FabSwingers.com forum: Right time to message?

By *BWHunter OP Man
24 weeks ago

London

After reading a profile have you ever thought “I need to get this initial message right!” ????

This is my second account and felt this way for months about an account. I’ve chosen not to message for now. Anyone else felt this way?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
24 weeks ago

North West

I sometimes overthink messages and think to myself, nah this message is rubbish and they won't read it anyway. So I delete and don't bother. I've been biting the bullet lately though, just send a good message, if they reply, great. And if not, not the end of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

16.32 on a Thursday, optimal pussy time.

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By *BWHunter OP Man
24 weeks ago

London

"I sometimes overthink messages and think to myself, nah this message is rubbish and they won't read it anyway. So I delete and don't bother. I've been biting the bullet lately though, just send a good message, if they reply, great. And if not, not the end of the world. "

I’m definitely overthinking it! Thanks bro

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By *BWHunter OP Man
24 weeks ago

London

"16.32 on a Thursday, optimal pussy time."

Added a weekly alarm in my calendar! Thanks

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
24 weeks ago

Reading

I don't often send the first message but when I do, no I don't think I do overthink it.

If there's enough there for me to want to message them first I usually just talk about what it is that appealed about their profile and ask the questions that I would love to know more about. I don't have a huge success rate on reply messages but we're not all for everyone. I'd say just do it. What's the worst that can happen?

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By *uffin and JamCouple
24 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Overthinking

Procrastination

Then the inevitable do nothing status quo

Yep been their live that

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"After reading a profile have you ever thought “I need to get this initial message right!” ????

This is my second account and felt this way for months about an account. I’ve chosen not to message for now. Anyone else felt this way? "

No point you could write the best fucking message you can thjnk of changes are she won't ever see it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"16.32 on a Thursday, optimal pussy time."

Making a note of this 📋

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