FabSwingers.com forum: Am I odd?

By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔

I don’t particularly find it a turn on watching people have sex (unless it’s 2 women), neither do I find it a turn on to be watched. I am neither voyeur or exhibitionist. I find most people tend to be one or the other or both.

Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved?

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By *a1970Man
2 weeks ago

East cork

Your not odd.... Its just not for you.... Don't worry about it op. Everyone has their own kink. I've no interest in anal sex...... Giving or receiving

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

You won't find anyone more vanilla than me. I'm only here for one-to-one dalliances behind closed doors.

I have no interests in your aforementions.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
2 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m a hands on kind of guy myself, Nora…. 😜

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Your not odd.... It’s just not for you.... Don't worry about it op. Everyone has their own kink. I've no interest in anal sex...... Giving or receiving "

Oh I’m not worried. I am what I am. Just wondered if others were the same.

I’ve no interest in anal sex either 🤣

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’m a hands on kind of guy myself, Nora…. 😜"

Me and you are made for each other. You’ll realise it one day! 🤣

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

I dont mind being watched by watching gets old quick.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"You won't find anyone more vanilla than me. I'm only here for one-to-one dalliances behind closed doors.

I have no interests in your aforementions."

So it’s not just me

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By *riar BelisseWoman
2 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

I'm the same as you Nora

Watching people shag is boring and I'm definitely not putting on a show for anyone.

However... I'd watch a non sex scene in the dungeon for hours

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By *imples24Man
2 weeks ago

tamworth

Not sure I’d liked to be watched. Cansee why people would like to watch would be like live porn but I would definitely be getting involved

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I'm the same as you Nora

Watching people shag is boring and I'm definitely not putting on a show for anyone.

However... I'd watch a non sex scene in the dungeon for hours

I’ve never been in a dungeon compo! Maybe I should

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Not sure I’d liked to be watched. Cansee why people would like to watch would be like live porn but I would definitely be getting involved "

Oh I can definitely see why people like to watch. I’m not that arsed about porn either, unless its all women or home made.

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By *asty tatsyMan
2 weeks ago

london

Can I watch you Nora 😁

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yeah I find it boring watching & no desire to be watched.

Just a regular fuck with a pregnant woman stuck in a washing machine

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By *vaRose43Woman
2 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Not odd at all

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Can I watch you Nora 😁"

You can join in and we’ll watch ourselves on my big flatscreen mirror 😆

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By *a1970Man
2 weeks ago

East cork

I find skinny dip under a full moon....... Fantastic

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Participation is 33.3% of all our three ways Nora.

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By *ea monkeyMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

This is part of the glory of human existence, if we all liked the same things it would be a very boring world.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"This is part of the glory of human existence, if we all liked the same things it would be a very boring world.

I guess. Would just be nice if I liked some things I see on here Tea 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 weeks ago

East London

I don't think that's odd.

There isn't much I watch or see in person that turns me on.

I can be interested in something, like, two men having sex that isn't porn-style, but I won't be aroused.

I need more stimulation than that; usually physical.

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By *ea monkeyMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"This is part of the glory of human existence, if we all liked the same things it would be a very boring world.

I guess. Would just be nice if I liked some things I see on here Tea 🤣🤣🤣"

I know that you fancy me, that’s enough

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"This is part of the glory of human existence, if we all liked the same things it would be a very boring world.

I guess. Would just be nice if I liked some things I see on here Tea 🤣🤣🤣

I know that you fancy me, that’s enough "

Of course. That’s why we always argue and disagree. We’re hiding it I reckon

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 weeks ago

East London

I don't masturbate either.

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By *a1970Man
2 weeks ago

East cork

I'd say she fancy me. Too

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't masturbate either."

Oh god I do that

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By *a1970Man
2 weeks ago

East cork

"This is part of the glory of human existence, if we all liked the same things it would be a very boring world.

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well said.... So true

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By *oughmanMan
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

No, I wouldn't say you're odd. I don't particularly think much of the idea myself. It's just a preference and that's okay.

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By *a1970Man
2 weeks ago

East cork

If your partner like something but you didn't.... How long should some wait before saying.... I'm not really into that. It could be anything

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I get nothing from watching random people have sex or from random people watching me. Every time we go to a club I’m more put off than turned on 😬

If there’s interest in a person then I’m good with both.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"If your partner like something but you didn't.... How long should some wait before saying.... I'm not really into that. It could be anything "

Straight away

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By *asty tatsyMan
2 weeks ago

london

"Can I watch you Nora 😁

You can join in and we’ll watch ourselves on my big flatscreen mirror 😆"

That’s a deal, is the mirror above the bed 😁

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I get nothing from watching random people have sex or from random people watching me. Every time we go to a club I’m more put off than turned on 😬

If there’s interest in a person then I’m good with both.

Yeah this is why I don’t see much point in going to a club tbh. Lexi (if you remember her) dragged me to one once. It was like trying to get Mr T on a plane getting me in there 🤣

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By *a1970Man
2 weeks ago

East cork

"If your partner like something but you didn't.... How long should some wait before saying.... I'm not really into that. It could be anything

Straight away "
that's wise

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

I sometimes come away from the forum thinking I must be quite odd because I'm simply not how many women here describe themselves.

I'm not bothered by it it's just I didn't realise before I joined here.

You're not odd op, unless you want to be

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield

Sorry I read that as Am I Old ! To which my own answer is 'yes' (with eyesight to prove it) but the OP is an ageless beauty.

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By *itygamesMan
2 weeks ago

sex, love making etc , is a personal and private thing, so yes , i agree with Nora

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I sometimes come away from the forum thinking I must be quite odd because I'm simply not how many women here describe themselves.

I'm not bothered by it it's just I didn't realise before I joined here.

You're not odd op, unless you want to be

Oh yes I’ve thought it for years. But I accept I’m not a swinger and I’m on a swinging site. It’s opened my eyes a lot for sure.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sorry I read that as Am I Old ! To which my own answer is 'yes' (with eyesight to prove it) but the OP is an ageless beauty."

I’ve always liked you Blooms

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

No, I don't think you're odd. I don't think anyone on here is odd because of their sexual leanings.

I've never really found the club scene to be for me. Nor cams; watching other people does very little for me. Even porn - I'd much rather read something unless I'm in it. Like when people go on about boings and tit drops - unless it's directly for me, with someone I fancy, I don't find my knickers sliding off.

I'd much rather be involved - like watching someone wank for me when I'm with them? Incredibly hot. Or the very rare occasion I've let someone watch me - it's getting lost in that experience and seeing someone do something very private. But random people wanking? Even people I know fucking? Unless I'm involved, I'm bored.

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Redhill

I love watching and being watched. But in controlled environments- like clubs.

I’d never do anything in public. I am the most risk-averse person on this planet.

*exits left, swinging crutches*

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By *neeyedwillieMan
2 weeks ago

Darlington

"I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔

Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved? "

No, I'm the same.

I'd rather be doing than be watched or watching.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

"I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔

Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved? "

Yes I'm exactly the same. Has to be some interaction for me...otherwise I'd just watch porn.

But I appreciate there is something in it for others, and Mr definitely likes to watch me but for me it doesn't add anything for me just having him watch.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"I get nothing from watching random people have sex or from random people watching me. Every time we go to a club I’m more put off than turned on 😬

If there’s interest in a person then I’m good with both.

Yeah this is why I don’t see much point in going to a club tbh. Lexi (if you remember her) dragged me to one once. It was like trying to get Mr T on a plane getting me in there 🤣"

Ha ha…I think my problem is in my head I’m thinking of sexy scenarios - eyes wide shut type clubs and then I look around and I’m in a basement in Hull and watching a spotty arse bounce up and down 😬😬

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
2 weeks ago

Ends

Yes. You don’t have to be one or the other.

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By *urry BlokeMan
2 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I think I have seen so many people have sex, it just doesn't phase me

I could stand and chat with friends whilst it's all going on at the side of me

As for being watched, nah

I like a bit of privacy in my more candid moments

I don't like threesomes

I like some mens arses, but an arse doesn't turn me on

I don't like certain cocks

I don't like the feel of damp, pasty skin

Overt sexual behaviour is very off putting

Being flirted with is just cringe

I don't like 'sexy' underwear

I don't like or enjoy sex toys

Feeling any less odd yet?

Get back if not, I can add more to this list

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
2 weeks ago

Portstewart

Op every single person is odd and that is what makes everyone special and unique

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
2 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Yes you are.

PS I haven’t read any posts just the thread title

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never had a threesome or moresome and only ever had sex once with other people in the room.

It was better than I expected and under the right circumstances I would like to repeat it or be a voyeur.

I would never have said I was an exhibitionist but my pics would make me out to be a liar on that front although it's not something I've given a lot of thought to.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I agree. I find it really awkward watching people....hurts my eyes lol.

People watching can be off putting.

We just like the sex and don't need an audience.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

I sometimes enjoy watching. Especially if I'm watching a partner enjoy themself with someone else. That's hot.

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Yeah. Total fucking mental case 👍😘

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

For me sex is a participation sport but I do know that a fair few hubbies like to spectate. I quite like being watched but, to be honest, I forget about it pretty quickly and just focus on the lady in front of me.

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By *he ShivsCouple
2 weeks ago

Fife

The idea has never appealed to me. Unless it’s two men then I could watch for a while, but I’d want to join in at some point.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔

Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved? "

I'm most definitely like you Nora,I don't get turned on by watching people having nor am I either a voyeur or exhibionist,I just want the 1 on 1

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By *dam1971Man
2 weeks ago

Bedford

"I don't masturbate either.

Oh god I do that "

I know, and you were using my hand

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By *a1970Man
2 weeks ago

East cork

A fantastic tread, thank you OP. Some lovely mature comments

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By *ffervescentMan
2 weeks ago

winfrith

"I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔

Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved? "
Yes can I have the sex please

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I can relate to that.

But then I am odder still, as all of those things can turn me on, if I am with someone I am attracted to and they turn her on.

E.g. someone I am attracted to shows me some porn that turns her on. Almost guaranteed to be hot.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
2 weeks ago

Durham

Reading this thread I now think I'm the odd one!

I really enjoy watching people, be that people I know, or strangers in a club (if I find them sexy/attractive), and I love being watched. I'm both voyeur and exhibitionist.

The best person for me to watch of course is Mr. Watching him is hot as fuck and a huge turn on.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
2 weeks ago

Norwich

I love to watch too. Not so keen on being watched. Makes me feel self conscious and anxious.

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By *igNick1381Man
2 weeks ago

BRIDGEND

"I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔

Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved? "

Always preferred playing to watching, whether it's sport's or sex lol

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By *im le2Man
2 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

I love alone and can accommodate I can watch porn and jerk off or let mates use my place and I can jerk off watching a live show. Most times they will let me join in especially if it's something one of them doesn't like and I'm willing to let them do it to me.

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