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By *allGuy1000 OP   Man
1 day ago

Reading

Simple question. When making tea, do you put your milk in first or last?

Find people that share your tea making preference on this thread. You never know you might have more things in common.

I’m milk in last.

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By *rmrsp999Couple
1 day ago

glasowish

Gotta put milk in last, it's just wrong otherwise

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
1 day ago

Merseyside


"Simple question. When making tea, do you put your milk in first or last?

Find people that share your tea making preference on this thread. You never know you might have more things in common.

I’m milk in last. "

I believe it should be milk in last as the consistency of the milk can prevents the teabag from releasing the tea to the max!! I changed my

Tea making once I knew this then never looked back

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
1 day ago

Northerner

Milk in last, just a dash. Those who put milk in first are psychopaths

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
1 day ago

Durham

With tea - milk in last.

With coffee - milk in first

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By *oppet22TV/TS
1 day ago

huddersfield

Last

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
1 day ago

Maidstone

Depends. If it's a pot of tea milk goes first, teabag in a cup it goes last otherwise it doesn't brew properly.

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By *WC 101Man
1 day ago

Aberdeen


"With tea - milk in last.

With coffee - milk in first"

That’s my set of rules as well - I’ve never looked into why coffee get the milk first though.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
1 day ago

Next Door

If teabag is the mug then milk in last.

If using a teapot, then milk goes in the mug first.

For coffee, milk always goes in first.

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By *enk15Man
1 day ago

Evesham

Milk first, then sugar, put in half the hot water and stir, then add the tea bag, rest of the hot water and leave to brew.

Screw you society I’ll make tea how I want 🤘

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
1 day ago

Pontypool

If it's a mug with a tea bag, last.

If it's a pot of loose leaf tea, milk in the teacup first. Oh, and a dainty little finger!

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By *afkaMan
1 day ago

Nottingham (ish)


"

I’m milk in last.

I believe it should be milk in last as the consistency of the milk can prevents the teabag from releasing the tea to the max!! I changed my

Tea making once I knew this then never looked back "

Oh dear 😔

Milk first into a teacup then pour freshly brewed tea from a teapot add sugar to taste.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
1 day ago

Northerner

Psychopath behaviour ☝🏻

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By *ild_oatsMan
1 day ago

the land of saints & sinners


"Milk in last, just a dash. Those who put milk in first are psychopaths "

I always knew I was special….

Milk in first….

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By *ripfillMan
1 day ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Last of course !!!!

It’s more civilised ! lol

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By *-SBC 82Man
1 day ago

Ilford

https://youtu.be/N2rfHYq2dSE?feature=shared

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
1 day ago

Durham


"With tea - milk in last.

With coffee - milk in first

That’s my set of rules as well - I’ve never looked into why coffee get the milk first though."

Pouring boiling water directly on to instant coffee can burn it and affect the taste. Pouring cold milk in to boiling water can also scald the milk too

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By *a LunaWoman
1 day ago

South Wales

Last

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By *irlWithTheHazelEyesWoman
1 day ago

Stirlingshire


"Milk in last, just a dash. Those who put milk in first are psychopaths "

I second this!

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By *eri24Woman
1 day ago

Bridgend


"Depends. If it's a pot of tea milk goes first, teabag in a cup it goes last otherwise it doesn't brew properly. "

I agree

Love a pot of tea

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
1 day ago

BRIDPORT


"Last"

Something we agree on, wonders will never cease

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By *nnocentsecret66Woman
1 day ago

birmingham

Last for me

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By *ikingandMaiden2Couple
1 day ago

Mid Cornwall, South West

Last, for strength adjustment

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By *alaceman1975Man
1 day ago

london

Oh gawd milk last....if you put it in before it takes an hour to get it right....

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By *ubesloverMan
1 day ago

notts

The theory around it is that if you are posh, or upper class in the day, milk in first so as not to crack the fine china whereas servants put milk in last as their cups etc were cheaper.

However, I prefer tea leaves and teapot.

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By *ubesloverMan
1 day ago

notts


"Psychopath behaviour ☝🏻"

Rude.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
1 day ago

North West

Not at all. Sack it off, I say!

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By *mmaleiaWoman
1 day ago

Trowbridge

Tea -milk in after

Coffee - milk in 1st

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
1 day ago

Hastings


"Simple question. When making tea, do you put your milk in first or last?

Find people that share your tea making preference on this thread. You never know you might have more things in common.

I’m milk in last. "

Depends if I'm using a teapot or not if making a bru in a mug milk in last

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By *ommy GentMan
1 day ago

Howden

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
1 day ago

.

Milk in first

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 day ago

Reading

Last

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By *ora the explorerWoman
1 day ago

Paradise, Herts

Last with a teabag, first if it’s a pot.

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By *oeBeansMan
1 day ago

Derby

Anyone who puts the milk in first needs to have their hard drives checked!

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By *r90Man
1 day ago

Torquay

Always last and only a dash. Love a strong brew.

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By *eroLondonMan
1 day ago

Mayfair

Milk in last because milk is the common denominator and doesn't vary in strength, flavour or consistency — unless it's Goats Milk etc — whereas I, personally, variate between different types of tea with different strengths and colour (Darjeeling, Assam, Lapdog SueSnog, etc), which would then necessitate how much milk is added to it.

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By *erry bull1Man
1 day ago

doncaster

I drink it black , one sugar

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By *exy-SashWoman
1 day ago

Leighton Buzzard

Milk in last for tea

In first for coffee

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By *TMycockMan
1 day ago

Watford

Last.

Couple of sweeteners, leave the bag in !

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By *reative-mindMan
1 day ago

Exeter

Neither, black tea is amazing!

And I'll politely fight anyone who says other wise.

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By *vaRose43Woman
1 day ago

Forest of Dean

Are you making the tea with a teabag in the mug or in a teapot? This affects my answer

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
1 day ago

BRIDPORT

There’s nothing so effective as a simple thread like this in ascertaining just who the real heathens are

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By *ot so needyMan
1 day ago

Galway

Last ya lunatic.

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By *afkaMan
1 day ago

Nottingham (ish)


"Psychopath behaviour ☝🏻"

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By *ld4YCouple
1 day ago

mid Suffolk

It was about the pottery, posh put milk in first to protect the fine bone china from thermal shock, the poor put it in afterwards.

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By *ileen doverWoman
1 day ago

faberdare

If I have to make someone one it’s milk first then the teabag

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By *endalshaggersCouple
1 day ago

Kendal

Last 🤣

Teabag, hot water, leave it for 30 seconds, bit of milk then give it stir.

The more "builder brew" the better.

C xoxo

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
1 day ago

Stockport

Is this even a question ? Obviously last , because if not , you are battering the tea bag to get a decent colour in your brew

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
1 day ago

Always on the move

Coffee, first. Tea, last

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By *obilebottomMan
1 day ago

All over

If pouting from a tea pot, a little milk in first. If not, likec tea bag, milk after as want to see the colour if tea and judge how much milk to use. I usually have earl grey or darjeeling though and black.

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By *arewithmeMan
1 day ago

Craven Arms


"If teabag is the mug then milk in last.

If using a teapot, then milk goes in the mug first.

For coffee, milk always goes in first."

This and only this is the correct way

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By *anonfire96Man
1 day ago

Mansfield

Tea bags in the mug, boiling water leaves for around 2.5 mins to brew, then milk. And I prefer the tea bag left in. Proper mechanics brew.

Coffee milk in first, water not not boiling. Enjoy your drink.

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By *cedGemWoman
1 day ago

your dreams


"With tea - milk in last.

With coffee - milk in first"

This

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By *rT25Man
1 day ago

Rotherham

Last but I only make it for other people as I don't drink tea or coffee 🤣

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By *allGuy1000 OP   Man
1 day ago

Reading


"Are you making the tea with a teabag in the mug or in a teapot? This affects my answer "

Solo brew. Mug and tea bag. X

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By *alico_KittyWoman
1 day ago

Kittys Lane

Milk last in both tea or coffee

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By *avenotdaveMan
1 day ago

jarrow

Milk in last always

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By *asterandslut86Couple
1 day ago

Oakham

Milk last …

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By *urpetMan
1 day ago

Durham

NEVER put milk in first lol

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
1 day ago

Aberdeen

I don't drink tea but if I make it for others I put milk in last

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By *oubleSwingCouple
1 day ago

N. Wales

Bespoke. 👌

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By *lleLuiCouple
1 day ago

La Rochelle

Black tea only for me !!

What about the clotted cream on your scones ? (Maybe I should start another discussion for that one !!)

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By *oopy FroodMan
1 day ago

Orbiting Planet Rupert

Last as the fats in the milk coat the tealeaves causing them not to infuse properly

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By *RWoodyCouple
1 day ago

Lincolnshire

If its for a cup of tea for someone then milk in last. For coffee I'd go either milk first or last. I vaguely remember reading that boiling water burns the coffee and affects the taste. Somewhere around 82C being optimum. But I don't think I can ever taste the difference to be honest.

J x

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By *AJMLKTV/TS
1 day ago

Burley

milk, teabag, cold water and sugar into a mug, microwave for 3 mins, stir and enjoy. Job done

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By *ustme34Man
1 day ago

Bingley

Milk in last always. I know someone who puts milk in 1st . Its weird. She also puts milk in 1st when having cereal

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
1 day ago

Northerner


"Milk in last always. I know someone who puts milk in 1st . Its weird. She also puts milk in 1st when having cereal "

She has someone buried under her patio too I bet

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By *ustme34Man
1 day ago

Bingley


"Milk in last always. I know someone who puts milk in 1st . Its weird. She also puts milk in 1st when having cereal

She has someone buried under her patio too I bet "

it has been re laid lately

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By *orbidden eastMan
1 day ago

london dodging electric scooters

I tried it both ways, but it has to be last

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By *rs Twisted1Woman
1 day ago

neath

Last !

Sugar

Teabag

Water

Milk

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By *layfullsamMan
1 day ago

Solihull

Wait, what, I’d this even a question

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
1 day ago

Worcestershire

Tea bag

Sugar

Water

Milk

Done

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By *exyScientistsCouple
1 day ago

Castlebar

With anything - tea, coffee, cereal always milk last

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By *eddy004Man
1 day ago

Toy Town

Oh it's in first and allow the tea bag to sit and soak on the milk then hot water, 5min stewing, remove the tea bag and then 1min high in microwave. Slurp and enjoy

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By *riar BelisseWoman
1 day ago

Delightful Bliss

Last

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By *atman_and_PoisonIvyCouple
1 day ago

North Worcestershire

There is only one right answer here...LAAAASSSTTT

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By *amsam101Man
1 day ago

poulton

Last, always last 👌🏻

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By *erbyDudeMan
1 day ago

Derby

First for coffee, last for tea 🍵

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By *orkieBar1000Man
1 day ago

York


"Milk in last, just a dash. Those who put milk in first are psychopaths "

I concur

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By *atman_and_PoisonIvyCouple
1 day ago

North Worcestershire


"First for coffee, last for tea 🍵 "

Actually yes, I was assuming tea forgot about coffee.

First for coffee, last for tea

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
1 day ago

Worcestershire

Last for both

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By *iguyforcouples2025Man
1 day ago

Lincoln

Milk in last, if making in a cup. If making in a pot, then it's ok to put milk in the cup first, but never mash tea with milk in. It's just wrong.

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By *oeBeansMan
1 day ago

Derby


"milk, teabag, cold water and sugar into a mug, microwave for 3 mins, stir and enjoy. Job done "

Imagine waiting 3 minutes to microwave your tea instead of waiting for less time to boil a kettle

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By *amie HantsWoman
1 day ago

Atlantis

If I’ve got a pot of tea I put the milk in the cup first, if I’m making a mug I’ll put the water in first.

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By *iguyforcouples2025Man
1 day ago

Lincoln


"If I’ve got a pot of tea I put the milk in the cup first, if I’m making a mug I’ll put the water in first.

"

Thos is perfect ( As long as you're using Yorkshire Tea, of course)

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By *oxy-RedWoman
1 day ago

pink panther territory

I don't drink tea

Milk always in first with coffee though

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
1 day ago

Markfield

For tea it’s last but for coffee it’s first in this here house.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
1 day ago

Markfield


"Oh it's in first and allow the tea bag to sit and soak on the milk then hot water, 5min stewing, remove the tea bag and then 1min high in microwave. Slurp and enjoy"

Whaaaaaaaaat?!

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 day ago

Fife

Last

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By *AJMLKTV/TS
1 day ago

Burley


"milk, teabag, cold water and sugar into a mug, microwave for 3 mins, stir and enjoy. Job done

Imagine waiting 3 minutes to microwave your tea instead of waiting for less time to boil a kettle "

In those 3 minutes I can watch the deer nibbling the rosebushes at the bottom of my garden, or watch the birds at the feeders, or look up at the stars through the garden room ceiling. I never hurry to do anything

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By *ergus1622Man
1 day ago

Dundee


"With tea - milk in last.

With coffee - milk in first"

I agree

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By *asty tatsyMan
1 day ago

london

Any other answer than milk last is just wrong

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By *ildTimes.Man
1 day ago

Colchester/London

Milk in first lot are getting blocked! 🥪

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By *vonne5exMan
1 day ago

Doncaster

Got to scald the tea to get the correct taste

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 day ago

Manchester (she/her)

If making in a teapot, milk first.

If making in the cup, milk last.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
1 day ago

Uttoxeter


"Simple question. When making tea, do you put your milk in first or last?

Find people that share your tea making preference on this thread. You never know you might have more things in common.

I’m milk in last. "

Many reasons why milk last is the correct answer.

Most importantly the milk fats coating the tea leaves and screwing with the flavour extraction process means that that brew IS FUCKING RUINED

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By *itygamesMan
1 day ago

UK

apparently last as the boiling water scorches the milk, not that i bother , coffee , sugar , milk , hot water ......simple

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By *amie HantsWoman
1 day ago

Atlantis


"Simple question. When making tea, do you put your milk in first or last?

Find people that share your tea making preference on this thread. You never know you might have more things in common.

I’m milk in last.

Many reasons why milk last is the correct answer.

Most importantly the milk fats coating the tea leaves and screwing with the flavour extraction process means that that brew IS FUCKING RUINED"

Sometimes people put the water in first and the tea stews and then the tea is ruined anyway. I think ruined tea is a part of life

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By *obandruthCouple
1 day ago

wolverhampton

Cream or milk always put in last.

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By *ddie1966Man
1 day ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I don't drink coffee with milk, but with tea, milk first, then I cand tune the tea to my liking.

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By *allGuy1000 OP   Man
24 hours ago

Reading


"Black tea only for me !!

What about the clotted cream on your scones ? (Maybe I should start another discussion for that one !!)"

Jam then Cream for me but I’m sure someone will disagree. Definitely room for another thread to discuss this.

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