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By *J75 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent

Was out at a birthday party last night, the first time me and the ex have been out since we told everyone we were splitting up. She was chatting to a guy all night who wants to take her out (I'm cool with it) and friends were asking me what I was doing, so I told them I had joined fab . After initially shocked and laughing once I explained I don't want to get into anything serious after 30+ yr relationship that this place seemed to be perfect for what I need. To be fair they were really supportive

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By *illfife2Woman
2 weeks ago

fife

I had a few drinks with my friend and I told her I was on here, we ended up tipsy, and scrolling through all the profiles having a laugh and occasionally going oh we went to school with him, lol she was fine about it, opened her eyes a bit though

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By *J75 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent


"I had a few drinks with my friend and I told her I was on here, we ended up tipsy, and scrolling through all the profiles having a laugh and occasionally going oh we went to school with him, lol she was fine about it, opened her eyes a bit though "

I am sure in the coming weeks and months friends will be more inquisitive and asking to look through it

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
2 weeks ago

Swansea

It's good that you're able to share this with your friends.

We have a small immediate friendship group of 3 couples, that now know we are swingers. We don't share any details with them, they do tease us but not to the point where it gets annoying. I actually thinks they are intrigued to understand it but may not actually feel like they could or should ask questions.

Enjoy your Fab experience OP

Mrs

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By *J75 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent


"It's good that you're able to share this with your friends.

We have a small immediate friendship group of 3 couples, that now know we are swingers. We don't share any details with them, they do tease us but not to the point where it gets annoying. I actually thinks they are intrigued to understand it but may not actually feel like they could or should ask questions.

Enjoy your Fab experience OP

Mrs"

I am completely open about it, not quite shouting from the rooftops, but I don't have anything to hide, and find it quite cathartic

Cheers Mrs

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I don't hide that I swing, in fact even my family know. A few years ago on here something happened which made me have to tell them. They were of course a little worried about me but I'm glad I told them, now I have nothing to worry about and they support me fully.

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By *haiababeWoman
2 weeks ago

North devon

I have 3 close friends who k ow that i find my friends with benefits from here, the rest of my friends who know i am non monogamous think i still find guys on tinder.

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By *urry BlokeMan
2 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I've found people to be far more curious than they are judgey

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By *J75 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent


"I've found people to be far more curious than they are judgey "

Likewise, although a friend at work can't get his head round it I'm like it gives me a chance to try things I've never done before, and it's not affecting anyone so what's the problem?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

I've told 3 friends...

One that I know has similar views on sex to me. She wasn't surprised and knows more about ENM than I do 🤣

The other 2 are my oldest school friends. And they were surprised but not as surprised as I thought they'd be 🤣

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By *enuine MikeMan
2 weeks ago

Guildford

I've told a few of my work friends and colleagues.

Most Mondays they ask me how my weekend was and if I got upto anything spicy.

The answer is usually no and they laugh. They say I should ask for my money back as the site is not fit for purpose 😂😂

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
2 weeks ago

rochdale

I've an old friend who is on here, he told me he'd seen my profile & recognised my front room.

I've no problem with it, he knew I dressed & had sex with men anyway.

Told another friend (female) about our swinging life last year, she's fine.

Took her to a club over Xmas just so she could see how I was dressed.

All she's said is "do you play safe?"

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By *J75 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent


"I've an old friend who is on here, he told me he'd seen my profile & recognised my front room.

I've no problem with it, he knew I dressed & had sex with men anyway.

Told another friend (female) about our swinging life last year, she's fine.

Took her to a club over Xmas just so she could see how I was dressed.

All she's said is "do you play safe?""

I'd said I'd give a club a try sometime soon, to which it caused a few raised eyebrows but can't wait to give one or two clubs a try

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
2 weeks ago

rochdale


"I've an old friend who is on here, he told me he'd seen my profile & recognised my front room.

I've no problem with it, he knew I dressed & had sex with men anyway.

Told another friend (female) about our swinging life last year, she's fine.

Took her to a club over Xmas just so she could see how I was dressed.

All she's said is "do you play safe?"

I'd said I'd give a club a try sometime soon, to which it caused a few raised eyebrows but can't wait to give one or two clubs a try "

You should, if only for the social aspect. I find it very liberating, most people in clubs aren't sexually interested in me but I have a lot of inquiring conversations with ladies who are curious about my lifestyle - it's nice to be able to chat freely about it

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By *J75 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent


"I've an old friend who is on here, he told me he'd seen my profile & recognised my front room.

I've no problem with it, he knew I dressed & had sex with men anyway.

Told another friend (female) about our swinging life last year, she's fine.

Took her to a club over Xmas just so she could see how I was dressed.

All she's said is "do you play safe?"

I'd said I'd give a club a try sometime soon, to which it caused a few raised eyebrows but can't wait to give one or two clubs a try

You should, if only for the social aspect. I find it very liberating, most people in clubs aren't sexually interested in me but I have a lot of inquiring conversations with ladies who are curious about my lifestyle - it's nice to be able to chat freely about it "

I definitely will, ans I won't be going with any great expectations other than meeting some nice people

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