FabSwingers.com forum: What makes a woman good in bed?!

By *ruceyy OP Man
4 weeks ago

London

Having a lovely discussion with some pals (aww) and we are discussing if women need to be good in bed, or just look really good, to be a great shag.

But what makes a woman good in bed?! Is there anything that makes a woman obviously BAD in bed?

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By *elix SightedMan
4 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I once nailed someone I’d been trying to meet for ages and it was the biggest disappointment. She didn’t engage in any foreplay, touch me or reciprocate at all. She just lay there and let me get on with everything. Not so much as a sound or movement.

I had kept going because I thought she was shy/nervous and I could coax her into relaxing but in the end I stopped. It was not sexy in any way.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
4 weeks ago

Gravesend

Enthusiasm

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Enthusiasm 💜

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
4 weeks ago

wonderland.

Genuinely enjoying it xx

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By *entleman.kMan
4 weeks ago

bilston, wolves,walsall, dudley

There’s this one woman I went with foreplay was great until we got down to having sex, and the moaning was completely out of synch with the rhythm, which made me laugh as I tried to change to her panting moans, just as we got together she would change again, I did eventually cum but it did take quite a while.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
4 weeks ago

stockport

Not to be shellfish and love to please

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

The right partner!

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By *ellhungvweMan
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I don’t know what makes them good but snoring is usually a bad sign.

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

Enthusiasm and verve.

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By *he ShivsCouple
4 weeks ago

Fife

Taking notes…

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By *aramel.desiresMan
4 weeks ago

Heathrow

"I once nailed someone I’d been trying to meet for ages and it was the biggest disappointment. She didn’t engage in any foreplay, touch me or reciprocate at all. She just lay there and let me get on with everything. Not so much as a sound or movement.

I had kept going because I thought she was shy/nervous and I could coax her into relaxing but in the end I stopped. It was not sexy in any way."

Sounds like she let you nail her just so get rid of you.

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By *eoBloomsMan
4 weeks ago

Springfield

"Not to be shellfish and love to please "

The world is your oyster.

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By *upersonic SamMan
4 weeks ago

wigan

Passion, confidence and desire.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
4 weeks ago

North West

To me enthusiasm and chemistry is what makes anyone good in bed

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By *ack and MiriCouple
4 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Enthusiasm 💜"

This and if they have a dirty mind and a willingness to try different things then you have hit the jackpot.

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By *aramel.desiresMan
4 weeks ago

Heathrow

It probably starts outside the bedroom for me. Flirting, teasing and making me wait. Then inside the bedroom, letting herself go, be kinky slutty and demanding.

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By *elix SightedMan
4 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I had kept going because I thought she was shy/nervous and I could coax her into relaxing but in the end I stopped. It was not sexy in any way.

Sounds like she let you nail her just so get rid of you. "

😆😆 I had exactly this thought as I was typing it out!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
4 weeks ago

Essex

Is it something to do with ping pong balls?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Is it something to do with ping pong balls?"

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By *eoBloomsMan
4 weeks ago

Springfield

Is there anything that makes a woman obviously BAD in bed?"

Yes

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By *ogmark1Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

Enjoyment and chemistry

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By *uriousonthecoastMan
4 weeks ago

Amble

Self confidence.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
4 weeks ago

Ipswich

"Having a lovely discussion with some pals (aww) and we are discussing if women need to be good in bed, or just look really good, to be a great shag.

But what makes a woman good in bed?! Is there anything that makes a woman obviously BAD in bed?"

Biting you’re cock

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"There’s this one woman I went with foreplay was great until we got down to having sex, and the moaning was completely out of synch with the rhythm, which made me laugh as I tried to change to her panting moans, just as we got together she would change again, I did eventually cum but it did take quite a while."

I had a very strange relationship with someone like this a couple years ago. She was Islamic. & very reserved about sex. When I met her, she told me her ex-boyfriend dated her for seven months and they never had sex and I told her that will not work for me., I made it clear. I’m a very sexual person..

She was great to date really nice but the sex was pretty much how you described. Yet she’s the person I’ve gone the most rounds within a single day - again and again and again and I would come in a few minutes each time, I think nine times in total because she just felt and looked so incredibly good & it felt so taboo !

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By *hil most chillMan
4 weeks ago

South East & Europe

"Enthusiasm 💜"

This is the only answer

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By *ornycougaWoman
4 weeks ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

Confidence, enthusiasm and sucks like a Dyson

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
4 weeks ago

Ends

Good communication. Enjoys kissing. Touches.

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Snoring

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By *ynamicnatureMan
4 weeks ago

Doncaster

It goes a long way if they can relax enough to be open, playful, passionate and comfortable enough to express themselves fully around me.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

I would argue enthusiasm doesn't guarantee someone is good in bed (goes a long way for sure), but a lack of it certainly guarantees they won't be!

Reciprocation and awareness of each other's needs and responses will make two people 'good in bed together'. It's all about alignment and compatibility right?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
4 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

A good connection and an open mind…

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By *rettCoolMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"A good connection and an open mind…

I agree 100% but would add a good imagination to that as well

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By *hil most chillMan
4 weeks ago

South East & Europe

"Confidence, enthusiasm and sucks like a Dyson "

Ok this is the other only answer!

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By *aturelad95Man
4 weeks ago

London

Eye contact!

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By *iss.BellaWoman
4 weeks ago

Wales

Bookmarking to take notes

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By *cLovin2Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

Best woman I ever shagged was not shy about letting me cum in her mouth.

Had the most intense orgasm ever with her in Brazil.

She was open minded, willing to experiment, anxious to please me. But she also wasn't shy about asking for what she wanted. Open communication and desire to please each other goes a long way

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By *aitonelMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I would argue enthusiasm doesn't guarantee someone is good in bed (goes a long way for sure), but a lack of it certainly guarantees they won't be!

Reciprocation and awareness of each other's needs and responses will make two people 'good in bed together'. It's all about alignment and compatibility right?"

Shhhhh! 🤫 Enthusiasm is the safety net word, the sit on the fence and not rock the women folk boat answer. You can't question it.

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By *ripfillMan
4 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

She , taking her coat off

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By *un Times 1Man
4 weeks ago

coventry

Definitely enthusiastic.

I was with one woman, what she did, was as I would describe as a Fanny wank her rhythm was so good. Great Shag.

I have been with others who I would describe as checking me for Testicle Cancer when I was in her. Her fingers were all over my Balls. Great Shag.

That is 2 who spring to mind.

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By *aitonelMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Definitely enthusiastic.

I was with one woman, what she did, was as I would describe as a Fanny wank her rhythm was so good. Great Shag.

I have been with others who I would describe as checking me for Testicle Cancer when I was in her. Her fingers were all over my Balls. Great Shag.

That is 2 who spring to mind. "

So which is it, because those 2 things are more technique and as you say yourself, rythem, than enthusiasm?

She could have all the enthusiasm in the world, but she certainly isn't pulling off those things on it alone. A virgin can be enthusiastic but they definitely won't be able to hit those high notes.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
4 weeks ago

Oldham

This is exactly how I like a woman to be. This is 100 percent most of the people in the northwest. Southern girls get much more involved.

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By *he_Mixed_GuyMan
4 weeks ago

Reading

Being good in bed Definitely starts outside the bedroom... flirting, sensual, sexual chat.. builds chemistry!

I love the foreplay, kissing, touching first..as this makes the sex amazing 👏 🤩

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By *abandfreeMan
4 weeks ago

Stockport

Passion and sensuality, A woman who’s really into it and expresses it and eggs me on to escalate the passion and naughtiness

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
4 weeks ago

North West

For me it's been women who have communicated well both verbally and physically. Those who have made their desire and enjoyment clear. And there's been a mixture of passion, laughter and affection.

This also applies to men.

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By *eoBloomsMan
4 weeks ago

Springfield

One who laughs with me, not at me.

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By *olinOfBathMan
4 weeks ago

Corsham

What makes a woman not good in bed?

Almost certainly, her partner.

I'm fairly confident that I've never had to fake an erection, or had an orgasm that I didn't enjoy...

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By *ickEmeryMan
4 weeks ago

Altrincham

Responsive, equal input and increasingly feverish dialogue. But mostly that elusive subconscious thing that happens when the jigsaw fits, the chemicals blend and the scents trigger…and you only know that through trying.

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By *ojangles69Woman
4 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

"Eye contact! "

Best given when sucking cock! Love eye contact! It says a lot too!

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
4 weeks ago

The last house on the left…

Well the two best shags I’ve ever had were…

*She was enthusiastic

*She f***ed ME. Broke my bed ‘n everything

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By *oughmanMan
4 weeks ago

Sunderland

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By *oughmanMan
4 weeks ago

Sunderland

Being in mine?😄

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By *illy IdolMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands

They make you feel good in bed.

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By *ittleMissMinionWoman
4 weeks ago

La La Land

It's not technically a bad thing, but it's a massive no from me.

Bi-curious females are just that, curious and unfortunately from my experience they have been pillow princesses

I am attracted to ladies who have the confidence that they know what they want and are willing to show me just how much they want it

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By *cLovin2Man
3 weeks ago

Reading

"It's not technically a bad thing, but it's a massive no from me.

Bi-curious females are just that, curious and unfortunately from my experience they have been pillow princesses

I am attracted to ladies who have the confidence that they know what they want and are willing to show me just how much they want it

Now you sound like a guy

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By *ustbelfastMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

"Not to be shellfish and love to please

The world is your oyster.

That pun just made the ladies clam up

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
3 weeks ago

Essex

"Not to be shellfish and love to please

The world is your oyster.

That pun just made the ladies clam up"

Yeah!!!

We’re not all prawn stars you know

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
3 weeks ago

Hatfield

You know how a women keeps a man happy on a date?

She turns up

Us men are simply folk .. if she’s in bed with me Im more then happy and hopefully so is she.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
3 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Not to be shellfish and love to please

The world is your oyster.

That pun just made the ladies clam up

Yeah!!!

We’re not all prawn stars you know "

Especially when you're feeling a little crabby

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By *ornycougaWoman
3 weeks ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"Not to be shellfish and love to please

The world is your oyster.

That pun just made the ladies clam up

Yeah!!!

We’re not all prawn stars you know

Especially when you're feeling a little crabby"

I knew you would mussel in on this one

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By *aybeLadyWoman
3 weeks ago

West Dublin

I think compatibility is key. No one thing makes someone good in bed. Finding someone who enjoys the same kind of sex makes then good in bed. IMO

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By *ozzybear1981Man
3 weeks ago

preston

Zero but that’s absolutely fine by me.

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By *ggdrasil66Man
3 weeks ago

Saltdean

A lack of inhibitions, love a dirty girlie.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
3 weeks ago

Redditch

For me, great sex is about connection so she needs confidence and to be relaxed and enjoy lots of foreplay. I love close intense contact, kissing, stroking, amd nails lightly scratching me....

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By *aybeLadyWoman
3 weeks ago

West Dublin

"For me, great sex is about connection so she needs confidence and to be relaxed and enjoy lots of foreplay. I love close intense contact, kissing, stroking, amd nails lightly scratching me...."

Bliss 😍

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By *issBehavexxxWoman
3 weeks ago

essex

"To me enthusiasm and chemistry is what makes anyone good in bed "

This 100%

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Durham

"Passion, confidence and desire."

Definitely this x

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By *moothdickMan
3 weeks ago

stoke

Connection

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

"You know how a women keeps a man happy on a date?

She turns up

Us men are simply folk..."

Not all men. Some men are more discerning.

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By *unnesscoupleMan
3 weeks ago

Inverness

A pulse

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
3 weeks ago

Ipswich

Ability to suck cock

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By *eoBloomsMan
3 weeks ago

Springfield

"Not to be shellfish and love to please

The world is your oyster.

That pun just made the ladies clam up

Yeah!!!

We’re not all prawn stars you know

Especially when you're feeling a little crabby

I knew you would mussel in on this one"

His posts warm my cockles.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
3 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

It’s her post coital skills that make or break it for me.

Does she do a bit of washing up or quickly run the hoover around before she leaves, it’s the small details that set apart a good shag from a great shag.

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By *WC 101Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

A woman who is enthusiastic, prepared to let herself go with no inhibitions and get lost in the moment and let you know what she likes and doesn’t like to make sure she is satisfied.

If you reciprocate the same back I’d reckon everyone will have a great time !

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By *ir-March-a-lotMan
3 weeks ago

london

For me someone that experiments and observes based off responses. A good communicator. Enthusiasm and of course the chemistry between us.

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By *pice-meWoman
3 weeks ago

Home

"For me someone that experiments and observes based off responses. A good communicator. Enthusiasm and of course the chemistry between us. "

Definitely agreed with this one..

but also hours of 4play and kissing needed without any men would be ideal too.

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By *egasus NobMan
3 weeks ago

Wandsworth

Seductive voice with a hint of kink, an irresistible and alluring tone.

This

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By *obilebottomMan
3 weeks ago

All over

Not sure if anyone said it but it also all depends on the man. Action and reaction, so to speak. That applies to men too.

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By *nkedguy777Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Lots of enthusiasm, being extra filthy and willing to try things

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
3 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Not to be shellfish and love to please

The world is your oyster.

That pun just made the ladies clam up

Yeah!!!

We’re not all prawn stars you know

Especially when you're feeling a little crabby

I knew you would mussel in on this one

His posts warm my cockles.

Good to hear Leo. I would not like to make you anemone.

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By *eoBloomsMan
3 weeks ago

Springfield

"Not to be shellfish and love to please

The world is your oyster.

That pun just made the ladies clam up

Yeah!!!

We’re not all prawn stars you know

Especially when you're feeling a little crabby

I knew you would mussel in on this one

His posts warm my cockles.

Good to hear Leo. I would not like to make you anemone."

👏👏

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