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By *nglish Rose OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

leicester

I try to reply to messages as much as I can, but I’m really overwhelmed with how many messages I get from you guys. You do appreciate what a nice bum I’ve got but sometimes some do slip by and I don’t reply. I’m sorry there is one guy on here really upset because I didn’t chat to him so much. It’s really upset me the girls not interested. Can you just leave it at that? Most of you guys say thanks for answering me and take it as that you guys are great 💋🌹

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By *mmaleiaWoman
5 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Account

Message filters

Cross them all out

Look for what you want

Makes life so much better

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By *rX2024123Man
5 weeks ago

Rotherfield

Don't worry about it too much, use the block facility & move on.

I'd imagine there are some really odd people on here messaging ladies!

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By *anonfire96Man
5 weeks ago

Mansfield

Hey the last thing you need is to be upset by someone. It's supposed to be a happy care free swingers site. He should be glad you actually replied at all. Don't get upset just block and carry on . Have a lovely time on fab forget the small number of idiots who spoil it for the rest.

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By *naswingdressWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Several years ago I conducted an experiment.

For one week, I responded to all messages that weren't blatantly abusive. Something like "no thanks, but best of luck to you, happy Fabbing"

For the next week, I deleted without reply except when I was potentially interested.

The amount of abuse I got in the first week was overwhelmingly more than in the second week. (Not to mention the pleading, the nagging, etc etc. Some people are only biologically mature enough to be here)

Take from that what you will.

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By *anonfire96Man
5 weeks ago

Mansfield

Just keep reading that lovely verification you have and realise your a nice person, he isn't.

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By *nglish Rose OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

leicester

Thank you x

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By *nglish Rose OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

leicester

Thank you x

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By *nglish Rose OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

leicester

Thank you x

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By *nglish Rose OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

leicester

Thank you x

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By *rX2024123Man
5 weeks ago

Rotherfield


"Several years ago I conducted an experiment.

For one week, I responded to all messages that weren't blatantly abusive. Something like "no thanks, but best of luck to you, happy Fabbing"

For the next week, I deleted without reply except when I was potentially interested.

The amount of abuse I got in the first week was overwhelmingly more than in the second week. (Not to mention the pleading, the nagging, etc etc. Some people are only biologically mature enough to be here)

Take from that what you will."

I've had similar messages to the one you sent, I always replied 'no worries but thanks at least for the response', basic human decency. Some on here are missing that.

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By *nglish Rose OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

leicester

Yes so true x

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By *naswingdressWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Several years ago I conducted an experiment.

For one week, I responded to all messages that weren't blatantly abusive. Something like "no thanks, but best of luck to you, happy Fabbing"

For the next week, I deleted without reply except when I was potentially interested.

The amount of abuse I got in the first week was overwhelmingly more than in the second week. (Not to mention the pleading, the nagging, etc etc. Some people are only biologically mature enough to be here)

Take from that what you will.

I've had similar messages to the one you sent, I always replied 'no worries but thanks at least for the response', basic human decency. Some on here are missing that."

The reason why I no longer send those messages is because I want to reduce the amount of abuse I get. It's not personal. I can't know who is going to throw their toys out of the pram, you know?

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By *a LunaWoman
5 weeks ago

South Wales

You need to use your filters and block.

You also need to not name and shame in your status.

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

I would delete your status or you could end up with a ban!

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By *nglish Rose OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

leicester

Yes will do

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It's people like that which give the rest of us a bad name.

I'm no saint, but come on guys, grow up.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
5 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Just use your filters

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