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That delayed facial reveal

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By *elix Sighted OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Forum friends: have you ever been chatting to someone on fab for a long time, been soooo into their body and personality that you realise you haven’t seen their face, got a face pic from them and the bubble has burst?

Hypothetical question (genuinely): assuming you didn’t find them totally unattractive, would you still make sex to them? Or does the face have to be hugely fanciable?

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
3 weeks ago

Merseyside

Yes this has happened to us hence why we like to swap face pics asap to save time!

However we did meet up with someone who looked quite different from the photos they sent us (they were old photos). We still had fun though

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

I do try and get it out the way early but I'd be lying if I didn't say that on occasion I do hold off because I truly believe someone can be more attractive if you like their personality so there's the hope that if we we get on, they're more likely to find me facially attractive than if I had sent it outright if that makes sense? Although I've also had it where I've not found them attractive so swings and roundabouts.

Of course it's entirely possible that they would think I'm a munter regardless of how well we got on! 😂

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By *obilebottomMan
3 weeks ago

All over

I always carry a couple of paper bags in case either or both find they need one

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

Oh and also because I'm dirty minded... There are plenty of women I'd reveal a facial to 😏

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By *elix Sighted OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"I do try and get it out the way early but I'd be lying if I didn't say that on occasion I do hold off because I truly believe someone can be more attractive if you like their personality so there's the hope that if we we get on, they're more likely to find me facially attractive than if I had sent it outright if that makes sense? Although I've also had it where I've not found them attractive so swings and roundabouts.

Of course it's entirely possible that they would think I'm a munter regardless of how well we got on! 😂"

Enough of this nonsense, Joe beans!! You get that fabulous face out there asap, it’ll secure you some flaming hot sex.

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby


"I do try and get it out the way early but I'd be lying if I didn't say that on occasion I do hold off because I truly believe someone can be more attractive if you like their personality so there's the hope that if we we get on, they're more likely to find me facially attractive than if I had sent it outright if that makes sense? Although I've also had it where I've not found them attractive so swings and roundabouts.

Of course it's entirely possible that they would think I'm a munter regardless of how well we got on! 😂

Enough of this nonsense, Joe beans!! You get that fabulous face out there asap, it’ll secure you some flaming hot sex."

You'd think so, wouldn't you? 😅

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By *urry BlokeMan
3 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I get my face out there as early as possible for this very reason

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By *oubleSwingCouple
3 weeks ago

N. Wales


"I do try and get it out the way early but I'd be lying if I didn't say that on occasion I do hold off because I truly believe someone can be more attractive if you like their personality so there's the hope that if we we get on, they're more likely to find me facially attractive than if I had sent it outright if that makes sense? Although I've also had it where I've not found them attractive so swings and roundabouts.

Of course it's entirely possible that they would think I'm a munter regardless of how well we got on! 😂"

This makes complete sense! 💯

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By *B69Woman
3 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Sadly this has happened a lot, I need an attraction to get it on so I always politely decline

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
3 weeks ago

Merseyside


"Oh and also because I'm dirty minded... There are plenty of women I'd reveal a facial to 😏"

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By *he ShivsCouple
3 weeks ago

Fife

It happens

I’d probably swerve doing the sex with them because I need to be attracted to all of them, no just their body.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Nope. If I'm already attracted to their body and other things then their face doesn't matter to me, so long as the body pictures are genuine and recent.

I would only become concerned if the face & body were never seen together in the same picture.

When all you have of them is a random collage of body parts, you start to wonder of any of it is real.

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

For me, there has to be some sort of attraction in the facial region x

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

I suspect I am different to most in that I will chat for weeks or a month (or longer) before photos are exchanged. I never ask and therefore the impetus to swap photos is delayed.

I suppose the reason for this is that most of my engagements are on the back of women sending the introductory message. My viewpoint is - do appearances count in the first instance if you're meeting for coffee and to build friendships? I don't think about the endgame (i.e. sex) from the onset. And when we meet for 'just that friendly luncheon' and you mutually realise we're both quite fanciable and there's an attraction then it can lead to other sensual things.

Occasionally it's a swapping of photos and an expedition to meet sooner rather than later and get bonking.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
3 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Yep.

But if we have been chatting for that long, it's something we would have discussed beforehand

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

I have to like the face and I assume that others do too which is why I'm always suprised when someone is happy to meet without seeing the old fizzog.

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By *itty N CremeCouple
3 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

This is one of our big bears on here if we send the first message we will add our pics and expect other to do the same but too many think it’s blind date on here

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