FabSwingers.com forum: does this happen a lot on here??

By *rrrMannnn122 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Walsall

You will get chatting to someone and make an effort. Then suddenly they stop replying and don't read your messages anymore. I wonder why. Change minds? Not feeling the vibe anymore?? I'm not too bloody sure

Or maybe I'm just reading too much into it

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By *ommy trucker1Man
6 weeks ago

south wales

Welcome to the wonderful world of fab

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By *nebworthMan
6 weeks ago

Knebworth

Fab all over.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
6 weeks ago

North West

Yeah it happens, just delete the convo and move on.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 weeks ago

Reading

There could be several reasons. No point in trying to understand. As someone says that's fab and the next new shiny thing cane along.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
6 weeks ago

stockport

It's called ghosting and is very annoying

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

It's the organic way things progress on here, OP. Don't take it to heart. Conversations fizzle out, perhaps you weren't their type after all or they are no longer interested, perhaps also they feel they can no longer fit your criteria or preferences, or, regrettably, they were engaged in concurrent conversations with other Fabbers and you, along with others, didn't make the shortlist.

It's the natural order of life on here. It's not a nice feeling but it's not always on the back of anything nasty or untoward. 🌿

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Just Fab things. Happens constantly, so it's better to just shrug it off.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
6 weeks ago

belfast

Never happens at all. Ever.

This is definitely the first time there has been a topic about this.

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By *reative-mindMan
6 weeks ago

Exeter

100% a glitch with the site, tech problems is what I always put this down to.

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I think reading to much into things happens a lot here, there and everywhere.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
6 weeks ago

North West

What happens is I think people read the comment, with an intention to reply later and then life gets in the way, they forget to reply and that is what happens. Maybe?? Who knows.

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By *ir KinkMan
6 weeks ago

Cardross

Dont over think things give it a couple days delete message and move on.

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It happens quite often op, people have to chat to see if there's any mutual interest /compatibility.

Often there isn't, so people will just let tye conversation dry up.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's difficult isn't it. You have a friendly chat with someone, no mention of sexy stuff or meeting but you know it won't go any further anyway. Do you continue chatting, say politely that you won't be taking it further or just stop talking? It's a conundrum

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By *enk15Man
6 weeks ago

Evesham

Yes.

I figure they are too intimidated by my awesomeness to carry on the conversations.

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By *cedGemWoman
6 weeks ago

your dreams

"You will get chatting to someone and make an effort. Then suddenly they stop replying and don't read your messages anymore. I wonder why. Change minds? Not feeling the vibe anymore?? I'm not too bloody sure

Or maybe I'm just reading too much into it "

It happens...I usually find they'll say something that gives me the ickk then I don't want to chat anymore.

Also I find men chat for a bit then someone else probably catches their eye disappear then they come back some time later & think they can pick up where they left off...nope

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By *ittall2020Man
6 weeks ago

Norwich

Yes it happens loads, both on here and other dating sites, often they will be fakes looking for an easy mug to scam.

I tried the regular dating sites thing again over new year, a few fakes popped up of course. Curiously, one quite-genuine-seeming lady after a while suggested chatting on whatsapp as more convenient (which of course set off my scam alarm) so I gave her my number. Never heard another word. Not even an urgent request for cash for a sick pet/relative/missed flight etc I can't work this scam out, unless she/they are setting up something else using my number.

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By *ife NinjaMan
6 weeks ago

Dunfermline

They have finished their wank

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By *eyond PurityCouple
6 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Just mark it down to experience and within a few months of this happening over and over you’ll become a boss level expert and can tell from the first message whether it’s worth chatting or not

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
6 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Or maybe I'm just reading too much into it "

From the opposite side and my point of view OP I find the hotter they are, the more boring the chitter chatter. So I've pretty much cut comms with about 90% of the 'forum babes' and just chat to the ones that are in the clique.

Also "keep 'em keen, treat 'em mean"

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By *orbidden eastMan
6 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

This is normal in this funny place, and if you wanna find answers, it’s like trying to find the meaning of life.

Just move on is way more easier

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By *oxy-RedWoman
6 weeks ago

pink panther territory

I've found this happening quite a bit lately ,you think that you are getting on good with someone,great banter etc then they just stop messaging it happens nothing you can do about it

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By *oopy FroodMan
6 weeks ago

Orbiting Planet Rupert

Happens to me after the 1st message

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By *im le2Man
6 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

Or maybe I'm just reading too much into it "

Most ppl will ask questions so they can jerk off and once they cum that's it. Don't take offence.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Central

This should be expected as the standard outcome, from new chats, as most people are not mutually compatible with most other people.

It takes a few chats, for people to know whether it's right etc. , You move on, if it isn't.

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