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"Full English with tea" I’ll second this, thankfully he keeps me entertained on WhatsApp  | |||
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"Nobody really. I am not that invested. " Same. This topic comes up every week. 🤣🤣🤣 🥱 🥱 | |||
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"The only one that really breaks my heart is Lickety." My first ever club night back in I think it was 2014 was for her birthday party at Jaydees. She was so friendly and welcoming, she's one of the lip prints on my head in my avatar. She was such a nice lady, sorely missed. | |||
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I also miss Lickety - huge loss to us all here and many more besides | |||
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"Where's Bella? ....the Forum Queens gone AWOL ...🥪" Bellaseas? | |||
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"I used to find BlueEyedBoy hilarious. Wherever he is now, I hope he's doing well🫶" He got a bit too fluffy. | |||
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"This comes up a lot. " You know who I’m missing today? NSA Chick and her lovely lovely boobs. | |||
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"Where's Bella? ....the Forum Queens gone AWOL ...🥪 Bellaseas?" Ms Bella...the forum darling...the one all the women want to be and the men want to be with! 🥪 | |||
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"Where's Bella? ....the Forum Queens gone AWOL ...🥪 Bellaseas?" MissBella I think -appears to be UNLOS  | |||
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"Where's Bella? ....the Forum Queens gone AWOL ...🥪 Bellaseas? MissBella I think -appears to be UNLOS "No fucking way?????? | |||
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"Where's Bella? ....the Forum Queens gone AWOL ...🥪 Bellaseas? MissBella I think -appears to be UNLOS
No fucking way?????? "She isn't unlos! | |||
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"Where's Bella? ....the Forum Queens gone AWOL ...🥪 Bellaseas? MissBella I think -appears to be UNLOS
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She isn't unlos!"Yeah I just checked thank God. | |||
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"Where's Bella? ....the Forum Queens gone AWOL ...🥪 Bellaseas? MissBella I think -appears to be UNLOS
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Yeah I just checked thank God. "Don't thank me ..I had nothing to do with it... 🥪 | |||
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"I used to feel the forums were more sincere. Time changes everything. I find the lip service paid to what are essentially whiners hiding behind the veil of you must 'be kind' to me while I am a self indulgent delusional twat. Have contributed greatly to the downward spiral of what used to be a room full of character , originality and unique individuals. " This couldn't be more accurate! The needy people with a ridiculous amount of threads a day types, are the ones blocking the interesting characters on here, that never say anything because they get overlooked all the time. It's not how the forums should be. | |||
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"I used to feel the forums were more sincere. Time changes everything. I find the lip service paid to what are essentially whiners hiding behind the veil of you must 'be kind' to me while I am a self indulgent delusional twat. Have contributed greatly to the downward spiral of what used to be a room full of character , originality and unique individuals. This couldn't be more accurate! The needy people with a ridiculous amount of threads a day types, are the ones blocking the interesting characters on here, that never say anything because they get overlooked all the time. It's not how the forums should be. " That's why the forums are so dull most of the time, same threads, same people , saying the same stuff...one big circle jerk 💦 🥪 | |||
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"I used to feel the forums were more sincere. Time changes everything. I find the lip service paid to what are essentially whiners hiding behind the veil of you must 'be kind' to me while I am a self indulgent delusional twat. Have contributed greatly to the downward spiral of what used to be a room full of character , originality and unique individuals. This couldn't be more accurate! The needy people with a ridiculous amount of threads a day types, are the ones blocking the interesting characters on here, that never say anything because they get overlooked all the time. It's not how the forums should be. " The Irony that one of the biggest ones is on this thread. Continually. | |||
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"Where's Bella? ....the Forum Queens gone AWOL ...🥪 Bellaseas? MissBella I think -appears to be UNLOS
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She isn't unlos!"Oh her Xmas threads are showing UNLOS?? | |||
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"I used to find BlueEyedBoy hilarious. Wherever he is now, I hope he's doing well🫶" • He's doing very well, bless him. He's eloped with his elderly headmistress and now sowing the seeds of love. ❣️ | |||
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"I used to find BlueEyedBoy hilarious. Wherever he is now, I hope he's doing well🫶 • He's doing very well, bless him. He's eloped with his elderly headmistress and now sowing the seeds of love. ❣️" God bless that handsome devil🫶 | |||
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"I used to feel the forums were more sincere. Time changes everything. I find the lip service paid to what are essentially whiners hiding behind the veil of you must 'be kind' to me while I am a self indulgent delusional twat. Have contributed greatly to the downward spiral of what used to be a room full of character , originality and unique individuals. " Not quite the same as the "be kind" tone-policing, but I'm also not a fan of the "all opinions are equally valid" mindset that seems to be prevalent online (not just on here). I know for a fact that sometimes my opinions are dumber than dogshit, and I'm pretty sure I'm no worse than average. Can't speak to changes on here as I think I joined after that shift had happened. | |||
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"...The discussion of 'bans' is punishable by death I believe..." • Grånny, it's been an absolute delight and an enchanting experience knowing you.  †
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"...The discussion of 'bans' is punishable by death I believe... • Grånny, it's been an absolute delight and an enchanting experience knowing you. †
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"Nobody really. I am not that invested. " My thoughts too. Maybe I should spend more of my time in forums. Then again maybe not. | |||
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I would fall on my sword for you, like a Knight Errant. ⚔️"Why do I see the innuendo and not the love | |||
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"I guess I just use fab in different ways to a lot of others. I can probably count on one hand how many forum members I have had dialog with. Even then it was never more than half a dozen messages. I honestly don’t even notice when someone leaves. Others seem to use it and be part of a club or a society of some sort. Fair play to them. " I whole heartedly agree with your last sentence. Things seem so important to some. For me this is part of my reality to some it seems to be ALL of their reality. | |||
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"I used to feel the forums were more sincere. Time changes everything. I find the lip service paid to what are essentially whiners hiding behind the veil of you must 'be kind' to me while I am a self indulgent delusional twat. Have contributed greatly to the downward spiral of what used to be a room full of character , originality and unique individuals. " Oh I don't know...... You and i have both been here a while. I don't think the actual content has changed that much. Just the people. A quick jump onto the desktop site and a stroll through the archives would no doubt show much the same threads, questions, comments and behaviour back in 2009 as it would today. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"I used to feel the forums were more sincere. Time changes everything. I find the lip service paid to what are essentially whiners hiding behind the veil of you must 'be kind' to me while I am a self indulgent delusional twat. Have contributed greatly to the downward spiral of what used to be a room full of character , originality and unique individuals. Oh I don't know...... You and i have both been here a while. I don't think the actual content has changed that much. Just the people. A quick jump onto the desktop site and a stroll through the archives would no doubt show much the same threads, questions, comments and behaviour back in 2009 as it would today. 🤷♂️" Just the people  which invariably changes the type of response.
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"I used to feel the forums were more sincere. Time changes everything. I find the lip service paid to what are essentially whiners hiding behind the veil of you must 'be kind' to me while I am a self indulgent delusional twat. Have contributed greatly to the downward spiral of what used to be a room full of character , originality and unique individuals. Oh I don't know...... You and i have both been here a while. I don't think the actual content has changed that much. Just the people. A quick jump onto the desktop site and a stroll through the archives would no doubt show much the same threads, questions, comments and behaviour back in 2009 as it would today. 🤷♂️ Just the people which invariably changes the type of response.
To be fair to me Obi, I never mentioned people or content - just whiners and the societal shift in pandering to faux folk. "Yep. I agree. We haven't quite reached Facey 'you OK hun?' levels yet though. 🤦♂️😂😂😂 | |||
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"Ah! The wonderful and sepia coloured glasses of nostalgia. It’s amazing how people pick and choose their reality based on their own experiences. " That is precisely what reality is ....... | |||
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"Ah! The wonderful and sepia coloured glasses of nostalgia. It’s amazing how people pick and choose their reality based on their own experiences. That is precisely what reality is ....... " It’s how a person’s conception works, when there’s no awareness or understanding that others don’t share that. This thread is a lesson in observation without awareness | |||
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"Jennytv she would make me roar with laughter." I always loved seeing Jenny in the forum. | |||
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"Ah! The wonderful and sepia coloured glasses of nostalgia. It’s amazing how people pick and choose their reality based on their own experiences. " There’s a name that comes up here all the time and I’m always laughing to myself because I’m glad they’re gone. | |||
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"Ah! The wonderful and sepia coloured glasses of nostalgia. It’s amazing how people pick and choose their reality based on their own experiences. That is precisely what reality is ....... " I was just about to say this. There’s one lady who was on here who I thought was hilarious. A lot of people couldn’t stand her. There’s people on here now who are so popular and I just can’t see why. So yeah my reality are my own experiences. | |||
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"Jennytv she would make me roar with laughter." Adore Jennie. Really enjoyed my chats with her ❤️ | |||
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"I miss the people who used to have a laugh and joke on the forums but for whatever reason have chosen not to 😢" Chased off by the ones who took offense? | |||
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"Ah! The wonderful and sepia coloured glasses of nostalgia. It’s amazing how people pick and choose their reality based on their own experiences. " My reality is that I chose my profile name partly because over the years I've seen, chatted to and met people at events who are completely detached from reality and walk through the halls of fab with blinkers on. If someone is a half decent and genuine individual, everyone will see them as such and even those who may not always agree with them can respect them for being honest and inclusive. Anyone, including some names mentioned above, who divide opinion and cause such extreme reactions by their words or actions can't really be genuine. If you run with the hare and hunt with the hounds and are nice to some and have a nasty attitude towards those who don't kiss your arse you can't really call yourself genuine. Some fabbers confuse popularity with productivity on the forums and are quick to turn a blind eye when a "celeb" acts the cunt but get the pitchforks out for the plebs who do likewise. | |||
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"I miss the people who used to have a laugh and joke on the forums but for whatever reason have chosen not to 😢 Chased off by the ones who took offense?" Strong possibility | |||
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"As a couple of people have said TOM...... ESSEX TOM....... He was fun. A pain in the arse but fun and just the kind of character that you need in a group of REAL people. I prefer a pain in the arse TOM to the 'perfect people' " Hell yes. The perfect fakey nicey sickly people get right on my lils. And there’s a few of them. Give me Tom or Annie any day of the week | |||
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"As a couple of people have said TOM...... ESSEX TOM....... He was fun. A pain in the arse but fun and just the kind of character that you need in a group of REAL people. I prefer a pain in the arse TOM to the 'perfect people' Hell yes. The perfect fakey nicey sickly people get right on my lils. And there’s a few of them. Give me Tom or Annie any day of the week " Well now you've gone too far Nora  | |||
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"As a couple of people have said TOM...... ESSEX TOM....... He was fun. A pain in the arse but fun and just the kind of character that you need in a group of REAL people. I prefer a pain in the arse TOM to the 'perfect people' " I'm going to disagree on this particular example. When it becomes personal, it ceases being amusing. Laughing at jellyfish or sharks is one thing but it went far beyond that. And I am no wet dishcloth! | |||
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"As a couple of people have said TOM...... ESSEX TOM....... He was fun. A pain in the arse but fun and just the kind of character that you need in a group of REAL people. I prefer a pain in the arse TOM to the 'perfect people' " Me too Granny . | |||
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"I’m not sure if she came onto the forum but there was a lady from Brighton, absolutely stunning, model looks that use to put up some deliciously filthy videos that I loved watching, especially the ones where she was playing in public, on buses or trains. She just vanished from the site, I do hope because of nothing awful. Does anyone else remember her, a brunette tall slim and very sexy? " Lula? True, not seen her videos in a while! Really hot lady, love her energy! | |||
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"I’m not sure if she came onto the forum but there was a lady from Brighton, absolutely stunning, model looks that use to put up some deliciously filthy videos that I loved watching, especially the ones where she was playing in public, on buses or trains. She just vanished from the site, I do hope because of nothing awful. Does anyone else remember her, a brunette tall slim and very sexy? Lula? True, not seen her videos in a while! Really hot lady, love her energy! "I think she's now luladaddy | |||
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"As a couple of people have said TOM...... ESSEX TOM....... He was fun. A pain in the arse but fun and just the kind of character that you need in a group of REAL people. I prefer a pain in the arse TOM to the 'perfect people' I'm going to disagree on this particular example. When it becomes personal, it ceases being amusing. Laughing at jellyfish or sharks is one thing but it went far beyond that. And I am no wet dishcloth!" I agree. When it becomes about sowing discord, dog whistling about divisive topics and getting people banned, that’s not something to miss | |||
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"In terms of people that were fun and managed to do it without causing upset, Diamond Joe, Ghengis and Gemini Man " FIFY 😉 | |||
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"In terms of people that were fun and managed to do it with causing upset, Diamond Joe, Ghengis and Gemini Man " I loved GM 😍 | |||
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"In terms of people that were fun and managed to do it with causing upset, Diamond Joe, Ghengis and Gemini Man " To me this is ‘The wonderful and sepia coloured glasses of nostalgia’ as my experience is definitely different to your own. But that’s life. | |||
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"Ah! The wonderful and sepia coloured glasses of nostalgia. It’s amazing how people pick and choose their reality based on their own experiences. " That's society though, people can be friends to some, foes to others. No-one is liked by all | |||
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"In terms of people that were fun and managed to do it with causing upset, Diamond Joe, Ghengis and Gemini Man " I have to say, my memory of two of those being fun without causing upset is different to yours. Fun without causing upset to those THEY liked, then sure. One of them was indeed lovely though. | |||
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"In terms of people that were fun and managed to do it with causing upset, Diamond Joe, Ghengis and Gemini Man To me this is ‘The wonderful and sepia coloured glasses of nostalgia’ as my experience is definitely different to your own. But that’s life. " You beat me too it, I had to chuckle at the irony of the two posts | |||
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"Ah! The wonderful and sepia coloured glasses of nostalgia. It’s amazing how people pick and choose their reality based on their own experiences. That's society though, people can be friends to some, foes to others. No-one is liked by all "Yeah absolutely and of course it's how they bounce off your own personality etc which is why real life friendship groups are so varied/rich | |||
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"I miss Mïdnïght." I miss Nero he was alright I guess  | |||
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"I miss Mïdnïght. I miss Nero he was alright I guess "· He was a twonk. 🙂 | |||
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"getting people banned, that’s not something to miss" No one else can get a person banned. The person themselves need to type something that breaks rules | |||
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