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anyone else have their messages read and then unread?

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By *rrrMannnn122 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Walsall

sometimes it happens where you see your message read and then come back and it is then unread. is it a site glitch? 🤔🤔

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Northampton

We do it if only one has read the message. Acts as a reminder for the other to read

If it’s a definite no from one party it gets read and deleted immediately

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By *rrrMannnn122 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Walsall


"We do it if only one has read the message. Acts as a reminder for the other to read

If it’s a definite no from one party it gets read and deleted immediately "

oh I see i thought it was a glitch lol

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By *tagge_fyxeCouple
3 weeks ago

Yorkshire

We do the same - if one of us reads it first they mark it as unread so the other knows it’s a new message.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
3 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

As do we at times

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It means they've marked it as unread.

Sometimes it's because they intend to come back to it. Fairly common with couples or people that were just intending to scan through and clear out the obvious rubbish and read the good ones when they have the time and headspace without all the inbox clutter.

Or, more often, because they want to avoid the hassle of people getting angry that their message was read and ignored and hurling abuse, without the definitive fuck off vibe of just blocking someone.

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By *atman_and_PoisonIvyCouple
3 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

Seconded.. we do the same. As both of us read the messages.

If one reads it first, but the other hasn't.. everything is a joint decision with us so it helps keto the inbox tidy

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

I do it to remind myself to come back to the message if I don't have time to reply. Rare that happens though

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By *inkShyWoman
3 weeks ago

near Windsor

I set back to unread if I don't get a chance to reply, or need time to send a reply that's worthy of more effort.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West


"I set back to unread if I don't get a chance to reply, or need time to send a reply that's worthy of more effort. "

Yeah exactly, I think the OP is overthinking this to be honest.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West


"I set back to unread if I don't get a chance to reply, or need time to send a reply that's worthy of more effort.

Yeah exactly, I think the OP is overthinking this to be honest. "

Oh wait sorry OP you thought it was a glitch. Hahah. Sorry, no bottom like is it happens if people don't have time to reply so they mark unread and come back later

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By *B69Woman
3 weeks ago

Wiltshire


"I set back to unread if I don't get a chance to reply, or need time to send a reply that's worthy of more effort. "

I’m the same

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By *inkShyWoman
3 weeks ago

near Windsor


"I set back to unread if I don't get a chance to reply, or need time to send a reply that's worthy of more effort.

Yeah exactly, I think the OP is overthinking this to be honest. "

Overthinking/confused. I use it almost like a bookmark, or the equivalent!

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

The best advice op is to delete every message as soon as you send it and then you don't spend time checking if they have been read or not.

Much less stressful.

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By *is and hers 2024Couple
3 weeks ago

york

Same as this week don't always get time to read messages together

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By *obilebottomMan
3 weeks ago

All over

People do for various some of which have been shared. There are those and it's their perogative. There are a few though that read and then unread just because that's how they roll (pretend). That I must say is a bit weird but again is their inbox so up to them how they manage it.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
3 weeks ago

Durham

We sometimes read messages then mark them unread so that we can come back to them later and reply to them properly.

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