FabSwingers.com forum: Someone you work with

By *inkyguyforfun OP Man
3 weeks ago

Bishop’s Stortford

So I started a new job recently and quickly found someone I work with on a dating/ hookup app. What would you guys do, should I say hello or just ignore? For context I am a straight presenting guy at work but this was a gay app and I am bi.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

Discretion is the better part of valour.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

Ignore

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
3 weeks ago

Pontypool

Big no no

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By *ustAnotherMan
3 weeks ago

Mids

Neer defecate wherest though live

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

Do it. The career will still be there, the opportunity and thrill of shagging a fellow colleague while hiding your true sexuality will not

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By *ampireLoveMan
3 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol

Absolutely not. Ignore and just flirt with him at work instead! Actually, do you like him? If not, ignore the flirting. Either way, still a no!

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By *inkyguyforfun OP Man
3 weeks ago

Bishop’s Stortford

"Absolutely not. Ignore and just flirt with him at work instead! Actually, do you like him? If not, ignore the flirting. Either way, still a no! "

Ha ha, he's not my typical type but also I wouldn't say no, hence a bit of a dilemma. General consensus seems to be don't mix business with pleasure

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Don't shit where you eat

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By *ampireLoveMan
3 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol

"Don't shit where you eat"

Or eat where you shit!

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By *ir-March-a-lotMan
3 weeks ago

london

"Don't shit where you eat"

This is what I was about to say

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Absolutely not. Ignore and just flirt with him at work instead! Actually, do you like him? If not, ignore the flirting. Either way, still a no!

Ha ha, he's not my typical type but also I wouldn't say no, hence a bit of a dilemma. General consensus seems to be don't mix business with pleasure "

What is your actual dilemma?

To pursue or not someone you work with, who may not appreciate being pursued by a colleague even if the attraction is mutual?

If so think this through to all the possible outcomes and consider if the worst of them is worth it.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
3 weeks ago

walsall

"Don't shit where you eat

This is what I was about to say"

Why would you compare having sex with someone and defecating in your dining room?

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By *mf123Man
3 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Theres a phrase about beezwax and jizms i think

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By *egasus NobMan
3 weeks ago

Wandsworth

Just ignore it, but you could ask how their weekend was or if anything interesting happened. If they feel comfortable, they might open up otherwise, just leave it be.

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

What’s the phrase? Don’t dip your pen in the company ink.

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By *irty-pairCouple
3 weeks ago

Essex

Just walk on by…

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