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"My advice would be to reply if you feel it appropriate but keep it light and non committal. If you really want to know why he's contacted you ask him but it seems a bit odd to me" I felt it odd too, thanks for the advice | |||
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"Yes I’ve had this happen, can’t really give you any advice as it’s depends on how the last msgs were between you, what sort of friendship it was. I’ve had friends check in on me or they have left and come back" Our last messages were great, between us, I'll just have to see how things go. | |||
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"Loads of times. Sometimes it's been after a year or more. I'm surprised they keep my number on their phones. I delete people who don't talk to me for a while. " Yeah same here | |||
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"Bin. Block. Burn. Put me second once I’ll put you last forever. " Can you do that if you really liked them?  | |||
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"Bin. Block. Burn. Put me second once I’ll put you last forever. Can you do that if you really liked them? "I do. I don’t plant my crops in barren fields. Jesus I must sound cold! I’ve learned to call it if I’m getting bullshit and close it down. Life’s too short and happiness too fleeting to gamble on men who can’t get their own house in order. | |||
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"No advice as I find it odd too and can be very embarrassing if you don't really remember them" Well I can't forget this one, that's the trouble when we saw each other it was always great. I'm in a right quandary | |||
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"He wants sex with you. It’s that simple. " But he's with someone? | |||
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"No advice as I find it odd too and can be very embarrassing if you don't really remember them Well I can't forget this one, that's the trouble when we saw each other it was always great. I'm in a right quandary " Then it depends if you want them in your life under these circumstances or if its too painful. | |||
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"Yes, i then make out i don't know who they are and stop talking to them. 🤣🤣" The only thing to do in that situation, sorry you're who?! No, I can't recall that name, sorry.. block  | |||
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"A question for you all. Have you ever had someone who's gone quiet on you for months on end then all of a sudden out the blue messaged you asking if you're OK. I'm baffled by the fact I've had a message like this but he's also now in a relationship with someone. I understand he could be genuinely asking if I'm ok but it's confusing me. Any advice would be appreciated." If he went quite on you without reason I would give him a wide berth | |||
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"A question for you all. Have you ever had someone who's gone quiet on you for months on end then all of a sudden out the blue messaged you asking if you're OK. I'm baffled by the fact I've had a message like this but he's also now in a relationship with someone. I understand he could be genuinely asking if I'm ok but it's confusing me. Any advice would be appreciated. If he went quite on you without reason I would give him a wide berth " I had an inclination on why he went quiet | |||
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"Bin. Block. Burn. Put me second once I’ll put you last forever. " Yes to this! | |||
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"Bin. Block. Burn. Put me second once I’ll put you last forever. " Exactly this | |||
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"I stay in touch with 2 people from my past, who I had a bit of a relationship with. Just sounds like a nice guy to me, he must think of you and enjoyed the time you spent together. " Thank you, he's very much a nice guy | |||
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"Yes this happened to me, he was also in a relationship. Maybe testing the waters for some secret liaisons? " I did think this myself | |||
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"I have a couple of friends and ex playmates that keep in touch occasionally! It all depends on the context of the message or suggestive nature if you like" Yeah I get that | |||
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"Don't overthink think it You carried on with your stuff You got a message Either reply (to whatever you want) Or ignore it Not worth putting your energy on " Thank you 😊 | |||
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"Just go with the flow OP and your instinct will kick in and your answer will be there. No point of worrying about nothing Life is way too short" Thanks so much | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but if I've ever contacted a woman with whom sex was previously an option/possibility shortly after starting a new relationship it's because the relationship isn't necessarily working out and I'm keeping other options open. It's up to you and your moral compass but I'd walk away personally." That scenario has entered my head for sure | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but if I've ever contacted a woman with whom sex was previously an option/possibility shortly after starting a new relationship it's because the relationship isn't necessarily working out and I'm keeping other options open. It's up to you and your moral compass but I'd walk away personally." This. Guys pop up again after months and years all the time because they have stumbled on my number or picture. Had one or two who were in relationships and my assumption was they were either bored and looking for something on the side, or were testing the water to see what might be available if they decided to jump ship. Personally, neither option is appealing to me. | |||
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"Yes someone I was seeing about 2 year ago a few times nothing heavy, but he went quiet after a few months, I didn't think much of it i let it be, but just before Xmas he added me on Facebook I've known him since I was little so I didn't mind, we've chatted since he wants to see me, but again he's going quiet, because he's an old friend it's kind of annoying tbh not sure what to make of it" That's a tough one, it drives me mad when friends have gone quiet | |||
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