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By *BB1 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

milton keynes

I just went to a local pub gig, there was a really gorgeous woman there, mid 20’s I think, and she was dating the singer, late 40’s/50’s. He wasn’t an attractive man (my personal thoughts) and she was a stunner. Do you think she was dating him for him or his singing in a band?

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By *cLovin2Man
3 weeks ago

Reading

Maybe he's rich?

Maybe amazing in bed, probably not tho

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

No idea why she was dating him. I do know that there is way more to a relationship than what a person looks like.

People are attracted to lifestyle, status, money, power, security, status etc etc.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

Also he might be a really nice man

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Big bank balance or big dick...

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Maybe he's a really lovely person and really talented and treats her well and she isn't shallow? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Who knows.

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By *obilebottomMan
3 weeks ago

All over


"No idea why she was dating him. I do know that there is way more to a relationship than what a person looks like.

People are attracted to lifestyle, status, money, power, security, status etc etc. "

And sometimes a look that might be ugly to someone else but does it for them. Or the personality or how caring they are or that little freckle on their face, or, or. List is endless, isn't it really

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Next time, just ask, save you wondering.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex


"No idea why she was dating him. I do know that there is way more to a relationship than what a person looks like.

People are attracted to lifestyle, status, money, power, security, status etc etc.

And sometimes a look that might be ugly to someone else but does it for them. Or the personality or how caring they are or that little freckle on their face, or, or. List is endless, isn't it really "

Yep. People are together for all sorts of reasons and if they're happy together I don't care what the reasons are

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By *B69Woman
3 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Maybe he was just her type

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

I've had very strong connections with guys that I wouldn't have thought I'd have been interested in. The lure of an attractive personality is key for me.

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By *oveandfastWoman
3 weeks ago

Bromsgrove


"I just went to a local pub gig, there was a really gorgeous woman there, mid 20’s I think, and she was dating the singer, late 40’s/50’s. He wasn’t an attractive man (my personal thoughts) and she was a stunner. Do you think she was dating him for him or his singing in a band?"

Maybe she… I don’t know… fancies him? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I mean. Obviously looks are the only thing that matter. Maybe she just never listened to the should have gone to Specsavers line 💜

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By *ild_oatsMan
3 weeks ago

the land of saints & sinners

Not really sure what the choice of career has to do with this post….

Or even what the point of this is….

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

Maybe he's dating her.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Are you attracted to men? How do you know he wasn’t attractive? She must find him attractive if he’s her partner.

Is his unattractiveness, as perceived by you, somehow related to him being the musician? I’m struggling to understand the tie between his career choice (for all you know he could be a CEO who does this as a hobby for fun), and his attraction has to do with the tea in China in any of this?

Are you jealous that he had the pleasure of sharing experiences with this gorgeous lady? That’s the vibe you’re giving off here, and that’s unattractive.

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By *imbo365Man
3 weeks ago

Plymouth

That escalated quickly.

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
3 weeks ago

London

Having seen my very pretty wife's exes I can tell you that looks is not the most important thing to many people!

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By *avexxMan
3 weeks ago

cheshire

connection personality chemistry sense of humour,,, good on him

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By *eoBloomsMan
3 weeks ago

Springfield


"I just went to a local pub gig, there was a really gorgeous woman there, mid 20’s I think, and she was dating the singer, late 40’s/50’s. He wasn’t an attractive man (my personal thoughts) and she was a stunner. Do you think she was dating him for him or his singing in a band?"

I'm not sure OP but the last time I went to karaoke a beautiful young woman slipped her phone number into my breast pocket when I'd finished Sweet Caroline. Turned out she'd scratched my wing mirror in the pub car park but for a brief moment I knew how Mick Jagger feels.

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By *shford Guy71Man
3 weeks ago

sunbury

They say that opposites attract. They obviously just click, and it works for them.

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By *ffervescentMan
3 weeks ago

winfrith


"I just went to a local pub gig, there was a really gorgeous woman there, mid 20’s I think, and she was dating the singer, late 40’s/50’s. He wasn’t an attractive man (my personal thoughts) and she was a stunner. Do you think she was dating him for him or his singing in a band?"
I imagine she liked his creative mind look at lyall Lovett who dated Julia Robert's for a while.

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield


"I just went to a local pub gig, there was a really gorgeous woman there, mid 20’s I think, and she was dating the singer, late 40’s/50’s. He wasn’t an attractive man (my personal thoughts) and she was a stunner. Do you think she was dating him for him or his singing in a band?I imagine she liked his creative mind look at lyall Lovett who dated Julia Robert's for a while. "

They actually got married.❤️

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By *ffervescentMan
2 weeks ago

winfrith


"I just went to a local pub gig, there was a really gorgeous woman there, mid 20’s I think, and she was dating the singer, late 40’s/50’s. He wasn’t an attractive man (my personal thoughts) and she was a stunner. Do you think she was dating him for him or his singing in a band?I imagine she liked his creative mind look at lyall Lovett who dated Julia Robert's for a while.

They actually got married.❤️"
really ok I didn't know that but Julia is gorgeous.

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield


"I just went to a local pub gig, there was a really gorgeous woman there, mid 20’s I think, and she was dating the singer, late 40’s/50’s. He wasn’t an attractive man (my personal thoughts) and she was a stunner. Do you think she was dating him for him or his singing in a band?I imagine she liked his creative mind look at lyall Lovett who dated Julia Robert's for a while.

They actually got married.❤️really ok I didn't know that but Julia is gorgeous. "

Apparently still good friends.

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By *ffervescentMan
2 weeks ago

winfrith


"I just went to a local pub gig, there was a really gorgeous woman there, mid 20’s I think, and she was dating the singer, late 40’s/50’s. He wasn’t an attractive man (my personal thoughts) and she was a stunner. Do you think she was dating him for him or his singing in a band?I imagine she liked his creative mind look at lyall Lovett who dated Julia Robert's for a while.

They actually got married.❤️really ok I didn't know that but Julia is gorgeous.

Apparently still good friends."
Well that's good to know look at Gwyneth Paltrow and her ex not that either were ugly but they I think are still friends.

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Attraction is subjective and anyone's choice in a partner comes with that. I don't get how people jump to the conclusion that it's anything more than two people just loving each other for who they are.

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By *hirleyMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere


"I just went to a local pub gig, there was a really gorgeous woman there, mid 20’s I think, and she was dating the singer, late 40’s/50’s. He wasn’t an attractive man (my personal thoughts) and she was a stunner. Do you think she was dating him for him or his singing in a band?"

I find this so confusing by what the header says

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