FabSwingers.com forum: Thinking of giving wife a bf

By *rishguysurrey OP Man
2 weeks ago

london

I’m thinking of letting my wife have a boyfriend is this a good idea she has Said she would think about having one if i allow it

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

South Wales

Why?

And how would you feel if she dumped you and ran off with said boyfriend?

I mean, you got to think of the worst that can happen as well as all the things that make your dick tingle in joy!

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
2 weeks ago

Durham

That's a question that only you and your wife can answer really. Only you know if it's what you both want, or if your relationship is strong and stable enough to sustain it.

You need to have a proper conversation with your wife

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By *obilebottomMan
2 weeks ago

All over

Just make sure he gives you 20 quid to go to the finema

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By *rishguysurrey OP Man
2 weeks ago

london

that’s true but it’s a real sexy scenario having another man fuck her during the week but yes it could end in her leaving I guess your right

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By *rishguysurrey OP Man
2 weeks ago

london

We have spoken she is now open to the idea as long as I’m good with it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

I've heard of a few couples doing this.

Are you going to choose him or is she?

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By *rishguysurrey OP Man
2 weeks ago

london

Definitely be her own decision for everyone to be happy it would need to be natural

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By *offiaCoolWoman
2 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

Was part of the discussion for you to meet women on here ?

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By *rishguysurrey OP Man
2 weeks ago

london

Yes I’m free to meet other women just no gf

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By *ccringtonswingerTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Accrington

Would you want it to be loving for her with a bf or just sex

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By *rishguysurrey OP Man
2 weeks ago

london

Just great sex with dates and perhaps staying over at his on weekends for the night

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By *ealmeat24Man
2 weeks ago

Yeovil

It’s your relationship. Do anything that makes you both happy.

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By *rishguysurrey OP Man
2 weeks ago

london

Yes just asking for advice is all

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By *otguy555Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

100% wrong idea. Trust me. If you are feeling like it would make your love life more interesting and exciting it won't. If you are thinking about suggesting it then why don't you play the boyfriend cheating girlfriend role play. Me and my wife have met lots of guys and couples and when we were going through a difficult time in our relationship I thought about what you are saying and I couldn't see how it would benefit either of us. If she enjoyed it and liked him then she could leave me and if she didn't like it she could blame me for suggesting it. What we did was I would meet with my wife in a pub and we would role play that we didn't know each other and we would go along with it. I can promise you that she fucking loves it and she has admitted that she would rather do this than have a free pass

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By *rishguysurrey OP Man
2 weeks ago

london

Thanks for that advice certainly makes me think about this from a different point of view

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Just make sure he gives you 20 quid to go to the finema"

£20 wouldn't even get you popcorn these days.

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By *vaRose43Woman
2 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Opening your marriage sexually is one thing, inviting full relationships is another. Are you both poly?

Please remember that whoever she chooses is a person too. With their own feelings, needs, and desires. They’re not a performing monkey devoid of emotions to be used just to fulfill a fantasy. What your describing isn’t a one off swing meet, so you need to be extra mindful about what you’re embarking on

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By *rishguysurrey OP Man
2 weeks ago

london

Agreed thank you for this advice I’m starting to no longer want this idea lol

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By *vaRose43Woman
2 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"Agreed thank you for this advice I’m starting to no longer want this idea lol "

I’m not saying it can’t work, god it’s wonderful when it does… but I think you both need to be in a frame of mind that this is a huge step

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By *rishguysurrey OP Man
2 weeks ago

london

It certainly would be great have you ever had this experience

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By *riar BelisseWoman
2 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

It's a big risk, it will either enrich your marriage or break it clean apart

Good luck OP

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By *rishguysurrey OP Man
2 weeks ago

london

Thank you

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