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By *anttoswing OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Eddlesborough

I was having a great flirt with a new couple this morning (with the wife), great profile and verifications and all seemed really genuine.

Everything was going really well until I let her know I had to jump in the shower but I'd be back in a bit to continue the flirting. When I got back I found two messages, "how would you treat hubby" and "what does your cock look like". A bit more forward than our previous messages but when I tried to reply I'd been blocked!

I'm just sharing because

1. I'm gutted as they were really lovely and we got on so well, but also

2. Has anyone else had this?!

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By *ustAnotherMan
3 weeks ago

Mids

I think trying to understand leads to madness. Maybe a misunderstanding but you'll never know, just let it go and move on.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
3 weeks ago

Swansea

You were possibly flirting with the husband as he pretended to be the wife. Then he finished his wank whilst you showered and your services were no longer required.

Mrs

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By *he National ThrustMan
3 weeks ago

West Sussex


"You were possibly flirting with the husband as he pretended to be the wife. Then he finished his wank whilst you showered and your services were no longer required.

Mrs"

This....

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By *ast Lothian couple 888Couple
3 weeks ago

east lothian


"I was having a great flirt with a new couple this morning (with the wife), great profile and verifications and all seemed really genuine.

Everything was going really well until I let her know I had to jump in the shower but I'd be back in a bit to continue the flirting. When I got back I found two messages, "how would you treat hubby" and "what does your cock look like". A bit more forward than our previous messages but when I tried to reply I'd been blocked! From our experience you were more likely to be chatting with a man majority of couples on here seem to be fake or full of shite

I'm just sharing because

1. I'm gutted as they were really lovely and we got on so well, but also

2. Has anyone else had this?!"

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By *anttoswing OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Eddlesborough

Ok it seems a pretty strong consensus it was the husband I was talking to!

I just didn't think that would be the case where there are multiple verifications but maybe I'm being naive!

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By *ildTimes.Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester/London


"You were possibly flirting with the husband as he pretended to be the wife. Then he finished his wank whilst you showered and your services were no longer required.

Mrs"

This! 😂😂😂

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
3 weeks ago

The Continental

Verifications aren’t necessarily real ones.

He came and went.

Post nut clarity at work.

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By *ast Lothian couple 888Couple
3 weeks ago

east lothian


"Ok it seems a pretty strong consensus it was the husband I was talking to!

I just didn't think that would be the case where there are multiple verifications but maybe I'm being naive!"
verifications don’t seem to mean anything we’ve had loads of messages from supposedly couples but only one couple has taken us up on a video call and they were a very nice genuine couple the majority have turned out to be layers thats full of shit

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By *illy IdolMan
3 weeks ago

Midlands


"Ok it seems a pretty strong consensus it was the husband I was talking to!

I just didn't think that would be the case where there are multiple verifications but maybe I'm being naive!"

They're probably a genuine couple. I imagine the husband hides this kind of behaviour from his wife by blocking and deleting the messages

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Ok it seems a pretty strong consensus it was the husband I was talking to!

I just didn't think that would be the case where there are multiple verifications but maybe I'm being naive!"

I can't say if it was the guy or not but the sudden switch in the nature of the questions then the block make it a possibility.

They might meet together though hence the verifications. Have the messages been deleted?

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By *orksRockerMan
3 weeks ago

Bradford

Fab is extremely fickle. This happens alot and even from people who you've met and hung out with for years. For reasons unknown, some just decide they don't want to chat to you anymore and block or make some crap excuse to justify the block. You think they are friends but really aren't.

The only people that have ever blocked my number are fab friends. Friends I've met in the world outside of fab don't block, you just don't talk as much because life moves on and you don't interact as much as you once did.

Don't take it to heart, it's annoying but part of the new 🌎 we live in.

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By *hesubtlegentMan
3 weeks ago

surrey

I’ve had chats with ‘couples’ then quickly realised it’s the hubby trying to get off.. they get blocked and deleted.

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By *tsMattyHMan
3 weeks ago

Inverurie

More than likely a fake profile. I've been caught out a few times so pretty well versed at spotting them now.

Let it slide and onto speaking to other folks my man

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By *anttoswing OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Eddlesborough


"Ok it seems a pretty strong consensus it was the husband I was talking to!

I just didn't think that would be the case where there are multiple verifications but maybe I'm being naive!

I can't say if it was the guy or not but the sudden switch in the nature of the questions then the block make it a possibility.

They might meet together though hence the verifications. Have the messages been deleted?"

No the messages haven't been deleted but the profile is now showing as hidden when I go to it instead of saying I'm blocked, if I try to reply to a message it's still saying blocked.

I'm just going to chalk this one down to (a disappointing) experience! It seems it's even harder to pick out the genuine couples than I thought!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Ok it seems a pretty strong consensus it was the husband I was talking to!

I just didn't think that would be the case where there are multiple verifications but maybe I'm being naive!

I can't say if it was the guy or not but the sudden switch in the nature of the questions then the block make it a possibility.

They might meet together though hence the verifications. Have the messages been deleted?

No the messages haven't been deleted but the profile is now showing as hidden when I go to it instead of saying I'm blocked, if I try to reply to a message it's still saying blocked.

I'm just going to chalk this one down to (a disappointing) experience! It seems it's even harder to pick out the genuine couples than I thought! "

Don't be too disheartened. It's still possible it was a woman or maybe both of them.

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By *eckard2019Man
3 weeks ago

North West Durham

It does sound a bit like the male was pretending to be the female. Also possible the female was doing it behind the males back and is covering their tracks.

But on the wider question on random blocking, some people block anyone they come across that they aren't going to take things further with. Doesn't mean you've done anything wrong.

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By *anttoswing OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Eddlesborough


"Ok it seems a pretty strong consensus it was the husband I was talking to!

I just didn't think that would be the case where there are multiple verifications but maybe I'm being naive!

I can't say if it was the guy or not but the sudden switch in the nature of the questions then the block make it a possibility.

They might meet together though hence the verifications. Have the messages been deleted?

No the messages haven't been deleted but the profile is now showing as hidden when I go to it instead of saying I'm blocked, if I try to reply to a message it's still saying blocked.

I'm just going to chalk this one down to (a disappointing) experience! It seems it's even harder to pick out the genuine couples than I thought!

Don't be too disheartened. It's still possible it was a woman or maybe both of them. "

Ha ha, I think that's the most disheartening scenario, then it would mean I put a foot wrong and have no idea what! It's easier to accept being catfished!

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 weeks ago

Fife


"You were possibly flirting with the husband as he pretended to be the wife. Then he finished his wank whilst you showered and your services were no longer required.

Mrs"

Exactly this...

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