FabSwingers.com forum: Approached in public

By *eanB31 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

So I've been approached in public by wife's, girlfriend's, fiancé's and even friends of the person ive linked up with from here, calling me out for being a terrible person.

Should I feel shame and regret or should the blame land on the person ive linked up with.

Cause sometimes I don't feel anything and other times I feel sick to my stomach.

Thought's?

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

How do they know you?

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By *eanB31 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

"How do they know you?"

Some find out or they are open on what they have done.

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By *urry BlokeMan
3 weeks ago

Stalybridge

And are you a terrible person?

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By *eanB31 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

"And are you a terrible person?"

Nah I like to think I'm a good person and I'm not the one cheating, if they mgs me should I just outright blank it or let it happen

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By *urry BlokeMan
3 weeks ago

Stalybridge

"And are you a terrible person?

Nah I like to think I'm a good person and I'm not the one cheating, if they mgs me should I just outright blank it or let it happen"

I don't know who you're meeting, but something isn't right

I've met literally hundreds of people over the years and not once have I had to deal with a partner, spouse or friend of one of them

As far as I'm concerned, whatever goes on between me and someone I chat with or meet, is strictly between us - it's no one else's business

So, yeah, maybe some discretion on who you are engaging with is needed

Filters are there to be used

If you're chatting with or meeting with guys who can't keep things to themselves and this is happening consistently, then you need to shoulder some of the responsibility

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By *eanB31 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

"And are you a terrible person?

Nah I like to think I'm a good person and I'm not the one cheating, if they mgs me should I just outright blank it or let it happen

I don't know who you're meeting, but something isn't right

I've met literally hundreds of people over the years and not once have I had to deal with a partner, spouse or friend of one of them

As far as I'm concerned, whatever goes on between me and someone I chat with or meet, is strictly between us - it's no one else's business

So, yeah, maybe some discretion on who you are engaging with is needed

Filters are there to be used

If you're chatting with or meeting with guys who can't keep things to themselves and this is happening consistently, then you need to shoulder some of the responsibility "

Yeah I get what your saying I should be more careful who I'm meeting. Thanks

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

This why I don't go with attached people. Way too much drama.

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By *innamon_flameWoman
3 weeks ago

london

If you meet someone from here then it's fair game. According to every other profile that messages me "we all know what we are here for" after all

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a risk, particularly with a public face picture. One reason why I wouldn't do that

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I think if you're knowingly meeting attached people, then you do have to accept that this will have consequences.Ie partners finding out and being angry, as you're very identifiable on here.

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By *eanB31 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I think if you're knowingly meeting attached people, then you do have to accept that this will have consequences.Ie partners finding out and being angry, as you're very identifiable on here. "

True

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

How many times has this happened?

It's not fair that this is happening to you, although you've enabled cheating the primary responsibility is on the person who has a partner.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

You're an adult and you can do what you want with other consenting adults.

If you're knowingly assisting someone in hurting and betraying another, it's not unreasonable that sometimes that will come back on you.

It's a choice you make.

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