FabSwingers.com forum: Profile: Cannot accommodate, Does not travel?

By *he_Mixed_Guy OP Man
27 weeks ago

Reading

..I'm trying to understand the profile of some which says they cannot accommodate, or do not travel... what does that leave then? meets in cars/ car parks or dogging etc?

maybe I missed something?

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By *empest2KMan
27 weeks ago

Derby

Probably just chatting and webcamming only would be my guess.

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It can mean all sorts of things. Sometimes "can accommodate" means people think they're getting an invite after a mere "hey bb wuu2". Sometimes "can travel" means people assume you're going to go from Kent to Lerwick for the first cock over a toilet that appears in your inbox.

Sometimes people only cam.

Sometimes people only travel locally, or only go to clubs.

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By *riel13Woman
27 weeks ago

Northampton

Local... Hotels or the other person's... It's really not that difficult

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By *ealitybitesMan
27 weeks ago

Belfast

They may accommodate in hotels and they may travel for the right people but choose not to tick either option because they feel it encourages unwelcome conversations.

They may not be comfortable inviting strangers to their home but may be open to doing so with someone they have met a few times.

They may not want to travel a distance and prefer to meet locally.

It's all very simple and straightforward.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
27 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

I always took that as - At yours & Local Only

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
27 weeks ago

Reading

In my case it's because I meet local men who can accomodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Don’t accommodate - as much as my husband supports and enjoys the lifestyle that doesn’t include your hairy arse in his face whilst he’s trying to do the Sunday Time’s Crossword

Don’t travel - more likely than not my travel time will be longer than the shagging time. So you can drive to me, thanks.

Or alternatively some of the more sensible options above

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By *parkle1974Woman
27 weeks ago

Leeds

I will never accommodate again after an experience which ended up with the police/courts involved (and this was with someone I'd known for a long time)

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By *aybeLadyWoman
27 weeks ago

West Dublin

Cannt accom: my kids live with me full time.

Cannot travel long distances: my time is limited. Travelling adds to expense and time/energy.

So its either a hotel or the guys place. Neither are ideal but that's life.

This is all true for my circumstance and hence why its on my profile.

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By *eroLondonMan
27 weeks ago

Mayfair

Concurring with the others on here...^

Cannot accommodate is self explanatory. Cannot travel means that they do have the ability to leave their home and socialise/meet within their locale. However they are not willing or able to travel further afield or miles and miles away. Makes sense really.

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By *urry BlokeMan
27 weeks ago

I did accom until recently

Due to neighbour problems, we have had to have cameras installed, which, in turn, meant stopping having people over

Whilst we have a completely open relationship and both play separately (we have a guest room for meets, never our room), I don't want to see who comes round when I'm not home and my other half feels the same

So no house guests now

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By *rpeggioCouple
27 weeks ago

Baughurst

"..I'm trying to understand the profile of some which says they cannot accommodate, or do not travel... what does that leave then? meets in cars/ car parks or dogging etc?

maybe I missed something?"

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You missed the hundreds of threads asking the same thing

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By *upersonic SamMan
27 weeks ago

wigan

I have the reverse and still don't meet, maybe they just fancy the extra challenge

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By *he_Mixed_Guy OP Man
26 weeks ago

Reading

Thanks for all the replies folks, that makes sense now!

So it just means I'll be travelling to them..and be ready with my credit card for that hotel.. that's if I even get the invite

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

What it actually means is this place is a shit show and ladies don’t want the pressure and constant barrage, it’s like another filter and should be respected, it means behave yourself and keep a tidy house, go pick the lady up for a social, be entertaining, if you believe you yourself should be valued then so should the other person so value them, put the effort in, it’s not a meat market, you are here for a connection, it’s not a results based interaction, good luck OP get your car ready, oh and by the way don’t have one of those pine tree air freshener in the car, stay classy

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
26 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Seems simple enough to me.

Can't accomodate means - no meets in my house and certainly no sleep overs.

Can't travel means - the meet will be in their locality or not too far away and so YOU will be doing the travelling.

So - what does that leave you with......

A hotel room in or near the town they live in.

Sex in the car / pub toilet / shop changing rooms / on the beach / in the woods /

Cinema mutual wank ?

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By *endalshaggersCouple
26 weeks ago

Lake District

Really simple

Cannot accommodate: your're not coming round to the house - either they don't want you coming round (fair enough, your're a stranger on a sex site after all), or genuinely struggle to because of childcare, nosy neighbours etc.

Can't travel - they'll travel locally within a distance, but no one is going from Lands End to John O'Groats for a shag.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
26 weeks ago

Leeds

It's fairly simple really, they don't want anyone in their home and they don't drive so local meets preferred - clubs, hotel etc....

Mrs

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By *ellinever70Woman
26 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It deters and bamboozles the thirsty that want to seal an immediate deal

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I don't accommodate. I'd rather other people worry about their neighbours seeing me arrive

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By *orphia2003Woman
26 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Can't accommodate: live with family members including kids, so you aren't coming to mine unless I know you well.

Can't travel: reliant on public transport, so need to factor in cost and travel times.

So for me it's hotel and local.

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By *rpeggioCouple
26 weeks ago

Baughurst

"Thanks for all the replies folks, that makes sense now!

So it just means I'll be travelling to them..and be ready with my credit card for that hotel.. that's if I even get the invite

Or... Option 3... You find someone local to you that does not travel and you accommodate (as per your profile).

Or Option 4... Meet someone that can accommodate and/or travel

Plenty of options

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By *ushrangerMan
26 weeks ago

Hampshire

I have can't accom, some days I can but I do have kids and won't bring strangers here as that's what people are on here, strangers.

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