of your wheelchair ♿

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"They laugh when you trip over

They laugh when you fall out of your wheelchair ♿"

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"They don’t offer to split it.

That sounds painful

To not even offer- they don’t want to see you ever again "

I imagine after the surgical repair, you don't want to see them again either

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By *implynaughty1Couple
2 weeks ago

stockport

When thwy say great night but when you ask them over and they want bi play but voth straight

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You’re saved in their phone by your full government name. "

You're saved in their phone under "(city) whackjob" or "do not answer"

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By *ushrangerMan
2 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I usually message and at the end put no reply = polite no, if I don't get a reply or I see the message deleted I don't message again. Some couples are polite and say I'm not their type. I then just wish them well.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 weeks ago

North West


"They laugh when you trip over

They laugh when you fall out of your wheelchair ♿

"

See. Just not that into me

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By *empest2KMan
2 weeks ago

Derby


"How do you know if they’re just not that into you?

Wrong answers welcome "

They send me a message on Fab 🤣

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"They don’t offer to split it.

That sounds painful

To not even offer- they don’t want to see you ever again

I imagine after the surgical repair, you don't want to see them again either"

HA HA.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"They don’t offer to split it.

That sounds painful

To not even offer- they don’t want to see you ever again

I imagine after the surgical repair, you don't want to see them again either

HA HA. "

Too far?

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

I had a fwb who told me he hated my name and it didn't suit me

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"You’re saved in their phone by your full government name.

You're saved in their phone under "(city) whackjob" or "do not answer""

‘Do not answer’ means they’re REALLY REALLY into you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You’re saved in their phone by your full government name.

You're saved in their phone under "(city) whackjob" or "do not answer"

‘Do not answer’ means they’re REALLY REALLY into you. "

Is that your excuse?

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"They laugh when you trip over

They laugh when you fall out of your wheelchair ♿

See. Just not that into me

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I mean… you’re ok

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"You’re saved in their phone by your full government name.

You're saved in their phone under "(city) whackjob" or "do not answer"

‘Do not answer’ means they’re REALLY REALLY into you.

Is that your excuse? "

😎😎😎😎😎

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Ends


"I had a fwb who told me he hated my name and it didn't suit me "

💀💀

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 weeks ago

North West


"They laugh when you trip over

They laugh when you fall out of your wheelchair ♿

See. Just not that into me

I mean… you’re ok "

What about if they push you out of your wheelchair? Are they into me then?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

They block you on fab

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"They laugh when you trip over

They laugh when you fall out of your wheelchair ♿

See. Just not that into me

I mean… you’re ok

What about if they push you out of your wheelchair? Are they into me then? "

What no! That sounds like a h8 crime😂😂

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan
2 weeks ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand


"They refuse to sleep in the wet patch on the bed,so you have too. "

I must not be that into any of them then

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"They block you on fab "

I would say that is mixed signals

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"When the chat is all flirty to start with and then the messages become a bit more short and to the point."

I get this alot.

Usually its omg your gorgeous we need too meet, when we decide to book something it goes quiet.

I'm cool about it though, can't have your cake and eat it

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 weeks ago

North West


"They laugh when you trip over

They laugh when you fall out of your wheelchair ♿

See. Just not that into me

I mean… you’re ok

What about if they push you out of your wheelchair? Are they into me then?

What no! That sounds like a h8 crime😂😂"

Oh. I thought the dude was just over eager to get me flat on my back.

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By *ickedtiesWoman
2 weeks ago

limerick

They keep messaging you

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By *nnCeeWoman
2 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

They throw rotten tomatoes 🍅 at you

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Ends


"They throw rotten tomatoes 🍅 at you "

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
2 weeks ago

Wolvo

They keep having sex with me.

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By *batMan
2 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"What about if they push you out of your wheelchair? Are they into me then? "

Or just buckle one of the wheels so you go 'round in a big circle.

Gbat

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By *nya NeesWoman
2 weeks ago

Brum


"They say you can meet their new pet turtle, but offer to bring it to your house (bringing all the kit with them) rather than letting you go and see the baby turtle in his aquarium

Yes. That’s a sign "

Someone that is into you would invite you to meet their reptile babies, most definitely a keeper imo

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Redhill

They are 10 miles away from you and they don’t tell you 😂😂😂

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Please may I ch0ke on your dick now?"

"No thanks."

Devastating 💜

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"They say you can meet their new pet turtle, but offer to bring it to your house (bringing all the kit with them) rather than letting you go and see the baby turtle in his aquarium "

Hate it when that happens….

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

They forget your name

Even worse… they call you by a name that is similar to yours but you just know you’ve made no impression.

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By *illy IdolMan
2 weeks ago

Midlands


"They forget your name

Even worse… they call you by a name that is similar to yours but you just know you’ve made no impression."

Sorry Dan🤦‍♂️

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