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By *arthos58 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

dartford

What is it with these people? Why do they do it?

Been chatting with a woman for a couple of weeks, exchanged numbers etc. Got on very well , arranged a social ,day,time,place etc, then on the day , blocked and ghosted. If they change their mind, thats fine, why can't they just be adult about it,and tell you???

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By *rdere OpusCouple
6 weeks ago

Brum - ish

It’s not excusing poor behaviour, but people do lose interest and worry about abuse if they say so. Of course, some people are just poorly behaved and make Fab that bit worse.

Also, was it definitely a woman? Well verified etc?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

Whatever the reason they did it it's poor form.

It's happened to us after a couple of socials.

We're all adults but some people struggle with some aspects of adult behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Fuck 'en

Oh wait, you can't

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Ideally people would be upfront and tell you they'd changed their mind or life has got in the way.

But people can get abusive on here when they don't get their own way, so some find it easier to block.

It doesn't feel good though if you're on the receiving end.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What is it with these people? Why do they do it?

Been chatting with a woman for a couple of weeks, exchanged numbers etc. Got on very well , arranged a social ,day,time,place etc, then on the day , blocked and ghosted. If they change their mind, thats fine, why can't they just be adult about it,and tell you???"

When you say 'exchanged numbers' was that just for off site text messaging or did you speak/video chat?

Because sometimes, like the Crying Game, she's a he. 🤷‍♂️

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"What is it with these people? Why do they do it?

Been chatting with a woman for a couple of weeks, exchanged numbers etc. Got on very well , arranged a social ,day,time,place etc, then on the day , blocked and ghosted. If they change their mind, thats fine, why can't they just be adult about it,and tell you???

When you say 'exchanged numbers' was that just for off site text messaging or did you speak/video chat?

Because sometimes, like the Crying Game, she's a he. 🤷‍♂️"

Good point, people aren't always what they seem on here.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What is it with these people? Why do they do it?

Been chatting with a woman for a couple of weeks, exchanged numbers etc. Got on very well , arranged a social ,day,time,place etc, then on the day , blocked and ghosted. If they change their mind, thats fine, why can't they just be adult about it,and tell you???

When you say 'exchanged numbers' was that just for off site text messaging or did you speak/video chat?

Because sometimes, like the Crying Game, she's a he. 🤷‍♂️

Good point, people aren't always what they seem on here. "

People aren't always what they seem off here either. 🤷‍♂️

Such is life and always will be.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
6 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

That's part of fab journey unfortunately!!!shit happens...🤔🫣

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"What is it with these people? Why do they do it?

Been chatting with a woman for a couple of weeks, exchanged numbers etc. Got on very well , arranged a social ,day,time,place etc, then on the day , blocked and ghosted. If they change their mind, thats fine, why can't they just be adult about it,and tell you???"

Happens very often here, there's an abundance of choice so ppl often feel there's no need to explain, it's easier for them to block

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By *oodtoshare2Couple
6 weeks ago

harrogate

We have had exactly the same experiences here. Several conversations. Even arranged a couple of meets, all for it to fall at the last point.

Partly an issue with us too and we have to recognize that. We live 80 miles apart and Karie works shifts. This means that we don't get an awful lot of time together, and the majority of people do t have the patience to stick with it.

Still very bad manners though

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By *orthern StarsCouple
6 weeks ago

Durham

It's poor behaviour to say the least. Yes people can change their minds but a quick message to say so would be better than just blocking/ghosting.

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By *luebell888Woman
6 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Time is precious, so anyone who wastes someones time is cruel.

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By *arthos58 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

dartford

Yes we chatted for best part of an hour, definitely female.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

A whole hour???

😂😂😂

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