FabSwingers.com forum: People asking for fake verifications

By *carletts OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Harpenden

Don't know if you all get the same but I've had 3 people this week ask for me to falsely verify them! Saying it helps them in the future haha urmmm

I do report and block them but makes you wonder who you can trust if all of their verifications are fake

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By *tormchasingCouple
3 weeks ago

Essex

We've never had anyone ask us, but we have often suspected some people on here have multiple fake veris (sometimes you just get that feeling something isn't right)

We have always wondered what the people giving the veri would get in return

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By *carletts OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Harpenden

"We've never had anyone ask us, but we have often suspected some people on here have multiple fake veris (sometimes you just get that feeling something isn't right)

We have always wondered what the people giving the veri would get in return"

Agree as some of those people have a lot of veris and from club meets and do look completely genuine? I've been offered money in the past and whilst a little extra in your pockets is always a bonus I just refuse to do it

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

I think I've been asked once in the 4 years I've been here.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
3 weeks ago

cahoots

One of the first messages we received on here was from a guy offering a fake verification to help us get started. We declined, reported and blocked.

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By *carletts OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Harpenden

"I think I've been asked once in the 4 years I've been here. "

Maybe it's just me then? X

I've been here 15 years as was never a thing until about the last year

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
3 weeks ago

Wherever

Another reason I absolutely dislike the verification system on here.

I haven’t been asked for false verification, yet but then I don’t think anyone would want to have a veri from me anyway.

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think I can spot them easily. You shouldn’t take veris too seriously, people often gets veris at socials from people they barely know, and they turn out to complete assholes !

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By *carletts OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Harpenden

"I think I can spot them easily. You shouldn’t take veris too seriously, people often gets veris at socials from people they barely know, and they turn out to complete assholes ! "

Haha yeah I know but at least they have actually met them in the flesh, they aren't some keyboard warrior whether they are an arsehole or not lol

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By *tormchasingCouple
3 weeks ago

Essex

"Another reason I absolutely dislike the verification system on here.

I haven’t been asked for false verification, yet but then I don’t think anyone would want to have a veri from me anyway. "

We'd love a veri from you...a genuine one after a meet

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Durham

I had someone insisting they'd met me and asking me to verify them.

Theyd obviously studied my profile but I knew we'd never met.

They were quite persistent and slightly aggressive, they also claimed to be someone they obviously weren't.

Theyre now on my block list x

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By *carletts OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Harpenden

"I had someone insisting they'd met me and asking me to verify them.

Theyd obviously studied my profile but I knew we'd never met.

They were quite persistent and slightly aggressive, they also claimed to be someone they obviously weren't.

Theyre now on my block list x"

Oh we have to love the persistant, self entitled pricks xx

I always wonder is there a limit to block lists lol mine is huge

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By *ellhungvweMan
3 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I don’t think it is a common thing but I am pretty sure it happens because some time a set of veris just look _wrong_. Just block and move on if you have concerns.

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By *uri00620Woman
3 weeks ago

Croydon

I think they're pretty easy to spot. I've been asked and few times and I've been verified without even talking to an individual just to get my attention I guess?

Fake veris are "wank fodder" - or a least that's what I've been told by someone who gets them from women. Some people won't get asked so much, those that go to clubs and who are heavily involved in the "scene" bc they're more likely to repot and block.

I can't take them that seriously really.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
3 weeks ago

The Continental

Can I have one?

I’ll give you some minstrels.

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By *itty N CremeCouple
3 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

There was a woman local to us who was asking on her status for her face to be photoshopped onto other people - unfortunately people will try to abuse the system and spoil it for others 🙄

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By *uilder.funMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Instant block from me. Meeting people on here is based on mutual trust and honesty.

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Can I have one?

I’ll give you some minstrels.

^ Well what can I say , Treat this one with RespeK, this is what it’s all about etc….

Can I have my minstrels now, please?

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
3 weeks ago

The Continental

"Can I have one?

I’ll give you some minstrels.

^ Well what can I say , Treat this one with RespeK, this is what it’s all about etc….

Can I have my minstrels now, please?"

Help yourself. But be careful when rummaging around the bag

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By *teveanddebsCouple
3 weeks ago

Norwich

We have always wondered what the people giving the veri would get in return"

A blowjob?

Oh wait.

That would make it a real veri.

As you were.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Northampton

Should be easy to spot a trend in the giving and receiving of fake veri’s

We take a look at all the veri’s to get an idea. Although we meet in clubs so quickly take people by face value. If there was a red flag in veri’s we wouldn’t arrange to meet anyway

Stay frosty

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By *oodmessMan
3 weeks ago

yumsville

I see status's on my updates all the time asking for people to contact from gg events and gangbangs so to verify. Realistically if they met in any kind of numbers, anyone (guy) could sneak a mail, say they had a great time and get a veri from someone they've never met.

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By *umagain58Man
3 weeks ago

London

No issue with TV’s at all but one did give me a fake review had seen me on cam. No idea why did it and was not even an interesting one

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By *lue morphoCouple
3 weeks ago

North West

Oh your comment is intriguing, would love to know what you would write in a false verification ? Xxx

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By *lue morphoCouple
3 weeks ago

North West

"Another reason I absolutely dislike the verification system on here.

I haven’t been asked for false verification, yet but then I don’t think anyone would want to have a veri from me anyway. "

My last comment should have hit the reply and quote!

Oh your comment is intriguing, would love to know what you would write in a false verification ? Xxx

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By *mmaleiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"Another reason I absolutely dislike the verification system on here.

I haven’t been asked for false verification, yet but then I don’t think anyone would want to have a veri from me anyway.

My last comment should have hit the reply and quote!

Oh your comment is intriguing, would love to know what you would write in a false verification ? Xxx"

Mine would be; small penis, personality of a plank of wood, wouldn’t ride again

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
3 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Another reason I absolutely dislike the verification system on here.

I haven’t been asked for false verification, yet but then I don’t think anyone would want to have a veri from me anyway.

My last comment should have hit the reply and quote!

Oh your comment is intriguing, would love to know what you would write in a false verification ? Xxx

Mine would be; small penis, personality of a plank of wood, wouldn’t ride again "

I have that one hidden.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
3 weeks ago

Lake District

There are some which make you wonder but then again I guess it really is impossible to police.

Dammed if you don't have them, dammed if you do

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By *lue morphoCouple
3 weeks ago

North West

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By *lue morphoCouple
3 weeks ago

North West

"Another reason I absolutely dislike the verification system on here.

I haven’t been asked for false verification, yet but then I don’t think anyone would want to have a veri from me anyway.

My last comment should have hit the reply and quote!

Oh your comment is intriguing, would love to know what you would write in a false verification ? Xxx

Mine would be; small penis, personality of a plank of wood, wouldn’t ride again "

Mine would mention halitosis and dandruff

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By *lex46TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Near Wells

I’ve had people ask me for verifications for a meet we had months ago when they had a previous profile.

The daft thing is they use a different username and I can’t remember who I had sex with at some club back in July??

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've had a few people ask for verifications on the grounds that I met them in a club. However, if I can't remember them and they are vague on the specifics, then it doesn't happen

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By *midnight-Woman
3 weeks ago

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I've had people mail and say 'oh I think we met on my last profile '.. I assume it's to strike up a conversation or to get a verification.. I just ignore them

Eeekk....maybe I did meet them at a group social lol, in which case, so sorry!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

I've been here 9 years and never once been asked to provide a verification for anyone I haven't met.

Even people I have met but who have left and returned have never asked me to reverify them and despite this being my fourth profile I've never asked anyone I met previously to verify me a second time.

I have been contacted though by some unbelievably rude and ignorant people who have twice as many verifications as I do and I often wonder how many of those are made up because if they approach everyone the way they did me I would be amazed if anyone agreed to meet them.

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By *carlettxWoman
3 weeks ago

Essex

This is all too regular on here

And I know for sure some fake profiles have in fact been verified - makes it all very unsafe for genuine swingers

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By *obilebottomMan
3 weeks ago

All over

Why would anyone even consider verifying falsely anybody is beyond me.

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By *aomilatteCouple
3 weeks ago

Midlands

Personally we've never been asked to give a false verification though we do have the unverified filter on. In local updates people sometimes ask for verifications and do occasionally get them. When they get the false veris the floodgates must open

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By *luebell888Woman
3 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Been asked quite a few times by men to give them a verification. One random man even wrote me a veri then asked for one back. I just report, but yes, it does make you wonder.

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By *carletts OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Harpenden

"Another reason I absolutely dislike the verification system on here.

I haven’t been asked for false verification, yet but then I don’t think anyone would want to have a veri from me anyway.

My last comment should have hit the reply and quote!

Oh your comment is intriguing, would love to know what you would write in a false verification ? Xxx

Mine would be; small penis, personality of a plank of wood, wouldn’t ride again

Mine would mention halitosis and dandruff

Theirs not yours I hope?!?!

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By *haveanicevoiceMan
3 weeks ago

Cumbria

What about making a 2nd account yourself on another e-mail address logging into both and verifying in person that way would that work

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By *carletts OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Harpenden

"What about making a 2nd account yourself on another e-mail address logging into both and verifying in person that way would that work"

I'm not looking for tips how to do it lol no need to I am genuine but yes sure there are 100's of people on here that probably do that. Sad isn't really but that's the world today I guess deceitful, deceptive and dishonest...The triple D's

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
2 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

"What about making a 2nd account yourself on another e-mail address logging into both and verifying in person that way would that work"

How would this work?

As I understand it you can only be verified by an account that is itself verified, neither of the accounts in your scenario are verified.

If the existing account is verified, then what would be the point of creating a new account.

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlands

"What about making a 2nd account yourself on another e-mail address logging into both and verifying in person that way would that work

How would this work?

As I understand it you can only be verified by an account that is itself verified, neither of the accounts in your scenario are verified.

If the existing account is verified, then what would be the point of creating a new account. "

Lots of Men create couples and womens profile with photos taken from from elsewhere.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds

One thing I’ve learned is not to trust verifications on here. Half are fake. A quarter are people who have attended events and basically just getting a “certificate of attendance”.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
2 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

"What about making a 2nd account yourself on another e-mail address logging into both and verifying in person that way would that work

How would this work?

As I understand it you can only be verified by an account that is itself verified, neither of the accounts in your scenario are verified.

If the existing account is verified, then what would be the point of creating a new account.

Lots of Men create couples and womens profile with photos taken from from elsewhere. "

Yes I get that as a use of a fake account, but I was referring to the creating of an account for the purposes of fake verification, as that is the topic of the thread, but yes you are correct those are reasons, amongst others, why people do it

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By *agerMorganMan
2 weeks ago

Canvey Island

This is why I think the verification system is flawed. There’s two in my local area who I suspect are gaming the system by creating fake profiles and writing verifications for themselves.

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By *carletts OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Harpenden

"This is why I think the verification system is flawed. There’s two in my local area who I suspect are gaming the system by creating fake profiles and writing verifications for themselves. "

How could it be changed? Take a group photo might work? Lol I don't know how you can stop it really

I also think re fake photos the site should do a reverse image search to check. I'm not into football at all but a guy sent a photo the other day, it was suspect I reversed search and boom was a professional footballer haha who I very much doubt would struggle to meet

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By *agerMorganMan
2 weeks ago

Canvey Island

"This is why I think the verification system is flawed. There’s two in my local area who I suspect are gaming the system by creating fake profiles and writing verifications for themselves.

How could it be changed? Take a group photo might work? Lol I don't know how you can stop it really

Errrm, you know what? I actually don’t know how to stop it either! I mean, short of asking people for mobile numbers that are tied to your account, no one is going to be crazy enough to buy 5 SIM cards as burners just to make a few accounts for verifications (but never say never in this place).

With fake photos, yes 100% it erodes trust when people fake it badly, but wow, someone tried it on with you using a professional footballers photo? That’s just crazy behaviour from them. 😳

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By *ccasional_LoversCouple
2 weeks ago

Peterborough

"Why would anyone even consider verifying falsely anybody is beyond me.

Mostly dickheads and wankers that falsely verify others.

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By *carletts OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Harpenden

"This is why I think the verification system is flawed. There’s two in my local area who I suspect are gaming the system by creating fake profiles and writing verifications for themselves.

How could it be changed? Take a group photo might work? Lol I don't know how you can stop it really

With fake photos, yes 100% it erodes trust when people fake it badly, but wow, someone tried it on with you using a professional footballers photo? That’s just crazy behaviour from them. 😳

Either that or people have been silly enough to believe it in the past. If I hadn't searched I would have just wow he is a right hottie haha

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By *haveanicevoiceMan
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

"What about making a 2nd account yourself on another e-mail address logging into both and verifying in person that way would that work

How would this work?

As I understand it you can only be verified by an account that is itself verified, neither of the accounts in your scenario are verified.

If the existing account is verified, then what would be the point of creating a new account. "

Sorry it was a lame joke..

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Durham

"There was a woman local to us who was asking on her status for her face to be photoshopped onto other people - unfortunately people will try to abuse the system and spoil it for others 🙄"

There was a TV in Durham who put her head on pics of woman. You could spot it a mile off but some people seem to fall for it x

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By *ushrangerMan
2 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I verified a guy I worked with before when I was on the tools. Turned out it was not actually him and someone took his pics from his Facebook, they got caught out.

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