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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
2 weeks ago

North East

The biggest thing I've found with this site is the timewasters and wannabes. Start all chatty but the minute you ask to meet they up and ghost you. Isn't the site about meeting.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

It really depends on your approach, the maturity of the conversation and what you're actually saying.

I'm a slow burn — weeks and months before I even meet someone.

With that said, I've never personally encountered any "Timewasters & Wannabes", OP. 🌿

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By *mf123Man
2 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Hands up waving me me im a time waster

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By *mf123Man
2 weeks ago

with one foot out the door


"Hands up waving me me im a time waster"
not a wannabee tho

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By *lueLotusWoman
2 weeks ago

the wilderness

What's a wannabe on here? never heard of her

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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
2 weeks ago

North East

Had 6 no shows i think it is

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What's a wannabe on here? never heard of her "

A zigazig ah ? 🤔

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By *lueLotusWoman
2 weeks ago

the wilderness


"Had 6 no shows i think it is "

Oh, that's shit. Sorry to hear it.

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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
2 weeks ago

North East


"Had 6 no shows i think it is

Oh, that's shit. Sorry to hear it. "

Had one just they say let's meet i say ok bang they go

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central


"Had 6 no shows i think it is

Oh, that's shit. Sorry to hear it.

Had one just they say let's meet i say ok bang they go "

We do need to apply due diligence. I don't rush anything and expect most of my chats to come to nothing

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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
2 weeks ago

North East

Why ask if they have no intention

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By *iercedAndTattooedNE6Couple
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Sign of the times with the social media age really, don’t take it personal

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By *riar BelisseWoman
2 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

This is why I only meet off socials, clubs and parties. No timewasters there

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By *ouple_For_BuddyCouple
2 weeks ago

Newport

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By *ouple_For_BuddyCouple
2 weeks ago

Newport


"It really depends on your approach, the maturity of the conversation and what you're actually saying.

I'm a slow burn — weeks and months before I even meet someone.

With that said, I've never personally encountered any "Timewasters & Wannabes", OP. 🌿"

The reply above pretty much nails it!

99% of those that contact us, say "Want to meet?" or "I am on Cam".

They pay no regard to what it is that we are looking for and neither do they read our profile.

Most are driven by their cock, they want a Shag and they want it right now before their Wife or Partner finds out.

They do not want to make any effort, they do not have any standards and worse still, they do not expect us to have any standards either.

The site is absolutely full of Married/Attached men who are attempting to cheat on their wives without being found out and by making the minimum of effort.

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By *ffervescentMan
2 weeks ago

winfrith

clubs are the way forward real people real meets .

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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
2 weeks ago

North East


"What's a wannabe on here? never heard of her

A zigazig ah ? 🤔"

Someone that joins then once joined never comes back to the site

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By *elbaCouple
2 weeks ago

Derby


"clubs are the way forward real people real meets ."

Exactly this

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By *mudge354Man
2 weeks ago

Mid Sussex

Feel you pain mate, had a couple myself, thinking about it the last few meet i had were off another site that not about this life style. You just got to keep trying

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By *elshcouple18Couple
2 weeks ago

Cardiff


"It really depends on your approach, the maturity of the conversation and what you're actually saying.

I'm a slow burn — weeks and months before I even meet someone.

With that said, I've never personally encountered any "Timewasters & Wannabes", OP. 🌿

The reply above pretty much nails it!

99% of those that contact us, say "Want to meet?" or "I am on Cam".

They pay no regard to what it is that we are looking for and neither do they read our profile.

Most are driven by their cock, they want a Shag and they want it right now before their Wife or Partner finds out.

They do not want to make any effort, they do not have any standards and worse still, they do not expect us to have any standards either.

The site is absolutely full of Married/Attached men who are attempting to cheat on their wives without being found out and by making the minimum of effort. "

and the sad single men hiding behind couples and single lady profiles..

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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
2 weeks ago

North East


"It really depends on your approach, the maturity of the conversation and what you're actually saying.

I'm a slow burn — weeks and months before I even meet someone.

With that said, I've never personally encountered any "Timewasters & Wannabes", OP. 🌿

The reply above pretty much nails it!

99% of those that contact us, say "Want to meet?" or "I am on Cam".

They pay no regard to what it is that we are looking for and neither do they read our profile.

Most are driven by their cock, they want a Shag and they want it right now before their Wife or Partner finds out.

They do not want to make any effort, they do not have any standards and worse still, they do not expect us to have any standards either.

The site is absolutely full of Married/Attached men who are attempting to cheat on their wives without being found out and by making the minimum of effort. and the sad single men hiding behind couples and single lady profiles.. "

Ive seen a few of these

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By *idnightcowboy69Man
2 weeks ago

ciren

Reflective of the times

Since mobile phones people think it's acceptable to be late as they can just message you

I don't recall people being persistently late pre mobiles

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

As others have said I've never experienced any of this. I've been here almost 9 years and never had a no show.

Lots of chats fizzle out but none of them have ever wasted my time.

I only meet when it suits me and I might chat for weeks or months before meeting for a coffee and it will never be more than that on the first meet.

I haven't met anyone new since 2020 so some might accuse me of being a time waster but it's difficult to see how.

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By *HUSH-Man
2 weeks ago

London


"It really depends on your approach, the maturity of the conversation and what you're actually saying.

I'm a slow burn — weeks and months before I even meet someone.

With that said, I've never personally encountered any "Timewasters & Wannabes", OP. 🌿"

I’m the same. I’ve been sacked off by a few people for mentioning that it’ll take a while before I meet in person.

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By *rpeggioCouple
2 weeks ago

Baughurst


"The biggest thing I've found with this site is the timewasters and wannabes. Start all chatty but the minute you ask to meet they up and ghost you. Isn't the site about meeting. "

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No, the site is not (just) about meetings for sex. It's a social site for swingers, where people can establish contact, chat, use webcams, read about club reviews, share pictures and videos, ask for advice, post stories in forums... And of course arrange meetings for sex.

Having said that, many people lie and say they want to meet but they won't. In that case, those are TWs and WBs. But not everyone here us here to meet people for sex.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think in most cases, 'time wasters' are people who are trying to let you down gently.

They no longer wish to meet you based upon either something that has been said, another look at pics, or a reconsideration of the logistics.

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