FabSwingers.com forum: Have you found what you were looking for?

By *inx000 OP Couple
5 weeks ago

Manchester

Since joining fab has anyone found what they were looking for and felt the need to stop searching for anything more wether that be a fwb or a poly partner etc or have you found love from fab but the relationship stays non monogamous as there are still different experiences you would both like to try either separately or together?

Or have you fell in love with someone from fab and decided to make a go of it as a monogamous relationship and do not see other people but still remain on fab for the forums and social side of things?

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By *olden PoleMan
5 weeks ago

London

Still looking but I’m enjoying the journey. I’m sure there’s someone out there who’s looking just like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Found more than I expected

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By *exxyyDy11Man
5 weeks ago

North West

Sadly no I haven't found what I'm looking for, I mean I've met a few people since my time on here. And really compared to a lot, I'm doing quite well. However, I've been let down too many times recently and it has kind of put a right downer on things. But I will keep myself preoccupied on the forums and chatting to friends in the meantime.

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By *zz555Man
5 weeks ago

Lancashire

Im still hunting around i havent found the real connection that i could feel with anyone its mostly just a quick fun and thats it

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
5 weeks ago

The Continental

Not yet.

I’m still waiting for another piccalilli lover.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
5 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Not yet, but just about to move & found a few options 😏

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"Not yet.

I’m still waiting for another piccalilli lover."

OMG

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By *hagTonightMan
5 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

No. I havent found mrs shag yet.

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By *ife NinjaMan
5 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Still looking

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By *naswingdressWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, temporarily.

At the moment it eludes me

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By *itty N CremeCouple
5 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Yes, we met one another via fab and it’s like it was just meant to be!!

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
5 weeks ago

The Continental

"Not yet.

I’m still waiting for another piccalilli lover.

OMG"

You dig piccalilli?

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By *J75Man
5 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent

"Since joining fab has anyone found what they were looking for and felt the need to stop searching for anything more wether that be a fwb or a poly partner etc or have you found love from fab but the relationship stays non monogamous as there are still different experiences you would both like to try either separately or together?

As a relative Newby, this is exactly what I'm looking for after coming out of a 30+ yr relationship. I'm not ready or really interested in jumping into anything serious anytime soon, and this is currently giving me exactly what I am looking for, meeting new people and having new experiences, some I will like and do again, others I may give a try and think that's not for me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I joined many years ago so I could see what was on at the clubs, and fab continues to provide that.

I've also met some wonderful people. Two of my favourite people probably wouldn't be my people if it wasn't for fab.

It does what I wanted it to and more 💜

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By *ensuallover1000Man
5 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Not yet.

I’m still waiting for another piccalilli lover."

And just like that, I have suddenly, just found what I am looking for! 😍😍😍😜

Piccallili - Condiment of the Gods! 👍🏻🥰

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By *ony MannMan
5 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal// Andover

I've found what I'm looking for, but I'm keeping one. She has become the other half of BiFruityCouple and we are set to find what we are looking for together.

If you are in the West Country bi and a couple you may be what we are looking for.

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By *a1970Man
5 weeks ago

East cork

Still looking for a nice male, female couple that let me join them now and then for a mfm 3sum. The journey is great and chatting with some fantastic people

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
5 weeks ago

Swansea

We weren't looking for anything more than NSA sex, and then we met for a social. I hadn't seen pics other than his torso but we had chatted a lot on the phone. I enjoyed the thrill of not knowing what he looked like. I was greeted by the most friendly and sexy man - my ovaries instantly rattled!

We sat in my car outside a coffee shop to say hello, I took the lead and told him that he could kiss me and then I told him we weren't going to have coffee and he should follow me home.

8.5 years later we are happily married and enjoy swinging when the desire takes our fancy.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"Not yet.

I’m still waiting for another piccalilli lover.

OMG

You dig piccalilli?

Hell yes! With super strong cheese. Crusty bread. I may well cum in my knickers.

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 weeks ago

Springfield

Fab finally convinced me it was OK to love myself and its now a committed life long relationship.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
5 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Sometimes people unexpectedly enter our lives that completely meet our ideal of a partner even if we weren't specifically searching.

It's a wonderful thing 😊

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 weeks ago

Reading

😂 no.

I asked the person I’d like to be my FWB what we are recently and he legit said he’s more of an ‘emergency orgasm reliever’

Excuse me while I go launch myself out of a very tall window.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"😂 no.

I asked the person I’d like to be my FWB what we are recently and he legit said he’s more of an ‘emergency orgasm reliever’

Excuse me while I go launch myself out of a very tall window. "

Oh good lord! What a nobber

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
5 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm not here searching for the holy grail. I'm here to inject some fun she sexy times into my life. So I guess yes and yet still looking

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
5 weeks ago

Maidstone

"I'm not here searching for the holy grail. I'm here to inject some fun she sexy times into my life. So I guess yes and yet still looking"

*and... not she!

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
5 weeks ago

Ends

"I'm not here searching for the holy grail. I'm here to inject some fun she sexy times into my life. So I guess yes and yet still looking"
same babe. Same.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
5 weeks ago

Ends

I found some special people.

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By *naswingdressWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I found some special people. "

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By *illy IdolMan
5 weeks ago

Midlands

I was never looking for anything specific, but I'm very content with my current situation. I'm now just here to enjoy the forums and keep in touch with friends I've made since joining Fab.

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By *osseffMan
5 weeks ago

All over devon, I love a road trip!

I found the woman of my dreams, my perfect woman. Didn't even see her coming. An absolute unicorn. For me. It turned into 'the' most amazing experience of my life. I fell hopelessly in love.

There were some external factors that became difficult to overcome and We had to end our little relationship. it still makes me sad today. Its a dangerous game sometimes...

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
5 weeks ago

The Continental

"Not yet.

I’m still waiting for another piccalilli lover.

OMG

You dig piccalilli?

Hell yes! With super strong cheese. Crusty bread. I may well cum in my knickers."

Ooft!

I’ve found me a keeper.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"Not yet.

I’m still waiting for another piccalilli lover.

OMG

You dig piccalilli?

Hell yes! With super strong cheese. Crusty bread. I may well cum in my knickers.

Ooft!

I’ve found me a keeper."

🥰

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"I found some special people. "

Me too x

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By *ergus1622Man
5 weeks ago

Dundee

I am not long joined again so still looking and hopefully will find someone who we can tick each other's boxes

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By *ell GwynnWoman
5 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I've found what I was looking for, so now I'm no longer looking 👀

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Not yet...lol

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By *riar BelisseWoman
5 weeks ago

On Holibobs

Yep 🥰

I stopped looking 18 months ago and Ive found some more time to indulge in my bdsm

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By *enelope2UWoman
5 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Yes had a great thing for about 7 months he fully understood what swinging is and what a fwb means as well as what a play partner does... unfortunately he forgot all those terms and actions and I replaced him..so now the search continues but until then I will keep the bench warm till the star player arrives again

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By *sWyldWoman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I never know what I'm looking for..

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By *cottish guy 555Man
5 weeks ago

London

"No. I havent found mrs shag yet."

Maybe you will meet as you both go for the same bag of haribo on the shelf one Friday. Your eyes will meet and your hearts will flutter.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
5 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I thought I had but it seems not unfortunately, my search continues.....

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
5 weeks ago

Hampshire

I found love on fab. Wasn't expecting it and it took a couple of false starts moving from fwbs to a relationship. We were monogamous for 6 years and now we fab together (and I do alone) xx

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By *aitonelMan
5 weeks ago

Liverpool

Yes! But they keep ignoring and avoiding me, making me have to find them again. It's a lot of effort!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
5 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Nope not found what I'm looking for... People I like don't reciprocate so I am mostly on here still for the forum and the socials 🤷

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By *a1970Man
5 weeks ago

East cork

Found some very interesting easy going people

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By *iss.BellaWoman
5 weeks ago

Wales

Possibly. We'll see.

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By *he ShivsCouple
5 weeks ago

Fife

Umm…no.

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By *xfordjohnMan
5 weeks ago

Oxford

Yes, I can say I found what I was looking for - an nice couple for mmf to meet regularly and explore that dynamic but after five years of great sex, They've split up for other reasons, so I'm back on the path again, and to be honest, not very hopeful at my age.

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By *oeBeansMan
5 weeks ago

Derby

I keep searching. And I can't seem to find what I'm wanting. It's changing all the time and if you noticed a different side of mine...

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By *inglenottsMan
5 weeks ago

derby

But I still haven’t found what I’m looking for

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By *eavenscentitCouple
5 weeks ago

barnstaple

Yes, and it's not my fwb. Ms

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By *ists003Man
5 weeks ago

London

Good question... I just wanted a simple fwb that I can meet each month, go for a few drinks in a bar before getting frisky....

A simple request but I underestimated I'm competing against another 500 guys to achieve the same thing.

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By *ists003Man
5 weeks ago

London

So the point is no I haven't had any success

"Good question... I just wanted a simple fwb that I can meet each month, go for a few drinks in a bar before getting frisky....

A simple request but I underestimated I'm competing against another 500 guys to achieve the same thing."

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By *eren777Woman
5 weeks ago

Mid/West Wales

Found THE most incredible fwb.. 3 years ago and still cannot get enough of each other!

Thank you Fab!

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

I thought I did a few years ago...turned out I didn't. Decided now that I would like a few friends with benefits (only used to see 1 at a time) but realised life is to short and for living x

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

I think I've found what I'm looking for. Sustaining it is another matter because of the distance. I need something beyond the ephemeral, something more long lasting and fulfilling.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
5 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

we met on here...

we got married, during lock down...

still meeting others - always together.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
5 weeks ago

Durham

I did so much find the most irritatingly, sexy woman here on fab. We met once week for over three years pre-covid.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
5 weeks ago

Durham

Certainly found some of what we're looking for but unfortunately so difficult to find the illusive genuine bi lady who meets other ladies for FF only fun.

They always insist on their man being there too

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By *exyScientistsCouple
5 weeks ago

Castlebar

Not yet, ever hopeful 😊

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By *ickedtiesWoman
5 weeks ago

limerick

I found what I wasnt looking for but happy I found it ☺️

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By *ora the explorerWoman
5 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I have climbed highest mountains. I have run through the fields

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By *ark_KnightsMan
5 weeks ago

london

The D/S dynamic has many hurdles and obstacles to navigate but it will be worth it I tell myself

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 weeks ago

Springfield

"I have climbed highest mountains. I have run through the fields "

Edgey

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By *ripfillMan
5 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

I have found what I am looking for - an alternative to my previous life …

Building friendships and being part of a more inclusive community, with non judgemental attitudes with openness, there are definitely people to thank x for me getting this far

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By *ora the explorerWoman
5 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I have climbed highest mountains. I have run through the fields

Edgey"

Totally naked too

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
5 weeks ago

hot wife

Yes we have

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By *entleman JayMan
5 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’ve met lovely people. Some of them naughty and some of them nice.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
5 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

At some point in my 17 years here...all of the above. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ittleMissMinionWoman
5 weeks ago

La La Land

Nope, I'm just too greedy

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By *mf123Man
5 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Once upon a time a hit the stars theres no beating what was i made some great mates had an epic love became the greatest fuck in the universe there aint no repeating that so im content with living in real life and not chasing highs

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By *rNightMan
5 weeks ago

Coventry

Yes but it wasn’t looking for me

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By *hagTonightMan
5 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"No. I havent found mrs shag yet.

Maybe you will meet as you both go for the same bag of haribo on the shelf one Friday. Your eyes will meet and your hearts will flutter.

"
Yes, maybe that too

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By *amin1983Man
5 weeks ago

Kings lynn

Still looking here

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

Found a lot of fun , we’d definitely love to find our third woman to meet regularly or develop into something more serious, we’d also love to meet more likeminded couples that we can build a friendship with x

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By *quirtyandflirty73Couple
5 weeks ago

hebden bridge

We found each other 2 years ago and since then a whole lot of fun and adventure. Alot of ups, some downs but we stayed strong and talked and talked! Communication is key......and a nice pair of boobs and a nice willy help x

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By *lossomTreeWoman
5 weeks ago

Ipswich

Been here 18 months, my first 6/8 months were great, ever since then it's been such a struggle I'm questioning whether Fab is for me, I'm barely getting anywhere despite trying so maybe I'd be happier giving up. Sad but true.

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By *lossomTreeWoman
5 weeks ago

Ipswich

I started off looking to explore (achieved) and have plenty of sex which is the only thing that keeps me happy as a single person (not achieving and haven't for a while).

I've now decided I'd really like a relationship again, someone to carry on Fabbing with a partner in life by day and a partner in crime by night.

Definitely not achieved that one I turn on single guys occasionally, either no one that interests me or I get abuse for deleting messages unread.

I've met some wonderful people that I consider good friends who have enhanced my life which is absolutely lovely, but that isn't what I am here for

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By *ot so needyMan
5 weeks ago

Galway

"I found what I wasnt looking for but happy I found it ☺️ "

I wasn't looking either but so glad now 😊

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By *zz555Man
5 weeks ago

Lancashire

Hii i wpuld love to meet you since your from manchester lol x

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By *HUSH-Man
5 weeks ago

London

Overall FAB has been good to me. Once I got verified I got a noticeable uptick in interest here. I’ve made a friend on FAB who I talk with on a regular basis. I think finding the type of person/people is the key. I know what I’m looking for now which makes things easier for me.

It’s a learning curve though. You have to be able to deal with a lot of flaky people. My enthusiasm comes and goes but that’s perfectly normal.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
5 weeks ago

hexham

No!

I haven’t found what I am looking for.

Those “next weeks Euromillions numbers” have proved damned elusive and impossible to find.

I shall keep on looking though

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