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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham

I'm thinking about visiting a swinger's club tonight, it will be my first time so obviously I am a little nervous...any advice would be appreciated

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By *ack688Man
25 weeks ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Have no expectations of getting involved in anything, if something happens then that’s great, but don’t be disappointed or discouraged if it doesn’t.

Try and make an effort to chat to people, not with the aim of getting to play together necessarily, just make some connections, talk about fab a bit and see if people are happy to verify you if you get on well with them

Enjoy getting to just watch but try not to join the ranks of the wanking dead

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By *eroLondonMan
25 weeks ago

Mayfair

I've never been to a club and not really my cup of tea, but I hope you have an amazing experience, OP. Full kudos for taking the plunge. 🩶

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"Have no expectations of getting involved in anything, if something happens then that’s great, but don’t be disappointed or discouraged if it doesn’t.

Try and make an effort to chat to people, not with the aim of getting to play together necessarily, just make some connections, talk about fab a bit and see if people are happy to verify you if you get on well with them

Enjoy getting to just watch but try not to join the ranks of the wanking dead"

Thanks, I don't have any expectations just not sure what to expect...if that makes sense

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"I've never been to a club and not really my cup of tea, but I hope you have an amazing experience, OP. Full kudos for taking the plunge. 🩶"

I'm not sure if it's going to be my thing but nothing ventured nothing gained...

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25 weeks ago

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By *ack688Man
25 weeks ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)


"Have no expectations of getting involved in anything, if something happens then that’s great, but don’t be disappointed or discouraged if it doesn’t.

Try and make an effort to chat to people, not with the aim of getting to play together necessarily, just make some connections, talk about fab a bit and see if people are happy to verify you if you get on well with them

Enjoy getting to just watch but try not to join the ranks of the wanking dead

Thanks, I don't have any expectations just not sure what to expect...if that makes sense "

It depends a lot on which club you’re going to and if it’s a special theme night or just a general night. In some clubs people are mostly naked/underwear wrapped in towels as they walk round and then get naked for the play rooms and dungeons etc, some places people stay pretty much fully clothed and just strip off to play. I much prefer the mostly naked clubs personally. So expect varying degrees of naked people around you, expect to see people having sex in various sized groups, but expect to maybe only get to see that through windows into the rooms, again, depends on the club

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Don't know how I deleted that, anyway, again, what's the dress code do you turn up saucy so to speak or is it normal attire

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
25 weeks ago

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To be honest if you go you will end up standing on your own for a long time unless you know people going, Stay close to the bar area and try and make small talk with people including the bar staff and other single Men, Just tell people its your first time and someone might give you a walk around to get to know the place, Also a lot of clubs don't allow single Men in on a Saturday so make sure you check before you go

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By *ornLordMan
25 weeks ago

Wiltshire and London


"Don't know how I deleted that, anyway, again, what's the dress code do you turn up saucy so to speak or is it normal attire "

If it's a specific club and/or event, the club website should tell you that.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
25 weeks ago

Brum - ish

From a practical point of view, check if single men are allowed tonight - some are couples/single women only on Saturdays. Also, is there a guest list you need to be on?

Depending on the club, some are dress down into boxers etc/towel on entry, others are smart casual until you’re comfortable to dress down.

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"Have no expectations of getting involved in anything, if something happens then that’s great, but don’t be disappointed or discouraged if it doesn’t.

Try and make an effort to chat to people, not with the aim of getting to play together necessarily, just make some connections, talk about fab a bit and see if people are happy to verify you if you get on well with them

Enjoy getting to just watch but try not to join the ranks of the wanking dead

Thanks, I don't have any expectations just not sure what to expect...if that makes sense

It depends a lot on which club you’re going to and if it’s a special theme night or just a general night. In some clubs people are mostly naked/underwear wrapped in towels as they walk round and then get naked for the play rooms and dungeons etc, some places people stay pretty much fully clothed and just strip off to play. I much prefer the mostly naked clubs personally. So expect varying degrees of naked people around you, expect to see people having sex in various sized groups, but expect to maybe only get to see that through windows into the rooms, again, depends on the club"

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"To be honest if you go you will end up standing on your own for a long time unless you know people going, Stay close to the bar area and try and make small talk with people including the bar staff and other single Men, Just tell people its your first time and someone might give you a walk around to get to know the place, Also a lot of clubs don't allow single Men in on a Saturday so make sure you check before you go "

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By *arahfromwarringtonTV/TS
25 weeks ago

warrington

Which club are you going to?

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By *oughmanMan
25 weeks ago

Sunderland

Maybe better to see if they have a newbie night and try that. You may now get in as a single male if you haven't pre booked a spot. At least that's the way I'm going end of the month. Best of luck to you dude.

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