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When love is a one night stand.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I read a fun thing about it where they said that how nowadays many think that love is a one night stand.

What is your view about it,.do you agree with it and what love is?

I dont totally agree with it, because love is so much more than a one night stand, to me a one night stand is just about sex and not love, true love is so much more, it involves a deep emotional and intellectual connection that goes beyond physical attraction too

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

South Wales

No, a one night stand is merely a spark whereas love is a burning flame.

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield

Whatever next - a wank is a long term relationship?

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By *obilebottomMan
2 weeks ago

All over


"No, a one night stand is merely a spark whereas love is a burning flame."

I really liked that

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By *uri00620Woman
2 weeks ago

Croydon

Im not sure about the "many people" part but no, that's just silly.

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By *moothdickMan
2 weeks ago

stoke


"Whatever next - a wank is a long term relationship? "

A Fanny flutter is a walk down the isle and a country house, with a dog and two point 5 kids

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
2 weeks ago

BRIDPORT


"No, a one night stand is merely a spark whereas love is a burning flame."

^^^^^^^^^

You want to watch that one, she’s a frickin’ pyromaniac

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By *onkeynutWoman
2 weeks ago

somewhere

I have had encounters with people with a similar mindset (I ran for the hills )

But no, that’s just silly. Love means different things to different people but it’s not a ons.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Taking a break from the narcissist literature shag?

Who are these many?

Generally the only people I've found who conflated love with one night stands are incredibly lonely 💜

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

On a serious note, people who think like this need to do some work on theirselves. It's a sad and downward spiral when you have unhealthy attachments to anyone especially through sex.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Whaaaaat! Is this really even a question

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Whatever next - a wank is a long term relationship? "

I suspect it is for many......

The longest they may ever have. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ickedtiesCouple
2 weeks ago

limerick


"No, a one night stand is merely a spark whereas love is a burning flame."

So very true ❣️

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I don't do one night stands so I'm safe from the love!

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield


"Whatever next - a wank is a long term relationship?

I suspect it is for many......

The longest they may ever have. 🤷‍♂️"

I feel seen !

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

South Wales

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

Love is definitely about a connection with someone and not just sex but I guess people get confused between the 2 when dopamine and oxytocin are released. You can fall in love with that feeling too

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Whatever next - a wank is a long term relationship? "

A nipple squeeze is a marriage, two children, and her mum moving into the spare room.

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By *ildTimes.Man
2 weeks ago

Colchester/London

Catching feels....it's a women thing 🤷🏻‍♂️

🥪

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Is the walk of shame in the morning a divorce?

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By *cottish guy 555Man
2 weeks ago

London


"No, a one night stand is merely a spark whereas love is a burning flame."

You old romantic you.

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Whatever next - a wank is a long term relationship?

A Fanny flutter is a walk down the isle and a country house, with a dog and two point 5 kids "

A finger in the fanny, is like a 35 year mortgage in your both names, with no exit clauses,, and her mum (still in your spare room), painting it pink and taking all your transformer figures to the charity shop.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Catching feels....it's a women thing 🤷🏻‍♂️

🥪"

Why do you always put a sandwich at the end of a comment? Just wondered if there was a reason

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield


"I don't do one night stands so I'm safe from the love! "

How about two nights ?

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

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I think it's a bit sad; yes, I'm a romantic at heart but I don't think you can fall in love so quickly. When someone rushes in to something, they fuck a few times and the next minute they're wanting babies, engaged, all of that... it's not real in my mind. It rarely lasts (obviously sometimes it does!).

I think love is something that grows. When you see someone for all they are and still choose them. It's not the instant fireworks of lust and limerence, more the slow burning warmth of a log fire in a cosy cabin.

You can like the idea of being in love with someone, without actually loving them.

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By *ildTimes.Man
2 weeks ago

Colchester/London


"Catching feels....it's a women thing 🤷🏻‍♂️

🥪

Why do you always put a sandwich at the end of a comment? Just wondered if there was a reason "

IYKYK....🥪

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By *sWyldWoman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

You can be in love for just one night and it's rather nice

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

2 weeks ago

East Sussex

I guess it depends if you think there's only one type of love.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"No, a one night stand is merely a spark whereas love is a burning flame."
Hi luna, yes, you are right there, tit is merely a spark, yes, love is a burning flame too

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By *ffervescentMan
2 weeks ago

winfrith

Only on reality TV do you get one night stands that mean love ,you can be infatuated but not necessarily in love .

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
2 weeks ago

in Lancashire

Surely Shag, you mean lust..?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

2 weeks ago

East Sussex

Can't you love someone for a few hours?

People on here talk about wanting a connection, that on a superficial level is a sort of love isn't it ?

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By *oubleSwingCouple
2 weeks ago

N. Wales


"I read a fun thing about it where they said that how nowadays many think that love is a one night stand.

What is your view about it,.do you agree with it and what love is?

I dont totally agree with it, because love is so much more than a one night stand, to me a one night stand is just about sex and not love, true love is so much more, it involves a deep emotional and intellectual connection that goes beyond physical attraction too "

I can't wrap my head around that. Love means so much more. I only ever had fwb's, until I had a "one night stand" (spoiler alert), we got married. Sex was THE best, but I certainly didn't love him after that first night. He kept me wanting to see him again and again. My love snowballs. That was 15 years ago though 🤷‍♀️

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By *uriousscouserWoman
2 weeks ago

Wirral


"Can't you love someone for a few hours?

People on here talk about wanting a connection, that on a superficial level is a sort of love isn't it ? "

I've never had sex with someone without feeling a degree of love for them.

It may not be hearts and flowers soulmates "let's get married" happily ever after romantic love, but that doesn't make the love I feel any less real.❤️

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"I have had encounters with people with a similar mindset (I ran for the hills )

But no, that’s just silly. Love means different things to different people but it’s not a ons."

Hi _onkeynut, yes, love also means different things to different people too

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"I guess it depends if you think there's only one type of love. "
Hi nicecouple, yes, you are right there, it depends if one thinks there is only one type of love too

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By *cLovin2Man
2 weeks ago

Reading


"Whatever next - a wank is a long term relationship? "

To be fair, a man's relationship with his dong is a long term relationship... Unless you're planning to change dongs...

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By *cLovin2Man
2 weeks ago

Reading

I've never had a ONS tbh, I feel the best sex & passion is not on the first night, but when you have both got to know each other, especially with what each likes & dislikes.

So why run off before you get to the best bit?

If you have ever experienced love, you will know it cannot be a ONS. That's more an act of passion. Nothing more.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Love is definitely about a connection with someone and not just sex but I guess people get confused between the 2 when dopamine and oxytocin are released. You can fall in love with that feeling too"
Hi _exyscientists, yes, you are right there, love is definitely about a connection too, yes, people can get confused between the 2 as well

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"I think it's a bit sad; yes, I'm a romantic at heart but I don't think you can fall in love so quickly. When someone rushes in to something, they fuck a few times and the next minute they're wanting babies, engaged, all of that... it's not real in my mind. It rarely lasts (obviously sometimes it does!).

I think love is something that grows. When you see someone for all they are and still choose them. It's not the instant fireworks of lust and limerence, more the slow burning warmth of a log fire in a cosy cabin.

You can like the idea of being in love with someone, without actually loving them. "

Hi _eli, yes, you are right there, instead of rushing into it, it is better to take things slowly too

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By *a1970Man
2 weeks ago

East cork


"Whatever next - a wank is a long term relationship? "
you mean it isn't... Ffs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central

They can be madly in love, after seeing a silhouette

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By *cLovin2Man
7 days ago

Reading


"Whatever next - a wank is a long term relationship? you mean it isn't... Ffs"

Dunno about you, but my wang is devastated...

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