FabSwingers.com forum: Disabled Sex

By *ensual Desires OP Man
over a year ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

Would you meet a disabled person for a meet. Or is it a big no no

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By *heel markMan
over a year ago

beside the sea

Only if I can use their disabled parking bay

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

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If I was attracted to someone their disability would be irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only if I can use their disabled parking bay

Fucking hilarious...that's possibly more offensive than my post 🤣🤣 I dip my hat to you sir

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are they attractive *to me*? If yes, I'd meet them. If not I wouldn't

Socially fine

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
over a year ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

"Would you meet a disabled person for a meet. Or is it a big no no"

I sometimes get embarrassed by my disability because of the way I look and dress. I have a unique style im told

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Bradford and Stockport

It's either somebody I like or somebody I don't. Most of the rest is incidental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn’t I? I’ve had more than one sexual partner that is classed as disabled and it has no impact on my attraction to them. And I personally don’t see why it would or should 🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you meet a disabled person for a meet. Or is it a big no no

I sometimes get embarrassed by my disability because of the way I look and dress. I have a unique style im told "
meet people that like you for you. As you are. Fuck shallow people ❤️

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By *aarv80Man
over a year ago

Crumlin

People are people, everybody deserves a sex life if they are able,on whatever level they can manage.

I would not discriminate based on someone's limitations

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

By myself and blind, someone would call that a disability, I call it a setback because everything else works, I get hard, I have sexual feelings and what most people don’t realise is because I can’t see I have to lightly feel and touch which partners in the past have loved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you meet a disabled person for a meet. Or is it a big no no

I sometimes get embarrassed by my disability because of the way I look and dress. I have a unique style im told meet people that like you for you. As you are. Fuck shallow people ❤️"

Nnooooo

Don’t fuck shallow people 🤣

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

"Noooo Don’t fuck shallow people 🤣"

Maybe just the tip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you meet a disabled person for a meet. Or is it a big no no

I sometimes get embarrassed by my disability because of the way I look and dress. I have a unique style im told meet people that like you for you. As you are. Fuck shallow people ❤️

Nnooooo

Don’t fuck shallow people 🤣"
I wasn’t going to shag really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Noooo Don’t fuck shallow people 🤣

Maybe just the tip."
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Definitely don’t tip the shallow people.

I only tip the exceptional ones.

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
over a year ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

"Would you meet a disabled person for a meet. Or is it a big no no

I sometimes get embarrassed by my disability because of the way I look and dress. I have a unique style im told meet people that like you for you. As you are. Fuck shallow people ❤️"

It's the mohawk and skull trousers and tops

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By *avid 50Man
over a year ago

kendal

yes I would and it wouldn't matter if the disablement was mental or physical, we are all on here to enjoy ourselves, and actually it is fun discussing how to get over the problems before you embark on a new relationship

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Simple answer is yes.

If enjoy talking to someone, I am probably going to want to meet them. If I feel there's a mutual attraction, then I am going to want to have sex with them.

I have cPTSD and I tend to get along well with people who can relate to that or are empathetic and self-aware.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

Yes. I like decent people and if mutually compatible, we'd meet

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By *ildTimes.Man
over a year ago

Wherever I May Roam

How disabled? ....

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
over a year ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

Any disability

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By *aughtydealcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Walmer, Deal

Yes we would and have meet people with disabilities makes no difference to us as we have our disabilities to deal with

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

J is disabled and I have ADHD. We meet disabled and neurodiverse people if the vibe is right.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Here for the comments 🧐♿

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't love "disabled sex" as a category. I meet people. Some have different physical and psychological makeups.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I have and would as long as there's a mutual attraction there and we like eachother. There is a lot more to attraction than whether someone is able bodied or neurotypical.

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By *enandjerryCouple
over a year ago

Castle Douglas

Disabled is such a blanket term, can cover so many things, Jerry is classed as “disabled” due to ongoing issues with her knees but doesn’t affect fab fun in any way!

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

Gotta say, my cub loves my blue badge more than he loves me 🤣🤣🤣

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By *enandjerryCouple
over a year ago

Castle Douglas

"Gotta say, my cub loves my blue badge more than he loves me 🤣🤣🤣"

Gotta love those big parking spaces 😂😂

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

"Gotta say, my cub loves my blue badge more than he loves me 🤣🤣🤣

Gotta love those big parking spaces 😂😂"

Exactly, stops him worrying about his boy racer car getting scratched 🤣

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"By myself and blind, someone would call that a disability, I call it a setback because everything else works, I get hard, I have sexual feelings and what most people don’t realise is because I can’t see I have to lightly feel and touch which partners in the past have loved"

How do you manage with text? Does your computer have a text to speech facility?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes as long as v clear beforehand as to disability just standard openness

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

"I don't love "disabled sex" as a category. I meet people. Some have different physical and psychological makeups. "

Totally agree as will many, but there are some for whom meeting a disabled person/couple/interabled couple is actually a big no no

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By *akegarda2023Couple
over a year ago

London

Yes, of course

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I don't love "disabled sex" as a category. I meet people. Some have different physical and psychological makeups.

Totally agree as will many, but there are some for whom meeting a disabled person/couple/interabled couple is actually a big no no"

Yeah. And some who do and then it's weird. (I'm autistic and have an invisible physical disability) I'd rather know and give them a wide berth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *imandher14Couple
over a year ago

Earth

Disabled covers a lot

I have a work colleague who has type

One dibates and they are classified as Disabled .

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By *vaRoseWoman
over a year ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Disabled covers a lot

I have a work colleague who has type

One dibates and they are classified as Disabled ."

Do you think they shouldn’t be?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Disabled covers a vast array of things, it depends on the person not their disability.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of the word disabled.

If I find the person attractive and they find me attractive, thats all that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met 3 disabled people for sex as couples and in their own. I really enjoyed and so did they

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
over a year ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

It's so refreshing to see the lack of discrimination in this group. Most people see a walking stick and then don't show

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

It’s not the disability it’s the person you look at

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

On here, I'd be unlikely to meet someone with a visible disability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Noooo Don’t fuck shallow people 🤣

Maybe just the tip."

Apologises...for I have been distracted! 😈

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By *ananabrumMan
over a year ago

castle bromwich

Depends on the disability to be honest. I Wouldn't have any issues with vast majority of disabilities, but certain severe ones such as full body paralysis i couldn't, i'd feel like im taking advantage of the person and that wouldn't sit right with me.

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By *l1 guyMan
over a year ago

Slough

I have a partial disability, have had major heart surgery twice which resulted in a stroke. Had a meet on here once and they were put off as soon as took my top off to see a 12 inch scar down my chest and a very slim build. Made me very self conscious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

I wouldn’t meet anyone with a serious mental health disability, schizophrenia, sociopath, manic depression etc.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have health conditions, these are invisible and, unless I know someone well I do not discuss them. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not the disability it’s the person you look at"
exactly.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"It’s not the disability it’s the person you look at exactly. "

And if a ‘person’ has a disability, then you will be looking at the disability aswell.

It doesn’t go away by pretending you can’t see it.

Be a grown up and deal with it, and if you don’t feel you can, be a grown up and say you can’t.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Not a fan of the word disabled.

If I find the person attractive and they find me attractive, thats all that counts."

Why aren't you a fan of the word disabled? It's a reality, a truth. I subscribe to the social model of disability - in my wheelchair, I am disabled by the structural obstacles that confront me all the time, everywhere. I am disabled. It's a fact.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"It’s not the disability it’s the person you look at exactly.

And if a ‘person’ has a disability, then you will be looking at the disability aswell.

It doesn’t go away by pretending you can’t see it.

Be a grown up and deal with it, and if you don’t feel you can, be a grown up and say you can’t.

I think this is the first time, but bravo! Totally hits the nail on the head.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It’s not the disability it’s the person you look at exactly.

And if a ‘person’ has a disability, then you will be looking at the disability aswell.

It doesn’t go away by pretending you can’t see it.

Be a grown up and deal with it, and if you don’t feel you can, be a grown up and say you can’t.

Exactly this.

Im not sure really. Mental health problems, no I wouldn’t meet them. Physically, I suppose it depends what it was to be honest.

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By *he RookMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

Depends on the disability

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"It’s not the disability it’s the person you look at exactly.

And if a ‘person’ has a disability, then you will be looking at the disability aswell.

It doesn’t go away by pretending you can’t see it.

Be a grown up and deal with it, and if you don’t feel you can, be a grown up and say you can’t.

I think this is the first time, but bravo! Totally hits the nail on the head."

Damn, looks like my account must have been hacked, normal service will shortly resume.

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By *oe WestMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Over the time I have been on Fab, I have met several who are disabled, we have always enjoyed a chat first to get to know each other as it's not always about jumping straight into bed, once we are all relaxed we have taken it to the next level.

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By *unguy85300Man
over a year ago

ilkeston

I’d meet you gladly you look 🔥🔥🔥🔥x

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By *neArmHandymanMan
33 weeks ago

cardiff

I have one arm, I do worry about my appearance especially as im getting older but I’ve been on the sight for over 18 yrs

It’s about how you portray yourself and don’t think of yourself as being disabled. That’s society talk.. I’ve learned how to do mechanics

Landscape gardening ie. Fencing , laying turf, brickwork. Interior/exterior diy. The list goes on but it’s taken me thirty years or more

And if all else fails take the piss out of yourself

I’ve heard it all and said worse about myself more than anyone else could

My fantasy is to have a woman use my stump for a dildo lol

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By *cottish guy 555Man
33 weeks ago

London

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If I was attracted to someone their disability would be irrelevant."

This.

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By *lex487Man
33 weeks ago

Glos/Wilts

Yes. No problem.

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By *andJLondonCouple
33 weeks ago

London

When I saw this thread, I was unsure how to feel about it. I am disabled (hidden and physical) and have felt wary about sharing this, but do on our profile (I use a crutch/stick) and have limited mobility. But it's been nice to read this thread and find fellow disabled fabbers and allies. Hello everyone.

We have been on fab a while. We don't do clubs etc cause I can't. We have met friends on here and a FWB (woman).

We are looking for a couple FWB, but we know it takes time and patience for us to find connections for three or four of us, but hey ho, we aren't in a rush.

Thanks for opening up the discussion here. And we are a couple: I am a disabled person and he is non-disabled as yet - we're both getting older now, so who knows what is around the corner.

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By *aul 767Man
33 weeks ago

BIRMINGHAM

Over the years I have had partners who are disabled and the sex has been amazing. I wouldn't hesitate to meet anyone with a disability as long as we enjoy similar interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I met a lovely girl in a wheelchair once, we had lots of fun. I don't deliberately look for them but if we hit it off I have no problems.

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By *elboy1978Man
33 weeks ago

Jarrow

Yes I would

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By *neArmHandymanMan
18 weeks ago

cardiff

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By *ndian_jmCouple
18 weeks ago

Wigston

Yes why not wish people would stop label just enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Yes of course,I wouldn't see it as a problem

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Motherwell

Yes I have had very enjoyable sex meetings with disabled guys. Mx 👿🍆

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By *q33Man
1 week ago

Chester

I would as well as I’m disabled

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