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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do we always assume those thar can't accommodate ate hiding something or are married

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant because i have a tenant who rents my spare room its that simple

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I always ask why their profile says they cannot accommodate and then judge from there.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't. Could mean anything.

We don't accommodate as we have teenage children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't because I am leading a secret life and am really a high profile celebrity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't. But a lot of people do. That's why you will always find me suggesting single guys who can't accommodate put a short, simple explanation - it 'heads off' the chance that someone reading will hit the 'Next!' button and not jump to conclusions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gonna be the odd one out,,, I CAN!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accomodate and I won't say why not. I don't care what people think.

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By *adkatWoman
over a year ago

Alfreton

I don't because I have two young children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to,but does arouse suspicions...might say more about us than them though

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By *exykirstyWoman
over a year ago

North of Manchester


"I cant because i have a tenant who rents my spare room its that simple "

Need to get a kink friendly tenant, which is just what I have done! x

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I don't accomodate and I won't say why not. I don't care what people think. "

My _iew as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What difference does it make for first couple of meets? Best to be on neutral territory anyway til you get to know each other better....if thats what you want

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I prefer hotel meets anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two reasons we don't accom -

1. Kids

2. Psychos

We also feel that hotel meets far more relaxing and enjoyable as you are away from the pressures of home.

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

i can , certain weekends thou as my son stays somtimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant because i have a tenant who rents my spare room its that simple

Need to get a kink friendly tenant, which is just what I have done! x"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I don't "

me either

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't.

But explanation on profile - and tbh - with my work travel, friends who can and clubs - hasn't ever caused me any worries!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't and won't as I've dogs who don't like strangers plus this is my home and mine sanctuary

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I don't make presumptions. Though I do get a little miffed when guys presume can accommodate means bed and board lol. To me it means I can accommodate a meet not that I run a bloody B&B lol.

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Las Palmas GC

I don't...because I choose not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do we always assume those thar can't accommodate ate hiding something or are married"

I am hiding something...my address

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Why do we always assume those thar can't accommodate ate hiding something or are married"

I assume someone is attached if I see a number of things.

a) cannot accommodate

b) asks for absolute discretion

c) only meets midweek

d) only meets daytimes

If I see a combination of 2 or 3 of these I assume they are attached. Rightly or wrongly that is my filtering process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do we always assume those thar can't accommodate ate hiding something or are married"

No apologies for thinking "single " men who can't accommodate are married. Useful if their profile includes an explanation why if they can't .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer hotel meets anyway."

me too, I don't like going to peoples homes, I feel more relaxed in a hotel as I can walk around and do as I please, where as you cant make yourself at home in someone elses house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose not to accomodate after some bad experiences in the past, i find nowadays that hotel meets are more fun and adds to the escapism from home and a break from my 19 yr old nosey son....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do we always assume those thar can't accommodate ate hiding something or are married

I assume someone is attached if I see a number of things.

a) cannot accommodate

b) asks for absolute discretion

c) only meets midweek

d) only meets daytimes

If I see a combination of 2 or 3 of these I assume they are attached. Rightly or wrongly that is my filtering process."

I tick all 4 of those, what do I win?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I prefer hotel meets anyway.

me too, I don't like going to peoples homes, I feel more relaxed in a hotel as I can walk around and do as I please, where as you cant make yourself at home in someone elses house"

Yep, and if its a decent hotel you get breakfast cooked for you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do we always assume those thar can't accommodate ate hiding something or are married

I am hiding something...my address "

Ha! I know where you live.... Does this mean I can pop in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's only a select few who get to step over my threshold

As others have said it's a combination of things, mainly because I have children, and I state that on my profile, if people read that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do we always assume those thar can't accommodate ate hiding something or are married

I assume someone is attached if I see a number of things.

a) cannot accommodate

b) asks for absolute discretion

c) only meets midweek

d) only meets daytimes

If I see a combination of 2 or 3 of these I assume they are attached. Rightly or wrongly that is my filtering process."

Your process is flawed because

A) as others have posted, I also rent out part of my house for some of the year and I wouldnt feel comfortable playing with them there.

2) I always ask for discretion as I don't want the world and their dog knowing what I get up to, which is why I'm always discreet if I visit someone else

3) I work about 75% weekends, entertaining you 9-5ers

4) I also work a lot of weekday nights, entertaining you 9-5ers- so week daytimes are when I have most freetime.

5) I once met a certified by doctors crazy woman while swinging who got way too attached- if she knew where I lived I'd never have got rid of her

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Its not always cant.....but simply wont...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Why do we always assume those thar can't accommodate ate hiding something or are married

I assume someone is attached if I see a number of things.

a) cannot accommodate

b) asks for absolute discretion

c) only meets midweek

d) only meets daytimes

If I see a combination of 2 or 3 of these I assume they are attached. Rightly or wrongly that is my filtering process.

Your process is flawed because

A) as others have posted, I also rent out part of my house for some of the year and I wouldnt feel comfortable playing with them there.

2) I always ask for discretion as I don't want the world and their dog knowing what I get up to, which is why I'm always discreet if I visit someone else

3) I work about 75% weekends, entertaining you 9-5ers

4) I also work a lot of weekday nights, entertaining you 9-5ers- so week daytimes are when I have most freetime.

5) I once met a certified by doctors crazy woman while swinging who got way too attached- if she knew where I lived I'd never have got rid of her"

And I did say 'rightly or wrongly'. It's what I do and I find it suits me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not always cant.....but simply wont..."

I could if I wanted to, there are times when my house is empty, when the kids are at school, uni, work etc but I simply choose not to, but I never ask anyone to accommodate me, i'm more than happy to share a hotel or meet in a club so I feel i'm within my rights not to accommodate them

What I hate are people who cant accommodate but expect other to accommodate them, I would never expect from others what I cant offer myself

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why do we always assume those thar can't accommodate ate hiding something or are married"

Speaking for me are you? Strange as I don't know you from Adam!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do we always assume those thar can't accommodate ate hiding something or are married

Speaking for me are you? Strange as I don't know you from Adam! "

No I was not speaking for you or anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its not always cant.....but simply wont...

I could if I wanted to, there are times when my house is empty, when the kids are at school, uni, work etc but I simply choose not to, but I never ask anyone to accommodate me, i'm more than happy to share a hotel or meet in a club so I feel i'm within my rights not to accommodate them

What I hate are people who cant accommodate but expect other to accommodate them, I would never expect from others what I cant offer myself "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't meet men that can't accommodate after one meet told me he'd never meet swingers in his house, it's not a knocking shop. He was in my bed at the time. Told him to get up and get the fuck out of my house.

I don't give a shit what the reason is really, I can't go to yours...you're not coming to mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't as i don't accom myself its my family home and don't want to mix my personal space with my fun times.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't accommodate either and the reason is in the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People make assumptions about lots of things.

Enjoys giving lots of oral - isn't very good at penetrative sex

Has no male pics on profile - male is ugly

All of these assumptions are daft but you won't stop people coming to conclusions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can, and do accommodate, but i don't just assume the worst if i see someone can't! Theres a multitude of reasons for not being able to. Kids being the classic one as i'm looking for a female, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two reasons we don't accom -

1. Kids

2. Psychos

We also feel that hotel meets far more relaxing and enjoyable as you are away from the pressures of home.

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