FabSwingers.com forum: Does Height Matter?

By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
27 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

Hello Ladies of fab! Question for you does height matter? Do you like guys short, medium or tall?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
27 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"Hello Ladies of fab! Question for you does height matter? Do you like guys short, medium or tall? "

The choice of the woman is directly related to the sum of the heights of the men on the other two sides.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
27 weeks ago

Leeds

Well it does on many theme park rides.

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By *upersonic SamMan
27 weeks ago

wigan

If you haven't found an answer after 5 posts and 330 replies I'm afraid you never will. Fab is so frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

To some yes

To others no

To the rest……indifference

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By *riar BelisseWoman
27 weeks ago

Holibobs

Doesn’t matter to me

Interestingly though clubs aside. It does matter to a lot of men, when they realise they have to look up to me, it's quite often a deal breaker...

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By *vaRoseWoman
27 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Couldn’t give a fuck

My partners have ranged from just a bit taller than me to nearly 7ft. Genuinely doesn’t bother me one bit

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
27 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Doesn’t matter to me

Interestingly though clubs aside. It does matter to a lot of men, when they realise they have to look up to me, it's quite often a deal breaker..."

I find the same issues with being "too tall"

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By *viatrixWoman
27 weeks ago

Redhill

It does to me, most unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I'm 6ft5, some women like it, some don't. Just crack on and be approachable and not a dick on here

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
27 weeks ago

North West

It does for some things … certain positions or reaching for those high up things on a supermarket shelf

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
27 weeks ago

London

I’ll answer your question on your next thread.

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By *avexxMan
27 weeks ago

cheshire

was 6ft now 5/9 shrinking as the years go on

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Really tall guys turn me on as do really short ones

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By *eoBloomsMan
27 weeks ago

Springfield

I've always wanted to have sex with a really tall lady.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
27 weeks ago

West Dublin

Matters to me. Guy has to be taller than me.

I'm just not attracted to guys shorter than me, even lying down.

Attraction is an all round thing.

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By *anonfire96Man
27 weeks ago

Mansfield

To some women absolutely. Us short arses have no chance. To other women not a problem. My last meet was 5'9" to my 5'7.5" and strangely when on all fours made absolutely no difference 😜

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By *r Funtime GlasgowMan
27 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Doesn’t matter to me

Interestingly though clubs aside. It does matter to a lot of men, when they realise they have to look up to me, it's quite often a deal breaker..."

Not for me I think that would be amazing

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By *rdere OpusCouple
27 weeks ago

Brum - ish

It does matter to me. I’m tallish for a woman and I don’t want to feel like a big galumph next to the men I’m with.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I tend to prefer women my height or shorter, for logistical reasons

but if they can do as they're told it doesn't matter all that much.

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By *avexxMan
27 weeks ago

cheshire

i would prefer women slightly shorter than me, but no deal breaker

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By *uggy 555Man
27 weeks ago

Swansea Valley

We're all the same height laying down

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By *estructionDollyWoman
27 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I'm 5'1 so most people are taller than me. I've been with people a similar height up to 6'5 so no, it doesn't really matter though a big height difference can make things a bit more challenging during sex.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
27 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I was rejected once for not being tall enough lol.

It matters to some people, but not all.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

6’4” here and it’s never been mentioned x

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By *iss DevilWoman
27 weeks ago

Bedford

I am not attracted to short men so yes, height matters to me. And no, we are not all "the same height in bed".

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By *iking_WitchWoman
27 weeks ago

Hinckley

This question comes up soooo often on here. We are all individuals we are all unique one size does not fit all.

Height matters a lot to me because I'm a giant but even tall men are dumb because when I politely decline because I don't fancy them/distance/crap bio/cheating etc etc they will go "but I'm tall?!?" dude, I want it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"We're all the same height laying down

This isn't true. The distance from genitals to face changes - with someone significantly taller or shorter one person is looking at a pillow, the other at a chest - and that has a significant effect on the dynamic. Not decisive, but significant.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
27 weeks ago

Reading

I find it weird when some people make their height their whole personality. Like, I’m tall what else could you want? Well.

But no, it isn’t a huge concern to me. As others have said I’ve dated various heights. Mine have ranged from shorter than me to 6’3.

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By *eoBloomsMan
27 weeks ago

Springfield

"Hello Ladies of fab! Question for you does height matter? Do you like guys short, medium or tall?

The choice of the woman is directly related to the sum of the heights of the men on the other two sides. "

Pythagoras' Threesome

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
27 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

"I am not attracted to short men so yes, height matters to me. And no, we are not all "the same height in bed". "

Can't agree more with that statement.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
27 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

"I'm 5'1 so most people are taller than me. I've been with people a similar height up to 6'5 so no, it doesn't really matter though a big height difference can make things a bit more challenging during sex. "

Agreed. My ex was 5ft and sex was difficult at times I must admit

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By *urry BlokeMan
27 weeks ago

I like short men

5ft9 max

Short stocky blokes get my attention, big legs and a solid tummy, preferably with a bit of fuzz

So do some slimmer guys - like acrobat build, especially if they're a bit 'alt' looking

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
27 weeks ago

North West

"Hello Ladies of fab! Question for you does height matter? Do you like guys short, medium or tall?

The choice of the woman is directly related to the sum of the heights of the men on the other two sides. "

What about the hypotenuse?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
27 weeks ago

North West

"I find it weird when some people make their height their whole personality. Like, I’m tall what else could you want? Well.

But no, it isn’t a huge concern to me. As others have said I’ve dated various heights. Mine have ranged from shorter than me to 6’3. "

Same. My boyfriends ranged from just slightly below my own height, up to a max of 6ft 7in. Mr KC is 6ft 4in and I spend most of my time sat down on my wheels and when I'm like that, even my 7yo child is taller than me

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
27 weeks ago

Brum

Height matters most to basketball players, Olympic high jumpers and goal keepers.

Also net ball chicks tend to be leggy.

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By *moothdickMan
27 weeks ago

stoke

It does on a fair ground

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By *evil-AngelWoman
27 weeks ago

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It's not the most important factor for me but it does make the list. I'm tall for a woman and when I've been with men shorter than me I've felt like a whale in bed which is not a sexy feeling.

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By *AYENCouple
27 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"Hello Ladies of fab! Question for you does height matter? Do you like guys short, medium or tall? "

Going by the green arrow, you seem to be obsessed about height OP!

I'm sure you'll find the same answer on this thread as all the others, to some it does, to others it doesn't.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
27 weeks ago

Glasgow

It’s definitely not a deal breaker for me although I’m 5ft 3” and would prefer them to be taller than me

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
27 weeks ago

North West

"Height matters most to basketball players, Olympic high jumpers and goal keepers.

Also net ball chicks tend to be leggy."

Height doesn't matter much when I play basketball 🏀♿

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Yes, to a degree. I’m tall and I prefer a tall man, but there are exceptions if I like someone.

However, if they say they are 5’11 and when I meet them they are the same height or shorter than me it’s an instant turn off because they lied.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
27 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

What answer are you looking for that will help put to rest this obsession?

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By *eoBloomsMan
27 weeks ago

Springfield

"What answer are you looking for that will help put to rest this obsession?"

That's a tall order !

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By *ellhungvweMan
27 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"What answer are you looking for that will help put to rest this obsession?"

I think the answer to that is that he wants you to dm him to arrange a night of mind bending sex.

#justAGuess

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By *aybeLadyWoman
27 weeks ago

West Dublin

"I am not attracted to short men so yes, height matters to me. And no, we are not all "the same height in bed". "

I get thrown this all the time. Drives me bonkers.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
27 weeks ago

West Dublin

"Yes, to a degree. I’m tall and I prefer a tall man, but there are exceptions if I like someone.

However, if they say they are 5’11 and when I meet them they are the same height or shorter than me it’s an instant turn off because they lied."

Absolutely. This has happened me a few times. Its still a lie. Doesnt bode well.

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By *essTTWoman
27 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Hello Ladies of fab! Question for you does height matter? Do you like guys short, medium or tall? "

Would you consider yourself obsessed with your height?

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By *aybeLadyWoman
27 weeks ago

West Dublin

"6’4” here and it’s never been mentioned x"

Thats because you are well above the average height and taller than most.

Being too tall isnt my issue with guys, its being short and nearly a fetish for them.

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By *r MzchiefMan
27 weeks ago

Vhesterfield, Derbyshire

"Hello Ladies of fab! Question for you does height matter? Do you like guys short, medium or tall?

The choice of the woman is directly related to the sum of the heights of the men on the other two sides. "

Pythagoreanism applied to sex, now that would have held my interest more in maths class.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
27 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Hello Ladies of fab! Question for you does height matter? Do you like guys short, medium or tall?

Would you consider yourself obsessed with your height?"

Think you know the answer lol

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By *ootnootboopCouple
27 weeks ago

Cheshire

"I find it weird when some people make their height their whole personality. Like, I’m tall what else could you want? Well.

But no, it isn’t a huge concern to me. As others have said I’ve dated various heights. Mine have ranged from shorter than me to 6’3. "

I agree,

Your the height you are, it's never going change so my advice to the OP is to embrace it and get on with your life. I'm 5'5" and do perfectly fine! Yes I'm not the right height for everyone, but then again no one is universally perfect. If it wasn't height it might be facial hair, or tattoos or smoking status.....

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

The only difference between me (5’8) and taller me ( insert height size) is longer trousers, I’m still a dick, now I get all that basic caveman nonsense about taller men being able to see predators etc but diddy and r Kelly are now room sharing, what a female really wants to feel is protected and therefore the taller man has that attribute, it hasn’t stopped me from meeting the most amazing people and some norks in between, even if they wear heels and are taller, y’all look good in heels by the way

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By *BWHunterMan
27 weeks ago

London

Proud to be a short king. Height has never bothered me as long as you can get the angles right

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By *ntrigued888Woman
27 weeks ago

Herts, Beds & Bucks

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By *ntrigued888Woman
27 weeks ago

Herts, Beds & Bucks

I'm 5'3".

Taller guys(6')do get me more excited.

Tend to get thrown around more 🥰🥰🥰

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By *urry BlokeMan
27 weeks ago

Average male height in the UK in 2022 is 5ft9

Average male height on Fab in 2025 is '6ft1'

Go figure

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
27 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

"I'm 5'3".

Taller guys(6')do get me more excited.

Tend to get thrown around more 🥰🥰🥰"

6ft 8 would be definitely up there for you then

haha

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By *issBehavexxxWoman
27 weeks ago

essex

Unfortunately it does to me. I don’t know why it bothers me so much but I do like a taller guy. I think some of it is it makes me feel looked after if they’re bigger than me.

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By *ittyNCremeCouple
27 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

I went broad rather than tall but I have had partners over 6’ and they didn’t mind but each to their own.

Personally I’ve not really had an issue when I was a single gent on here

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

It does if you need to reach something Hugh up.

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By *B..Woman
27 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I prefer a taller man, I like to look up to a man for a kiss

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By *ftGuy81Man
18 weeks ago

Selkirk

Does for me lol Hard to find trouser and shoes lol xxx

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By *riel13Woman
18 weeks ago

Northampton

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By *oorman 2025Man
18 weeks ago

manchester

I prefer my ladies to be smaller than myself

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By *ark n kimCouple
18 weeks ago

Durham

As a tall lady I like tall men,but also broad men.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
18 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

My submissive side loves a pronounced height difference but being 5'1 it isn't hard to find men taller than me 😅 I do find women a similar height or smaller than me cute as fuck too.

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By *oorman 2025Man
18 weeks ago

manchester

"My submissive side loves a pronounced height difference but being 5'1 it isn't hard to find men taller than me 😅 I do find women a similar height or smaller than me cute as fuck too. "
perfect height for a good cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I’ve actually been told this morning that I’m too tall.. I’ve never had that before haha!

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By *aizyWoman
18 weeks ago

west midlands

I like em tall enough to climb

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Yes. Yes it does.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
18 weeks ago

Reading

"I’ve actually been told this morning that I’m too tall.. I’ve never had that before haha! "

I would say you're too tall for me too!

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By *estructionDollyWoman
18 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

"I’ve actually been told this morning that I’m too tall.. I’ve never had that before haha! "

I've been with someone who was 6'6 so almost a foot and a half difference. You can adapt to make things work, some stuff just won't ever happen unless you're cock is a foot long because of the difference in torso and limb length

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By *armandwet50Couple
18 weeks ago

Out of UK

Taller the better

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

While it's not a deal breaker if he's shorter, I do like a guy who's taller than me in my heels. It kind of makes me feel more petite (I'm not petite!), and feminine.

I'm 5ft11 in my stockings, 6ft2 in most of my heels. So I'm taller than a lot of men.

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By *avexxMan
18 weeks ago

cheshire

"While it's not a deal breaker if he's shorter, I do like a guy who's taller than me in my heels. It kind of makes me feel more petite (I'm not petite!), and feminine.

I'm 5ft11 in my stockings, 6ft2 in most of my heels. So I'm taller than a lot of men.

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... davina i would have to get on my tippy toes

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"While it's not a deal breaker if he's shorter, I do like a guy who's taller than me in my heels. It kind of makes me feel more petite (I'm not petite!), and feminine.

I'm 5ft11 in my stockings, 6ft2 in most of my heels. So I'm taller than a lot of men.

... davina i would have to get on my tippy toes

I could kneel... 😏

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By *avexxMan
18 weeks ago

cheshire

"While it's not a deal breaker if he's shorter, I do like a guy who's taller than me in my heels. It kind of makes me feel more petite (I'm not petite!), and feminine.

I'm 5ft11 in my stockings, 6ft2 in most of my heels. So I'm .. than a lot of men.

... davina i would have to get on my tippy toes

I could kneel... 😏"

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By *ooBulMan
18 weeks ago

SNottingham

Most women will prefer a man taller than her cos it's pre-disposed in her genetic make up. From what I remember it's a hunter gatherer strength thing & feeling safe... Ye? NO?

Just like us blocks like tits! Samething. The bigger the better...

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By *ooBulMan
18 weeks ago

SNottingham

blocks? meant "Blokes"... Oooops!!!

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By *ftGuy81Man
18 weeks ago

Selkirk

Jeez!! I’m 7ft in my shoes!! 6’11 bare feet, would seem I’m too tall for a few in here!!

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By *agic.MMan
18 weeks ago

Orpington

So...do we have a conclusive answer? 👀

I really need to know so I can appropriately lie about my height

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Jeez!! I’m 7ft in my shoes!! 6’11 bare feet, would seem I’m too tall for a few in here!!

😏💕

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By *illy IdolMan
18 weeks ago

Midlands

"So...do we have a conclusive answer? 👀

I really need to know so I can appropriately lie about my height "

Just say 6ft in shoes. They don't need to know which shoes.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
18 weeks ago

West Dublin

Yes it matters...to me anyway.

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
18 weeks ago

Midlothian

I don't give a fig about height, personally.

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By *uttercupWoman
18 weeks ago

Borders

My personal preference is a taller gentleman, but I wouldn't pass a good meet by with someone who isn't 7ft

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By *oveandfastWoman
18 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

"Doesn’t matter to me

Interestingly though clubs aside. It does matter to a lot of men, when they realise they have to look up to me, it's quite often a deal breaker..."

It absolutely matters more to some men- I always have that experience too 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

It matters as much as face, body, personality and penis.

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By *agic.MMan
18 weeks ago

Orpington

"So...do we have a conclusive answer? 👀

I really need to know so I can appropriately lie about my height

Just say 6ft in shoes. They don't need to know which shoes."

What a great machiavellian advice 😏👏 I approve 👌

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By *ooBulMan
18 weeks ago

SNottingham

Yes, there is FAB height & real man height......

Sadly I was truthfull about everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Weirdest thing about this question!!! Who the frig is measuring their self lol at are ages hahaha

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By *eroLondonMan
18 weeks ago

Mayfair

It always matters.

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By *midnight-Woman
18 weeks ago

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I like to be eye level or below when wearing heels.

When blindfolded I don't seem to have any preferences

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Being only 5ft 1 a guys height has never mattered a single jot to me. I've never met anyone small

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By *oorman 2025Man
18 weeks ago

manchester

"I like to be eye level or below when wearing heels.

When blindfolded I don't seem to have any preferences

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love this x

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By *uri00620Woman
18 weeks ago

Croydon

Average height in UK is 5"9. That's fine for me or a little taller.

Height, penis = average works for me

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By *vonne5exMan
18 weeks ago

Doncaster

"I tend to prefer women my height or shorter, for logistical reasons

but if they can do as they're told it doesn't matter all that much."
logistics are no problem, I'm 6' 4" and the ex is 4' 11"

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By *ggdrasil66Man
18 weeks ago

Saltdean

"Well it does on many theme park rides.

Mrs "

Yeah, I can’t get on them!

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By *inge84Woman
18 weeks ago

RCT

One of the first things I look at on a profile is height. I'm just over 5'9 so I like a tall guy. Meet a few that are the same height as me now but ideally over 6' for me!

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