FabSwingers.com forum: Rude wording

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have noticed on a couple of threads the disrespect that some men have for the ladies. When saying someone of the fuller figure was fat. Hairy pussies are nasty well I'm sorry but this is lowering the tone don't you think. Yes I know each to there own and people have ways of saying things. Respect is all I am saying think about what is written or how it's written.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

rude wording is often just being honest

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

What is wrong with being fat?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Don't care what someone puts on their own profile. I won't meet them if it offends me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people find it offensive, and some will find it quite ok to say it as its honest ....

Its down to what the individual perceives as ok I guess

I call myself fat all the time however if I see it on here I do tend to jump on the defensive side !!!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Calling someone fat when they are fat isn't rude.

Going out of your way to make them feel bad for being so however is rude and unkind.

There's a BIG difference between the two.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True all good points made so far

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Van don't sweat the small stuff just bypass and go to a thread that interests you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.

I am fat and old, and a Chink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reality check we are all here i assume to meet folk and fuck what people call me dont worry me. I have become goid friends away from fab with my meets so lucky i suppose.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.

I am fat and old, and a Chink.

Cue a lot of feet shuffling

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"rude wording is often just being honest

Not always. Depends on the intent behind it. Often the intent in here is to offend.

Take the Alison Moyet thread. One poster out she was a 'huge fat waff' (not really sure what a waff is) if the poster wanted to be honest he should have just said 'I remember she was a fat lady' by adding the extra words he made it offensive

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"rude wording is often just being honest

Not always. Depends on the intent behind it. Often the intent in here is to offend.

sure but also who posts it... male, female... regular, not regular, what subject and the motives behind it.

many times you see outrage from people, who then go on and post similar

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Generally people are only offended because they want to be....... it gives them something to bitch about after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.

I am fat and old, and a Chink.

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I have noticed on a couple of threads the disrespect that some men have for the ladies. When saying someone of the fuller figure was fat. Hairy pussies are nasty well I'm sorry but this is lowering the tone don't you think. Yes I know each to there own and people have ways of saying things. Respect is all I am saying think about what is written or how it's written.

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personally i would take more offence to being called cuddle chunky big etc etc! i am FAT it's not a insualt it is a fact

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"rude wording is often just being honest

Not always. Depends on the intent behind it. Often the intent in here is to offend.

Yet you don't actually know the meaning of one of the words you say made it offensive....... interesting.

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.

I am fat and old, and a Chink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generally people are only offended because they want to be....... it gives them something to bitch about after all."

Definitely...and think sometimes people are quick to take offence on someone else's behalf

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Rant over

To be correct, he did't say the fuller figured woman is fat. He said Alison Moyet was a fat maff or miff whatever the ff word was.

She may not be a maffmiff .... but she WAS F.A.T.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

waff (wf, wäf) Scots

v. waffed, waff·ing, waffs

intr. & tr.v.

To wave or flutter or to cause to do so.

1. A waving or fluttering motion.

2. A gust of air; a waft.

[Middle English waffen, to wave, alteration of waven; see wave.]

Now I'm confused....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.

I am fat and old, and a Chink.

You are non of those Pearl. Unless you've changed drastically.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Next Christmas can we have a campaign to get ‘Hey Fattie Bum Bum’ to number 1 in the charts?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Next Christmas can we have a campaign to get ‘Hey Fattie Bum Bum’ to number 1 in the charts?"

It'll be worth it to make sure whatever tripe from the xfactor fails miserably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.

I am fat and old, and a Chink.

You are non of those Pearl. Unless you've changed drastically. "

Eh? I am Chinese!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Generally people are only offended because they want to be....... it gives them something to bitch about after all.

Definitely...and think sometimes people are quick to take offence on someone else's behalf"

Yep, usually those that think it'll somehow gain them brownie points: the ubiquitous White Knights.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.

I am fat and old, and a Chink.

You are non of those Pearl. Unless you've changed drastically.

Eh? I am Chinese!!!

Correct.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Next Christmas can we have a campaign to get ‘Hey Fattie Bum Bum’ to number 1 in the charts?"

You sweet little dumpling x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Next Christmas can we have a campaign to get ‘Hey Fattie Bum Bum’ to number 1 in the charts?"

No, Joe Tex: Ain't Gonna Bump No More With A Big Fat Woman

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.

I am fat and old, and a Chink.

you missed out a lovely bundle of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.

I am fat and old, and a Chink.

you missed out a lovely bundle of fun

You are too kind. However, I doubt if everyone agrees with you!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Next Christmas can we have a campaign to get ‘Hey Fattie Bum Bum’ to number 1 in the charts?

No, Joe Tex: Ain't Gonna Bump No More With A Big Fat Woman

I like that one...... Big Girls you Are Beautiful ..... Curly headed bloke.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Fatty Fatty Reggae..... the thingies

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Next Christmas can we have a campaign to get ‘Hey Fattie Bum Bum’ to number 1 in the charts?

No, Joe Tex: Ain't Gonna Bump No More With A Big Fat Woman

I like that one...... Big Girls you Are Beautiful ..... Curly headed bloke."

Mika. Good song.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You're the one for me Fatty ....... The Schmidts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Next Christmas can we have a campaign to get ‘Hey Fattie Bum Bum’ to number 1 in the charts?

No, Joe Tex: Ain't Gonna Bump No More With A Big Fat Woman

How about Fat Bottomed girls by Queen

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

The Macc Lads 'Sweaty Betty'....... 'Fat Bastard' might be pushing it too far.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

what about lip up fatty

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"rude wording is often just being honest

Not always. Depends on the intent behind it. Often the intent in here is to offend.

Yet you don't actually know the meaning of one of the words you say made it offensive....... interesting."

well i wasnt the only one to think it wasnt a nice word but f you like i'll wait for the peron who posted it to clarify the meaning and report back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok lip up fatty by bad manners for number one if that's the case. And I was not trying to be PC or brownie points before I lost a stone and a half I was fat and hated being referred to as fat. Personal choice I know.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

well i wasnt the only one to think it wasnt a nice word ...."

And that's the perfect example of people 'choosing' to be offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i wasnt the only one to think it wasnt a nice word ....

And that's the perfect example of people 'choosing' to be offended."

I thought it was funny not offensive. I'd quite like to be a waff, it sounds fun.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

well i wasnt the only one to think it wasnt a nice word ....

And that's the perfect example of people 'choosing' to be offended.

I thought it was funny not offensive. I'd quite like to be a waff, it sounds fun.

I think it would be a good name for one of those not quite silent farts where you hear the gas without a rasp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i wasnt the only one to think it wasnt a nice word ....

And that's the perfect example of people 'choosing' to be offended.

I thought it was funny not offensive. I'd quite like to be a waff, it sounds fun.

I think it would be a good name for one of those not quite silent farts where you hear the gas without a rasp."

Silent but deadly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Calling someone fat when they are fat isn't rude.

Going out of your way to make them feel bad for being so however is rude and unkind.

There's a BIG difference between the two."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fat and proud me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of the issue on here is that we only read words, and interporate them the way we want to. The way we interporate the words will differ depending on our mood at the time.

We aren't aways able to appreciate the tone being used in another person's style of writing.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I think a lot of the issue on here is that we only read words, and interporate them the way we want to. The way we interporate the words will differ depending on our mood at the time.

We aren't aways able to appreciate the tone being used in another person's style of writing. "

Now that's RUDE !

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