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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

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When you’ve faked an orgasm, what was the reason for it?

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By *ickshawedCouple
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I've never done it. The closest I got was when I first slept with a new boyfriend and he asked afterwards if I'd cum. I sort of shook my head and he took it to mean I'd cum twice. He seemed so thrilled with himself I didn't like to tell him the truth

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"I've never done it. The closest I got was when I first slept with a new boyfriend and he asked afterwards if I'd cum. I sort of shook my head and he took it to mean I'd cum twice. He seemed so thrilled with himself I didn't like to tell him the truth

Ouch.

You nodded twice, no shake.

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By *on_departCouple
3 weeks ago

West Midlands

If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.

Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better.

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

My first serious boyfriend told me to, to stroke his ego.

Haven't done it apart from that.

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By *ummerSun_1Woman
3 weeks ago

York

I don't do it.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

Only when I was younger and through the inexperience of having open, honest conversation and/or an understanding of my own body. I'm not a very good actress though so I would have assumed he knew I faked it. Afterwards conversation would indicate that men like to believe what they want to believe.

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Not for years but yeah back then to get it over with when I knew I wasn’t going to cum and I’d got bored of him scratching at my left labia like he was a DJ in Ibiza

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Only when I was younger and through the inexperience of having open, honest conversation and/or an understanding of my own body. I'm not a very good actress though so I would have assumed he knew I faked it. Afterwards conversation would indicate that men like to believe what they want to believe."

I suspect that my ex should have known I was faking it, had he been paying attention to anything other than himself.

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By *ookie46Woman
3 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I don’t fake them

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By *ummerSun_1Woman
3 weeks ago

York

"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.

Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better."

These are the reasons I hear from friends outside of fab. And I might not give feedback unless I get super safe to, but I'd also not pretend I enjoyed it more than I did.

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.

Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better.

These are the reasons I hear from friends outside of fab. And I might not give feedback unless I get super safe to, but I'd also not pretend I enjoyed it more than I did. "

Yeah, feedback is risky. Even after you feel safe enough to be with someone, there's still a chance they'd throw a tantrum if you're honest with them.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.

Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better."

I wondered if it was actually because they just want it to end

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.

Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better.

I wondered if it was actually because they just want it to end"

That and in the case of my ex, it wouldn’t have been safe to tell him the cold truth

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.

Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better.

I wondered if it was actually because they just want it to end

That and in the case of my ex, it wouldn’t have been safe to tell him the cold truth "

Ah. Men. So lovely.

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By *ummerSun_1Woman
3 weeks ago

York

"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.

Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better.

I wondered if it was actually because they just want it to end"

Is it technique or the ability to care to find what works for that person/ take the time to do it?

I think what women / men need to cum is subjective and vastly varied.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
3 weeks ago

Lake District

I used to sometimes when having sex with my ex.

He may have been blessed with a large appendage, but he took that as "job done" and was, quite frankly, absolutely awful at sex.

C xoxo

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.

Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better.

I wondered if it was actually because they just want it to end

Is it technique or the ability to care to find what works for that person/ take the time to do it?

I think what women / men need to cum is subjective and vastly varied. "

I don’t know. I don’t know why people fake orgasm that’s why I’m asking I guess

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By *ummerSun_1Woman
3 weeks ago

York

I couldn't criticise someone's technique as others may love it. I would want a partner to take the time to learn my body / get me off, however as that's what I would be doing for them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I used to sometimes when having sex with my ex.

He may have been blessed with a large appendage, but he took that as "job done" and was, quite frankly, absolutely awful at sex.

C xoxo"

I do find it's those with the biggest appendages who worry least about technique.

I mean yeah, it can work. It can also be straight into cervix battering and becoming too familiar with the contents of my stomach.

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By *viatrixWoman
3 weeks ago

Redhill

My attention span is extremely short- I get bored very, very easily, no matter how good and/or exciting the activity is.

And I seek very quick gratification- I can orgasm quickly and many times within minutes, if stimulated correctly and if I am very attracted to my partner. To me “fucking for hours/all night” seems to be my idea of hell. So yeah, I may fake some more if I’ve had enough and just want to go to sleep 😂😂😂😂

Only exception is my FWB- it can be hours and hours, night after night with him and I never get bored. 😍

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By *endalshaggersCouple
3 weeks ago

Lake District

"I used to sometimes when having sex with my ex.

He may have been blessed with a large appendage, but he took that as "job done" and was, quite frankly, absolutely awful at sex.

C xoxo

I do find it's those with the biggest appendages who worry least about technique.

I mean yeah, it can work. It can also be straight into cervix battering and becoming too familiar with the contents of my stomach."

That was pretty much his way of thinking - it's big, I don't have to do anything other than batter it inside her.

Which was great for him, but I got barely any pleasure from it and hints/tips etc weren't acted upon.

Therefore I'm not a believer in "size matters" - it's how you use it!

C xoxo

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I used to sometimes when having sex with my ex.

He may have been blessed with a large appendage, but he took that as "job done" and was, quite frankly, absolutely awful at sex.

C xoxo

I do find it's those with the biggest appendages who worry least about technique.

I mean yeah, it can work. It can also be straight into cervix battering and becoming too familiar with the contents of my stomach.

That was pretty much his way of thinking - it's big, I don't have to do anything other than batter it inside her.

Which was great for him, but I got barely any pleasure from it and hints/tips etc weren't acted upon.

Therefore I'm not a believer in "size matters" - it's how you use it!

C xoxo"

Agreed. Guys with less appendage have to think about it and are less likely to hurt you.

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By *on_departCouple
3 weeks ago

West Midlands

Is it technique or the ability to care to find what works for that person/ take the time to do it?

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I'll back that....I would rather a woman didn't fake it and tell me the truth. Some women are massively different to others in what turns them on and what they like sexually, so knowing that you are not flicking their switch gives you the chance to try something different (or just put more effort in ha ha).

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By *nya NeesWoman
3 weeks ago

Brum

Never done it

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"I'll back that....I would rather a woman didn't fake it and tell me the truth. Some women are massively different to others in what turns them on and what they like sexually, so knowing that you are not flicking their switch gives you the chance to try something different (or just put more effort in ha ha)."

Totally agree with this.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

I've never faked an orgasm I don't see the point 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
3 weeks ago

Reading

"When you’ve faked an orgasm, what was the reason for it?

https://youtu.be/0PewiUobfpU?si=-pZJvXxy-H9eeKRR

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By *cottish guy 555Man
3 weeks ago

London

"I don’t fake them "

But do you have them? Or is it just how the cookie crumbles?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

To keep the producer happy and get to the end if the days filming

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

"When you’ve faked an orgasm, what was the reason for it?

https://youtu.be/0PewiUobfpU?si=-pZJvXxy-H9eeKRR

Wow blast from the past that. Thanks for sharing.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
3 weeks ago

your head

I was bored, the sex was crap, couldn't be arsed with the questions/conversation/arguments that would have ensued if I admitted there was no way he was going to make me cum.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
3 weeks ago

On Holibobs

Because all he wanted to do was fuck me and make me cum his way. So I took the Harry met Sally method over an argument

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By *hunky GentMan
3 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Because all he wanted to do was fuck me and make me cum his way. So I took the Harry met Sally method over an argument "

Now I'm imagining you in morrisons cafe having a sausage butty. 😆 🤣

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

Never have.

I just fess up and say it's not gonna happen

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By *meliaeWoman
3 weeks ago

Chester

When I was much younger - knew it wasn’t going to happen from what was going on, but he was expecting it, plus I was getting bored and wanted to hurry things up.

Wish I could give that girl a hug.

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By *hunky GentMan
3 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've faked a few in my time.

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By *adam PadamWoman
3 weeks ago

leeds

I have done on a few occasions when they just couldn't find it and I got bored.

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
3 weeks ago

Reading

"When you’ve faked an orgasm, what was the reason for it?

https://youtu.be/0PewiUobfpU?si=-pZJvXxy-H9eeKRR

Wow blast from the past that. Thanks for sharing. "

Their facial expressions make the sketch.....

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
3 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

Either to save his feelings or to let the sex finish peaceful (without his getting upset and having to talk it ask through and comfort him)

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By *cLovin2Man
3 weeks ago

Reading

There's only one time I know for sure a woman was faking it with me, but I just let her. As I guessed she wanted to sleep.

Usually I can tell most of the time, I think! But you never really know do you? 🤔

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It meant it would be over sooner.

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By *emonochromeMan
3 weeks ago

Peterborough

I was on antidepressants and didn’t want her to think it was her fault I couldn’t cum

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West

"It meant it would be over sooner."

Yeah this. But a loooooong ass fucking time ago.

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By *edSirenWoman
3 weeks ago

Leighton Buzzard

Can’t say I’ve ever faked one. But I think guys think I have. Im a bit of a gusher 😁 and while it happens more so than the average, okay a lot 😅 it’s not every single time I cum. Doesn’t make the orgasm any less intense, but when a standard has been set some guys struggle to understand that.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
3 weeks ago

Maidstone

Yes. I was tired and bored.

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By *apinMan
3 weeks ago

London

Why just the women? Men fake too

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By *exySiren01Woman
3 weeks ago

RCT

Never faked one, I don't see the point. If he's not hitting the spot I'll just intervene and give a helping hand

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